To find a single guy..............guess this kinda links in with the cheating thread. My needs are simple a single male to meet n have sex with , but no matter how precise my profile is they do seem to be as elusive as rockin horse poo.
You would be suprised then to hear that at a rough guess I would say that at least 70% of "single" males are far from single, it does leave a reasonable percentage to explore ,alas locally it seems the odds are less
Mmmm.... surely you cannot be surpised, I mean...really are you honestly surprised.
In my experience, most of the couples on here are single men, and most of the men are on here for cheap thrills and not serious.
You cannot seriously tell me that you come to a swinging site on the internet, to find a single bloke to fulfil your needs... and then are surprised that most of the "single" men are either not serious, nor single.
The site is great for what it is - and that's what we take it for... what it is.
If a guy says he is single - then he is single (clearly he is probably lying, but if you are after no strings fun and excitement - then what difference does it make).
Clearly if you are looking for a bit of honesty and genuine sincerity (which is not unreasonable), then perhaps there are better places to look than here.
In all fairness, it is dead easy to lie on the net, if you have managed to catch anyone out then that is for one of two reasons - either they are stupid or you are particularly astute. Similarly if they have managed to get one over on you, then either they are deceptive or you are particularly slow.
It is hard to find what you are looking for on here - because it does not exist in particularly large numbers.
All men are single
Some are more single than others......
Going by your membership length and variety of meets and experiences; i'd say you're an accomplished swinger who's been around the block. and as such should know how things work.
What has been wrong with any of the guys you have tried to make things work with? there's plenty of fine fellows out there.
And if they know you; then they probably just aren't interested.
As I am not looking to "make things work" with anyone but looking for occasional sex it could be that as you say I have been around the block once or twice and as on the whole I am limited to a specific area it could be that less single guys are available for nsa sex.
I must admit living in the same area I cant say i've had a problem finding single guys.
maybe its the timing of the meet, are you arranging them up front or is it the 'I am horny come shag me now' feeling you need satisfying.
the pre-arranged meet is easier to get a response than the shag me this minute one as you are limited to who is around in chat etc at that immediate time rather than a weeks notice for a lot more men to see the meet request.
and if its just casual sex now and again, does it matter that they are not single if they are honest.
I agree once upon a time , the north east room used to be busy , plenty of people looking for meets , both day time and night. More recently you could swing a pride of lions round in it never mind a cat. The single/married question matters to me it never used to I have to be honest I must be getting soft in my old age.
he is out there ready for you now............
you don't know where he is or what he looks like ............
but its a start............
Hmmmm.......
so if a Single guy works weekends and was actually only available in the weekday.. would this make you think he was cheating?
i'll add my views as a single male.
like a lot of couples complain that "guys expect you to meet at the drop of the hat"... there are a lot of couples that expect that of Single guys or Girls when they have all of a sudden got a "free weekend". just because we are single.. it doesn't meant we are free 100% of the time... Work, family, prior Non Swinging arrangements.
the only way to find the good single guys.. is to chat to them, and watch how they chat to others... the decent Single guys will make the effort to get to know people, they know that to get a "meets" you need to put the effort in, they will also chat to both parts of a couple, and not just the female there are a lot of decent single guys about, and we are not all liars, cheats and carrying the plague. (some of us.. do actually know how to tell the truth)
Just all goes to show perceptions are exactly just that at the end of the day, who would have thought in all honesty that swinging would have any difficulties at all associated with it after all its billed as nsa fun and frolicks, guess I for one forget at times that theres real life outside my own bubble.
Single guys!
Well they are 10 a penny when you don't want or need them, and nowhere to be found when you do.
This really was not meant to be a bash the "single" fella thread just I personally feel that there aren't that many in my locality
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