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Why won't people believe me!

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I sent a photo to somebody in response to an ad i have on here. For some reason they doesn't believe it's me. redface I had the same pic on my messenger profile and nobody believed me then either.
I'm not sure if they think that i couldn't possibly be that sexy, or maybe they think nobody could be that repulsive!!! I don't know, but why don't they believe me? mad
All i want is a good time, 69position yet i feel that i have to constantly explain myself.
I might just give up :!:
OKay Karrie so you want some sort of approval here? so what is the ad number.... sure peeps here will be referee for you...
so post the number and approval will be yours!!
Gmanxxx
being helpful .... honest
The photo isn't on the ad. When they responded to the ad i sent the photo. I'm not looking for approval, i just thought that we were all adults on here, and were passed the adolescent stage of having to try and kid anyone about our bodies. I sent the pic so they know what to expect if/when we met up, but if at this early stage they think i'm a liar i won't bother. I'll stay faithful to the rabbit, he knows me inside and out :!:
Thanks Andy. I owe you one! hump And don't worry, i haven't forgotten about you biggrin
Karrie.... seems to me that that is their loss...
I suppose on a site such as this there is a degree of suspicion as well as a whole load of time wasters and pic collectors.
I suppose thing is you should just keep plugging along .... am sure some peeps will believe you .... and not believe their good fortune in connecting with you
Keep the faith Karrie..
Gmanxxx
Hiya Carrie
I can sympathise. If you are stunning as I suspect you are, people will assume you are telling porkies - so unfair. Mind you sometimes they say they dont believe you just to try and get you to send more pics.
But I must admit I've have lots of real pics of me on my avatars that at least now the people I care about know what I look like!
Well I wish you well and stick with it. If they are so suspicious - that is their loss!
hugs,
Alex x x
Karrie
You don't need to explain yourself - its not you that has the problem
Did the world stop spinning because nobody believed in gravity?
Eventually the truth came out! lol and so did you ;)
There's lots of good people here ....... revel in it!
xx
Thanks alex. I wouldn't mind so much, but i'm not stunning, just pretty average i think. I've seen your avatar pics biggrin and people seem to believe that it is you, so why don't they believe me? I was going to put the pic on my avatar, somebody kindly resized it for me, but i still couldnt do it and deleted it. I wish i had done it now. I should wear it loud and proud and if people don't like it they can sod off!
Thanks feenix!!!! (i'm having trouble keeping up)
Is that really you in the avatar alex? I dont believe it :!:
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Karrie go for the Avatar... no the current Alex aint the real one.... there have been many real ones but at 2045 on06/02/04 she is not that well endowed woman...
Alex is a wicked woman with a wicked smile.... but salt of the earth to boot...
so go on Karrie be your self and stufff the doubters
Gmanxxxx
Absolutely Carrie.
Be yourself and if people dont like it - that is their problem!
How's Brannigans and Runours these days?
It's ages since I've been to Funny Girls too!
Thanks gman, i might go with the avatar, keep an eye out!
As for rumours and brannigans, i dont get out much, havent been to either for years!!!! I'm planning to take hubby to funny girls soon, he's never had the pleasure!
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no the current Alex aint the real one.... there have been many real ones but at 2045 on06/02/04 she is not that well endowed woman...

That's right 34AAA here!
Alex, you change your avatar more than i change my underwear lol
So please, now that i've said that, make sure you change it at least every day! :shock:
lol - ok Karrie - you have my word!
Karrie ... trust me she will and does... I have already had words privately.... I have to do the washing round here.... so long as it is not Alex with the massive tits I can live... they scare me... suspect she does it to worry me...
mind you that said Karrie I wonder if Alex's avatars are an undies substitute!!!
just a thought
Gmanxxx
Karrie, getting back to the serious purpose of this thread, I also have the same problem. Every time I send a photo people don't believe it is me. They think I have pinched a photo of a male model off the internet!!
I have found a solution to the problem now............................................
..............I just send a photo of Gman!!! lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
I still don't receive a reply but at least I now know why !!!
Yeah but Sarge.... when they do get me the ladies get my slow hand...
Gmanxxx
I've got a cracking photo of me: just managed to erase the 'Wanted' bit with my computer. It has scrubbed up fairly well. So, what do I do now? I've air-brushed the scars and smallpox marks, de-shined the shaven pate, softened the mad, staring eyes, edited in one or two teeth, and erased the 'Death' tattoo from my forehead. Is this enough?
I really would value suggestions, as I only have a couple of days 'home-leave' left before I have to return to 'The House of Many Windows'
hi karrie,
i sympathize with your plight
i've been doing a bit of dating through personal ads of late, and i've yet to come across an accurate description of my potential date...
people seem incapable of telling the truth about themselves. 35 means 50. slim means overweight. and good looking..... well, i'm sure their mother thinks that they're good looking but i certainly haven't. but then i'm probably the fussiest man on the planet.
every one has been a blind date, either they don't have a photo, or they don't have the technology. i've been on that many dates, where i end up making small talk for an hour, when if i'd seen their photo beforehand we could have saved the price of our tall cappuccino and done something more stimulating on our own.
so send your phioto and if people don't believe you, then screw 'em.... or rather, NOT.
karrie if people are reluctant to accept that the picture you send them is really you, maybe it's because they are big fibbers themselves.
hope you manage to find what you're looking for.
i haven't checked out your ad myself, but if you take part in this forum.....then you must be beautiful!!!!
bed head. sadder and wiser and several cappuccinos poorer.
karrie (did i spell that right) im totally new to the site and i read your post , you must be sick and tired of ppl that dont beleive u well if anyone dont ....fuck them (not literally of course ) theyre not worth the bother if theyre not gonna be grown ups!!
take it easy
xxxx
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........i've yet to come across an accurate description of my potential date... people seem incapable of telling the truth about themselves. 35 means 50. slim means overweight. and good looking..... .

All I can say bedhead - if I'm asked for my description then it reads something on the lines of ....
"old bag in disguise .... midget with redhair :silly: , NOT slim dunno , big boobs, wobbly bum :kissmyarse: n tum "... and my pics will back me up !
In my defence I do have a warped smackbottom sense of humour whip 'n a dirty laugh :rascal: rotflmao ....
Quote by bed head
........every one has been a blind date, either they don't have a photo, or they don't have the technology....

not me .... I wouldn't dream of meeting someone that hadn't sent me a pic ... I like to know who I'm meeting .... I've heard some horror stories !! :dry:
karrie - I'm sure you will find what you're looking for - you sound lovely smile
Lucy kiss
Lucy!!!!!
You have just described me perfectly! we must be twins!
Lucy.. I find your description attractive. It says that you're a fun person. People who laugh at themselves are great to be with 69position
Quote by Alexandra
You have just described me perfectly! we must be twins!

you're too kind alex but then you're from the northwest as well wink ;)
Quote by Busy bloke
..... People who laugh at themselves are great to be with

Thank you ...but the flip side to that comment is that people like me, who laugh at themselves, tend to do it as a self defence mechanism ...... if i make fun of me first - then when someone else does it, the remarks won't hurt me as much! : confused
Lucy kiss
i cant get an avtar on sad the size limit is too small.
307 - use a picture editing software packge (eg MS photo editor) and 'resize' the pic.
Quote by lucyslovely
if i make fun of me first - then when someone else does it, the remarks won't hurt me as much! : confused

Its true and its a hard habit to break once you get into it... I know cause I'm a fat ugly git that no one could ever love...
Well thats what I thought until I met my wife. smile
I thought I was fat that is, until she started looking after me too well and I put a few more pounds on... Boo hoo!
But seriously, when you are bullied and put down, you either become a comedian or you become a basketcase.. I think I am a bit of both, but not such a bad egg either.
It certainly gives you an appreciation of peoples feelings, and how easily people can be hurt. Surely its more rewarding and challenging to make someone feel good and give pleasure isnt it? Thats my raison detre.
Hiya Andy!
Nice to see you back!
I'm always one to take the micky out of myself too!
Disguises my lack of self confidence!
Well I'm off to the states - I gotta go pack.
Take care all - see you again soon.
Hugs,
Alex x
Flipping heck!! Was it something I said?
Talk about giving a guy a complex! I come back to the site, and 5 mins later you tell me you are leaving the country!!!
{Sniff. Sob!} BOO HOO!