If you mean winks you have sent to people, there isn't a way.
The people you wink, may have the winks set to auto responder!! and will never know you have winked.
Much as Sarah said. Assuming you are relatively new to the site, you may wanna check out the guides. Winks dont tend to go down very well. There are also lots of forum threads about how to settle in that you may find useful.
Welcome to the forums and good luck.
Ben
thanks for the advice but it does not help, I am not sending winks I have receive two and wish to look at them, know where and who they are from. why have them if you cant look at them. hard site to use this and hard to find out these things. Thanks for welcome and I do mean that.
Winks will appear in your pm inbox providing you haven't got autorespond activated in which case the system will automatically respond and you will never know the wink was there...