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Why is it males up for fun, meet up chat, spend 5 mins playing cum and go, when you areexpecting a long slow night of pure sex filled pleasure and enjoyment and more than one cum from them, any one got the answer.
J n B
Your playing with the wrong males
Maybe it performance related or perhaps they are embarresed that they came so quick so then leave. Quite possibly they just wanted to empty thier nads. Every man is different some can do it multiple times some cant and each man has a different expectation from you.
Maybe you should try looking for ads that state repeater and all nighter. May not be true but worth a look I suppose.
Mr Tweeky
well if you ever get up lincolnshire hun,hav a look my way,im an insomniac and thered b plenty of cummin n goin but not the sort u describe lol :lol: :lol:
maybe you are just too feckin sexy hun dunno
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Do we hear music played by the males
Shame they ca'nt hold there end up more than once,
well the ones we normally no can
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odd one or two bolt :bolt: for the door as soon as they cum ( 3 mins) is that a record for a male.
J n B
last night was my all time record,, 1 hr n 3 mins!!but thats only cos the clock went forward!!! redface surprisedops: :oops: lol :lol: :lol:
Maybe the wash and go advert had a big affect on thier life.
Mr Tweeky
Thats where the shampoo came from.
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Thats where the shampoo came from.
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and they do say its good for the hair :shock: Could also be the fast food convenience culture. I'll shut up now smile
Mr Tweeky
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What if you have no hair.
J n B
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:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
What if you have no hair.
J n B

Better watch out for seaguls. Same isnt it realy, they are only after your chips and they feck off as soon as they get one.
Mr Tweeky
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bolt for an umbrella.
J n B
As Trapper said, you're probably meeting the wrong blokes. The down side of the adverts is it's a magnet for the quick shag idiots whose only aim is to put another notch on the bedpost or simply relieve their 'stress'. It does get stated with regular frequency that the forum and munches are the best place to find people, you have an idication of their personality from their postings and the phrase 'you get out what you put in' does seem to work (in my opinion as a single male). although i've had to leave meets by a certain time because of other commitments, i always make sure i've got at least 3-4 hours available for it for two reasons, 1. I usually pick my encounters well and like to be asked back 2. women talk to each other (a lot) if your a crap and selfish shag, you'll need to work increasingly harder to get a meet if you get a bad reputation, but if you're good this also becomes known about, and who's going to say no to great sex if you fit their criteria for a meet.
I can only speak as a single male who, hopefully, manages to stand out above the wasters and morons that give us a bad name at times but this seems to work for me (when i stop posting bolox long enough to remember it's a swingers site redface ) and always seem to get asked back for seconds :rascal:
So stick in the Cafe, study the form ot the runners and rider, place yer bet and hopefully you'll find you've backed a winner
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As Trapper said, you're probably meeting the wrong blokes. The down side of the adverts is it's a magnet for the quick shag idiots whose only aim is to put another notch on the bedpost or simply relieve their 'stress'. It does get stated with regular frequency that the forum and munches are the best place to find people, you have an idication of their personality from their postings and the phrase 'you get out what you put in' does seem to work (in my opinion as a single male). although i've had to leave meets by a certain time because of other commitments, i always make sure i've got at least 3-4 hours available for it for two reasons, 1. I usually pick my encounters well and like to be asked back 2. women talk to each other (a lot) if your a crap and selfish shag, you'll need to work increasingly harder to get a meet if you get a bad reputation, but if you're good this also becomes known about, and who's going to say no to great sex if you fit their criteria for a meet.
I can only speak as a single male who, hopefully, manages to stand out above the wasters and morons that give us a bad name at times but this seems to work for me (when i stop posting bolox long enough to remember it's a swingers site redface ) and always seem to get asked back for seconds :rascal:
So stick in the Cafe, study the form ot the runners and rider, place yer bet and hopefully you'll find you've backed a winner

No praise like self praise lol so when can we expect a munch in the SN10 area then M8 rotflmao (its ok I'm pissed, feel free to ignore rolleyes)
stop hiding behind that scaffolding pole pete, you're wasting away to nothing on that diet flipa
The sort of thread that makes me sigh.I am delighted to take part in hours of prolonged play and lots of repeated cumming all of communication,smiles and laughter have your waves of building up and cumming then go calm after until ready to go into the next.
I'm baffled by a guy who gets as far as that only to cum and dash off!
rolleyes
Tipical. You can not please all of the women all of the time.
Try a role reversal and look at it from the analogous male point of view. wink
phredd
hmm, i spent a wonderfull 4hours with a lovely lady last week, yes, 4 hours in bed, i have been asked by her if i will see her again, well of course i will, but whats the point of this rambling....not all of us are shag -and -go's...the longer the better is my motto, so just keep looking, you will find someone soon...try meaty perhaps????
Quote by Trapper
Your playing with the wrong males

dit -o
Quote by JnBwelshcpl
:violin: :violin: :violin: :violin:
Do we hear music played by the males
Shame they ca'nt hold there end up more than once,
well the ones we normally no can
:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
odd one or two bolt :bolt: for the door as soon as they cum ( 3 mins) is that a record for a male.
J n B

Now you are playing with the wrong males!
Quote by JnBwelshcpl
Why is it males up for fun, meet up chat, spend 5 mins playing cum and go, when you areexpecting a long slow night of pure sex filled pleasure and enjoyment and more than one cum from them, any one got the answer.
J n B

Yes, maybe you should revise your expectations and spend longer chatting and getting to know them.
Well I have to confess that I tend to cum pretty quickly the first time with a new partner. But the last lady I spent an afternoon with got it three more times, and I came for two of them. So it's to a certain extent up to the lady as well.
Anyway there are lots of other fun things you can do even if he can't get it rock hard again, as I'm sure we all know wink
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Anyway there are lots of other fun things you can do even if he can't get it rock hard again, as I'm sure we all know wink

Absolutely.
Now this thread can only turn into 'well pick me, pick me - I can make you come baby, I can go for hours, I can get it hard in seconds' rolleyes Goody.
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Anyway there are lots of other fun things you can do even if he can't get it rock hard again, as I'm sure we all know wink

Absolutely.
Now this thread can only turn into 'well pick me, pick me - I can make you come baby, I can go for hours, I can get it hard in seconds' rolleyes Goody.
did i mention my 18" cock and tongue like an anteater? dunno
Quote by meat2pleaseu

Anyway there are lots of other fun things you can do even if he can't get it rock hard again, as I'm sure we all know wink

Absolutely.
Now this thread can only turn into 'well pick me, pick me - I can make you come baby, I can go for hours, I can get it hard in seconds' rolleyes Goody.
did i mention my 18" cock and tongue like an anteater? dunno
lol :lol: Nutter!
Quote by freckledbird

Anyway there are lots of other fun things you can do even if he can't get it rock hard again, as I'm sure we all know wink

Absolutely.
Now this thread can only turn into 'well pick me, pick me - I can make you come baby, I can go for hours, I can get it hard in seconds' rolleyes Goody.
did i mention my 18" cock and tongue like an anteater? dunno
lol :lol: Nutter!
but i still don't get any respose to my ad, what am i doing wrong?
(ps, does my bum look big in this?)
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but i still don't get any respose to my ad, what am i doing wrong?
(ps, does my bum look big in this?)

Ahhhh, you haven't started a 'what's wrong with my ad/cock/tongue/pics' thread. wink
Oooooooo and don't forget to go for the 'us poor single guys' sympathy type whinge.
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rolleyes
Tipical. You can not please all of the women all of the time.
Try a role reversal and look at it from the analogous male point of view. wink
phredd

dont you just love these long words :doh:
i would just like the chance to cum and go i must not be meeting the right women dunno
hey i havent met a women yet innocent
Quote by skiver
rolleyes
Tipical. You can not please all of the women all of the time.
Try a role reversal and look at it from the analogous male point of view. wink
phredd

dont you just love these long words :doh:
i would just like the chance to cum and go i must not be meeting the right women dunno
hey i havent met a women yet innocent
What long words? confused