It's not just you.
However we have had such a meet.
Bollox to the ads, IMHO. Just get chatty in here... works wonders.
off at a tangent...
I'm *astonished* at single females. Good luck to them, but Jeez...lamb in the woods or what?
Flame suit on.
well we have had one such meet ourselves but then thats in 18 months of using sh but not had many replies from adds we have answered even the thanks but no thanks are better than no reply at all lol
It just take time, like others have said.
Join in the chatter on the forum and chat room and who knows what may happen
Thanx for responses so far,we are occasionaly in the chatroom and forums,but will try do it more have also put name down for wigan munch so hopefully meet up soon xx
Still not 1 single response (Jane is getting paranoid its her pics..) but we still looking on bright side and keeping up to date with the hopefullyu speak to you all soon xxx
We realised that it was going to take months, maybe even years, to find someone through ads. Its ok though as we've been in contact with a really lovely girl who is getting to know and trust us so finger crossed. I've e-mailed quite a few people, but i guess they're in a lot of demand (or we're just not appealing enough...).
I think our ad is ok - should maybe put some more detail but I don't want to be too explicit on there. I think that's a bit off putting.
I've had a trawl round a few sites and this is by far the best and friendliest I've come across, lots of advice and even though (as a single guy) snowballs in hell have more of a chance than I do of meeting someone through ads, it doesn't put me off if I have to make an effort. in fact I'd rather it was more than just hormones that sparked a relationship. You sound like a nice couple I'm sure you'll get on great when you dip your first toe in the water at a social event.
My plan is to take my time, get to know a few people through here and maybe at an event or two and above all be myself.
I think that when you make the effort to contact an advertiser, they should have good manners to email you back and say thanks but no thanks, it would appear that the advertisements that I email are all pig ignorant.
Hi Ya
Me and Mr Tiggs have met and became friends with a few of the elusive single bi fem's.
All we can say is be patient, starting chatting to people and get yourself known
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welll i am not single any more, nor do i still swing...............
so guess i might not be the best person to answer this! lol
but in the "good old days" when i was a single swinging fem i used to get loads of replies from "couples" that were blatantly not!!!
due to that i never met a cpl from an add reply, only ever through meeting them socialy first.
like everyone has said - just get yourself known and things will happen if its right.
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Personally I see nothing wrong with your advert, its not agressive nor does it follow the "1-2-3" tick boxes that some do...
its clear, concise and states what you want.
you cant do any more than that... cept weed the real from the fake replys.
Talking to others.. once you take out the fake spam adds, the never going to, then the curious, would like to try but never done before...
the hookup of the various groups in the adverts section are about the same for C4M, C4C,, M4F, the odds go down for C4F and any other combination... M4M while seemingly having a huge likely hood (heck sterio type says m and m is a forgone conclusion) the reality is that 90% bottle, 8^ come to nothing, and 2% may or may not.... Couples for bi-males seem to have the best responses as if a guy can say "i'm bi" hes already ok with his sexuality (but as before taking out the fakes, and the i've not but always wondered, lol.) so is more likely to turn up.
C4C does get a good inital response... but tends to drop play wise after an initial social meet as the combination of F1 fancies M2 and F2+F1 and M1 likes M2 (assuming not a totaly bi couple) and F1 fancies F2) makes the whole 4 people liking or fancying each other a huge statistical nightmare, lol.
What this does all say is that swinging is not "sex" and "a fucks a fuck" it is about interplay and if not love or desire at the minimum is about sexual attraction with the condition if there is not a click or a like then the other does not play so no one plays (excluding cuckolds (M or F) or peole that could/are voyeristic so wile they may not play with x are happy to watch their partner with x)
Where I do think that swingers differ from say a "fancy comin back to mine..." is that its more open, booze plays less part and the attraction has to be recipricated... it takes time and respect unless its someone/a couple that is looking for a spare fanny/dick, lol.
That said, is there a problem with people looking for a spare x/z? if they let it be known!
hey while I may have dropped out of life... perhaps I could get a phd in swigning sociologie, lmaooooooo
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), posted regularly in the Cafe and LMU. Number of meets = 3 parties, 2 social drinks,2 munches and 2 one-to-one meets.
