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Worst way to be dumped?

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I recently got dumped by SMS message..I wouldnt mind that necessarily but it was all abbrieviated into text speak.
Is there a worse way to be dumped?
I suppose semiphore is fairly non de-regour
My ex hasn't dumped me yet!!
He did a moonlight flit, with the contents of our savings account and our joint account, haven't seen him since.
So I'm guessing he doesn't want to live with me now!!!
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My ex hasn't dumped me yet!!
He did a moonlight flit, with the contents of our savings account and our joint account, haven't seen him since.
So I'm guessing he doesn't want to live with me now!!!

You thought about sending him a text.....D'OH lol
you have my sympathies, not for being dumped by text, but by being dumped using text speak
of course you have my sympathies for being dumped, but would have ruined the impact of the above comment, hope you understand old chap smile
Ahh I've been dumped by text before :shock: but no worries she won't do it on anyone again her phone was in my name so I promptly had the fooker cut off :twisted:
As for a worse way there has surely got to be someone out there in the world who has been dumped by a sign written blimp or a plane towing a your dumped banner or even by sky writting lol lol
didnt sylvester stallone once dump someone by sending the letter via federal express?
I think he did but thats only cos his dumpee couldnt understand the message he left on her answerphone
I once got dumped via email....now that hurt....
Being dumped by the other guy saying 'I'll ring you' or 'I'll be in touch'...
There is nothing more cruel in my book that being given false hope.
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I think he did but thats only cos his dumpee couldnt understand the message he left on her answerphone

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I recently got dumped by SMS message..I wouldnt mind that necessarily but it was all abbrieviated into text speak.
Is there a worse way to be dumped?
I suppose semiphore is fairly non de-regour

Well you have my sympathies my friend - it is not pleasant however it is done. But at least it was private. I should imagine face to face in front of yer mates in a bar would be worse.
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I recently got dumped by SMS message..I wouldnt mind that necessarily but it was all abbrieviated into text speak.
Is there a worse way to be dumped?
I suppose semiphore is fairly non de-regour

Well you have my sympathies my friend - it is not pleasant however it is done. But at least it was private. I should imagine face to face in front of yer mates in a bar would be worse.
Think i may have preffered that,i could have pretended i didnt care
when I was younger :cry: a girlfriend got her mum to tell me on her doorstep. :shock:
Text message has gotta be the worst way, its so impersonal and distant, and it adds insult to injury if you ring someone straight after reading their text and they don't answer!! Cowards!!!
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I recently got dumped by SMS message..I wouldnt mind that necessarily but it was all abbrieviated into text speak.
Is there a worse way to be dumped?
I suppose semiphore is fairly non de-regour

sount yourself lucky that we have such modern conveiniences Lammy. why only 100 years ago the equivalent was a note delivered by bow and arrow :shock:
Which is worse - getting a text or getting nothing?
H.x
Phil Collins dumped his ex-wife by fax!!! :shock:
Mal
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I got 'dumped' by arriving home from work one day to find my other half had moved all his stuff out and half of mine aswell!
Wouldn't mind, but earlier that morning, we'd had great sex, he'd kissed me goodbye and said "see ya later, love you".
Took me a long time to trust anyone who ever told me they loved me after that.
How about being dumped by your partner's best mate? Now that would hurt!
Oooo being dumped by text has got to hurt - I think it's a cowards way out! :therethere:
A few years ago I had a gf and I thought everything was going swimmingly.... we had a small but great circle of friends but little did I realise she was shagging one of them and she was cruel enough to let it go on long enough until I figured it out - rather than telling me she didn't want to be with me anymore! :sparring:
C'est La Vie!
Cruelest time to be dumped- the day after losing your virginity to the barsteward!.
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(yes, I can still remember it!)
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Cruelest time to be dumped- the day after losing your virginity to the barsteward!.
:sparring:
(yes, I can still remember it!)

Let me at 'im.. let me at 'im! :kick: then another :kick:
kiss
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Inertesting twist but whats the "best" way to be dumped dunno at the end of the day ur still DUMPED cool

Hmmmmmm? For me I would want it to be face to face, brutally honest and none of the "It's me not you" crud!
As friends.
H.x
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As friends.
H.x

Oooooooo your 1000th post!
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I've been dumped a couple of times but usually I've been told face to face. I've also had the 'ignore her til she gets the message' tactic too. The most annoying part of that one is how much time I wasted waiting around thinking he was still interested rolleyes
I've just had a thought for another thread :giggle:
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As friends.
H.x

Oooooooo your 1000th post!
kiss
Aw! I hadn't noticed, thanks hun!
amazing how much rubbish can be spouted from just one keyboard!
H.x
I also got dumped by text, thing is I had been married to the guy for 16 years! :shock:
Winchwench, that happened to me too!!!! I was 16 and the next day he started going out with my 'friend'.....some friend......some boyfriend......!!!!!!! rolleyes
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I got 'dumped' by arriving home from work one day to find my other half had moved all his stuff out and half of mine aswell!

oooooh had one of them as well, thought I'd been robbed untill I realised that thieves wouldn't take 3 pieces a fridge freezer and a washing machine rolleyes
cool Not that it has ever happened to me,lol,but I would have to say I reckon the worst way is when people just disappear and become constantly 's very temting to keep trying to get the person,but becomes aware that if you persist it would start to become a nuisance like it could be portrayed as such. This stuation often comes at times that are quite unexpected leaving you to figure it out for yourself,and also to judge what is a reasonable time to be worried,concerned,unsure as to what has actually happened!I think this scenario is not only cowardice,but also emotional bullying of the worst type.
I know its not like me to be serious for as long off my soap box,the biggest problem is it just takes longer to get to the point of reality.....fuck them!!!!!!!!