Isn't this just like saying if they can't be arsed to pay for full membership they aint worth talking to?
After all thats all non paying members can really do? The majority of posters on the forums didn't have to and joined the site when it was free.
But like some have said, why do full members send out winks, especialy ones asking members to look at profiles when they don't have one?
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Sexlightened
It would be helpfull if you could easily see from their profile whether they were a freebie or a premium member.
I got my first wink two weeks ago 
Of a bloke :lol:
Anyway is it only extras members whou can edit the wink text
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If it is then thats part of the problem. I think all members free or paying should have that feature
I looked at mine and if i was ever looking for anything using this means i would modify it to send some kind of mini bio out. Iwould even change the subject kine as then youd never differentiate a wink from normal mail unless you looked at the stats on profile
Of a bloke :lol:
Anyway is it only extras members whou can edit the wink text
:If it is then thats part of the problem. I think all members free or paying should have that feature
I looked at mine and if i was ever looking for anything using this means i would modify it to send some kind of mini bio out. Iwould even change the subject kine as then youd never differentiate a wink from normal mail unless you looked at the stats on profile
Quote by TimandLene
We actually say on our ad that winks are ok.
I didn't know that the basic freebie members could wink.
I think the problem there is that even if you do reply to them, the system is going to delete any contact information you give.
Is this really so ... that SH deletes the contact information?
I have been trying to communicate with a lady who winks at me but my contact details do not reach her, yet the AUP states: 'Posting a telephone number, email address or other contact information anywhere within the forum, stories section, chat room, member profile, photo ads, or any other public area. Contact details can only be exchanged through Private Messages.'
This is what I have tried to do, but without success. Does anyone know the answer?
Sex God
Quote by Philfuller
We actually say on our ad that winks are ok.
I didn't know that the basic freebie members could wink.
I think the problem there is that even if you do reply to them, the system is going to delete any contact information you give.
Is this really so ... that SH deletes the contact information?
I have been trying to communicate with a lady who winks at me but my contact details do not reach her, yet the AUP states: 'Posting a telephone number, email address or other contact information anywhere within the forum, stories section, chat room, member profile, photo ads, or any other public area. Contact details can only be exchanged through Private Messages.'
This is what I have tried to do, but without success. Does anyone know the answer?
Yes the auto thingymajig deletes email addresses etc.
Warming the Bed
Well, I think winks are cute and completely inoffensive, and are a perfect way for the more shy curvaceous cutie to make make contact with me, so there!
Can anyone else wink with both eyes? (not at the same time, that's a blink!) I spent quite a few weeks of my youth mastering the art
TTFN, just going to get a life,
Eotykus J. Heuristic
Can anyone else wink with both eyes? (not at the same time, that's a blink!) I spent quite a few weeks of my youth mastering the art
TTFN, just going to get a life,
Eotykus J. Heuristic
Quote by Erotykus
Well, I think winks are cute and completely inoffensive, and are a perfect way for the more shy curvaceous cutie to make make contact with me, so there!
Can anyone else wink with both eyes? (not at the same time, that's a blink!) I spent quite a few weeks of my youth mastering the art
TTFN, just going to get a life,
Eotykus J. Heuristic
A wink is cuter in person!
Warming the Bed
Quote by anais
Well, I think winks are cute and completely inoffensive, and are a perfect way for the more shy curvaceous cutie to make make contact with me, so there!
Can anyone else wink with both eyes? (not at the same time, that's a blink!) I spent quite a few weeks of my youth mastering the art
TTFN, just going to get a life,
Eotykus J. Heuristic
A wink is cuter in person!
I'm not sure that winking in the real world is within the scope of this topic.
However, you are quite correct, and it is a most useful tool to communicate anything from little a mirth to reinforcing a little purposeful innuendo, which can lead to the most pleasureful state of hedonistic arousal, sometimes referred to as sloopyfarkle, of the erogenous areas.
Thank you for your most kind and intellectual observation and please feel free to join me on my quest for a life anytime, your charming company is always appreciated.
Erotykus J. Heuristic
Quote by Erotykus
Well, I think winks are cute and completely inoffensive, and are a perfect way for the more shy curvaceous cutie to make make contact with me, so there!
Can anyone else wink with both eyes? (not at the same time, that's a blink!) I spent quite a few weeks of my youth mastering the art
TTFN, just going to get a life,
Eotykus J. Heuristic
A wink is cuter in person!
I'm not sure that winking in the real world is within the scope of this topic.
However, you are quite correct, and it is a most useful tool to communicate anything from little a mirth to reinforcing a little purposeful innuendo, which can lead to the most pleasureful state of hedonistic arousal, sometimes referred to as sloopyfarkle, of the erogenous areas.
Thank you for your most kind and intellectual observation and please feel free to join me on my quest for a life anytime, your charming company is always appreciated.
Erotykus J. Heuristic
Your quite right Eotykus..... topic wasnt about real life winks! I wont go off topic again! :wink:
For those who appreciate a sloopyfarkle, it is best enjoyed very slowely after dinner!
xanaisx
Warming the Bed
Here's my last 29 winks for today!! Didn't realise it was National Winking Day till gone 11pm :cry:
It's a bit pointless winking in the dark, need more notice next time please.
Must dash, I feel a sloopy farkle coming on :mrgreen:
Erotykus J. Heuristic
It's a bit pointless winking in the dark, need more notice next time please.
Must dash, I feel a sloopy farkle coming on :mrgreen:
Erotykus J. Heuristic
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Quote by markz
Ive found out that some people who say they don't reply to winks actually do.............
They're automated replies, Markz
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