Would you forgive your partner of a casual encounter?

15 Jun 2009

There were many factors at that time to have lead him that way, new family, financial stains, me changing into motherhood, ok it doesnâ€™t make what happened right, but it gave me a greater insight to the workings of a male mind, as what my hubby said to me, is that he believes many men to have felt some time the way he felt.
so If you had done the same as he had based on the same factors would he have forgiven you?

16 Jun 2009

Quote by wild rose and the stag
isnt it the deciept not the sex thats makes a cheat..

I agree.
So, the question for me, really isn't to do with sex. It's to do with would I forgive someone who betrayed my trust.
I may do. It depends on the specifics of the situation. If, all things considered, it benefits me to forgive them, then I would. If not, I would walk away.
But I would never forget and I would never trust them the order this has appeared on this thread , ie before i had posted .. (in case admin sort this out )you just knew i was gonna say that..with that kind of perception im guessing no one would dare cheat on you blue
You'd be suprised Staggy.
And ha ha re the order of posts, your's did appear before mine when I quoted it lol