Hi Onlyme, sorry to hear about these bad experiences of yours. Did you know there are a number of MSN communities specifically for BBWs and their male admirers? They don't suit every larger woman's taste, some would not want to be "ghettoised", but for many they are a valuable source of mutual support for larger women, as well as an opportunity to chat with and even meet up with men who are attracted to larger women. And they have group meets as well. I can give you details of one or two I know of if you wish.
Mike.
I am sorry that you have not had a good responce ,i cannot understand why?
dress sizes dont interest me that much ,you can be attractive no matter what
you look like
hope you have more luck soon
i could do with it i have been trying to get into the chatroom all night
take care
robbo
This is always going to be a tricky one over the net. I myself am a member of several of the groups that Mike is talking about - but I can see why many would not want to feel "ghettoised" (great word).
I feel comfortable there because I am self conscious about my size - and am always very cautious of misrepresenting myself to people. Even after I've shown people my pictures I go to great lengths to say what size I am and do they really realise what size that is - because I am so worried about getting to the point of meeting someone and them then deciding I'm too fat.
One of the greatest things about the human race is its diversity. And as you so rightly say yourself it is all down to personal taste. There will be plenty of times when you will reject men for various reasons - which they may sometimes think are unfair.
You'll soon find an gorgeous guy who feels the same way about you.
Cheers (from the Ghetto)
CQ
hello again
i think a womans body is far more a ttractive than an mans- i do agree that women are more self concious about them selfs and how they look-
if you now any thing about buildings -you can see what i mean
take the pompado centre in paris allthe services are on the out side like a male
a female like a smoothe exterior say la pedrea in Barcelona very curvy sexy
looks right .
robbo
I'm not even going to answer that reply
Oops....I just did!
I don't think you have anything to despair about, A good friend of mine is in a similar situation to you, she is a bigger girl, and VERY self conscious about it (she has a thyroid problem).
Anyways she has used one of these internet dating sites and has moaned to me a lot about the tossers that use it, then one day she went to a speed dating thing. Now she has a really infectious personality and this seemed to work for her.. Which brings me to my point.
Its difficult for a person to see past the 'visual' when they are using the internet, but when she was at this speed dating thing they got to see the real her, the complete package, and soon men were flocking.
My advice,
Chin up.. Be happy with yourself and the rest will follow, I know that not all men are into perfect size 10's
Sean
I feel compelled to say that from what I can see of CQ (if that avatar is indeed you) there is absolutely nothing wrong with your size are you one of the women who are constantly dieting to get the type of figure that everyone else see they already have?
As for you onlyme, seems proportional to me, as The Beuatiful South said;
"Ev'ry penny don't fit the slot.
Ah, the anorexic chicks,
The model six,
They don't hold no weight with me,
Well, eight or nine,
Well, that's just fine,
But I like to hold something I can see.
'Cause we love our love,
In diff'rent sizes,"
And I'd just like to clarify that I'm not just saying this so that I can shag Vix!
:lol: :lol: 
:? :? 
8-) 8-)
