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being relatively new to this, we still have many questions. one that is bugging me at the mo is the age thing.
i'd like to know wot u all think about meeting much younger people.
so, what i want to know is ----
what do younger guys see in the older woman?
is it the Mrs Robinson experience??
forbidden fruit??
a friends mother??
teacher??
look forward to hearing your opinions
curvy xx
Well if i start meeting younger people i'm likely to go to prison so its older people only for me :P
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being relatively new to this, we still have many questions. one that is bugging me at the mo is the age thing.
i'd like to know wot u all think about meeting much younger people.
so, what i want to know is ----
what do younger guys see in the older woman?
is it the Mrs Robinson experience??
forbidden fruit??
a friends mother??
teacher??
look forward to hearing your opinions
curvy xx

Time to be serious now.
What do i see in older women?
Its already been said but experiance is the major attraction. I'll come up with other reasons when i think of them, started writing this post only to realise i had no idea what the reasons were!
its defintely the experience and because to me it seems kind of naughty which is a big turn on.
I can't speak for younger guys and I ain't gonna meet any younger guys :shock: .
But I do notice that couples often put an upper age limit on whom they're prepared to meet. That often rules us out and so I suppose I'd say 'Chance'd be a fine thing!' sad wink
Is it just my impression or are younger guys more open-minded/adventurous?
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i think its because young guys just find an older experienced woman a big turn on.
not that there is anything wrong with younger woman just something that most of us younger guys want to try.
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what do younger guys see in the older woman?
is it the Mrs Robinson experience??
forbidden fruit??
a friends mother??
teacher??
look forward to hearing your opinions
curvy xx

I think most would see the same as they'd see in a younger woman I suppose - age is but a number.
Same as older men/younger women, too.
Ooooerr @ the teacher bit
:shock:
When I was younger I always seemed to gravitate towards older women. I suppose it was because they were more confident, experienced, and curvacious. Combine that with the fact that it was easier to 'pull' an older woman than compete with men my own age for women my own age.
Now though, I find I'm more attracted to younger women for similar, but opposite reasons. I feel more confident with myself, I have sooooo much more experience to share, and I prefer a more - shall we say - 'pneumatic' woman (gravity is never kind to the sticky-out bits).
Mrs C is younger than me. She says she doesn't really think age matters, but in hindsight she feels that maturity plays a big part (she can't be thinking of me :shocksmile, along with experience, and that men get better looking with age.
Thank fluck for that! sillyhew: ;-)
To be blunt, ive had em from 16 to 60 and its personality that counts biggrin
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i think its because young guys just find an older experienced woman a big turn on.

Older doesn't mean more experienced, they are two totally different things.
You are right. However, it is the perception that older people have more experience. It is not always the rule but older people are usually more experienced in the things they do whether it is driving, work, etc.
BristolGuy said "older experienced". He may have missed out the comma but it was descriptive of a type of woman as I read it and not saying that all older women are more experienced. I describe myself as short bald............but I am not syaing that shortness brings on baldness or vice versa.
Dave_Notts
That's weird, I thought I'd replied to this and it's not showing. confused
When I was single and 27 I had a bit of a fling with a 19 yr old, he absolutely loved every minute and reckoned I was showing him "what it was all about", basically according to this lad, most of his age group fantasise about being with an older woman. It was great fun but that's all it was.. fun :shock:
i tend toward older women because i find that i have more in common with them than girls my own age. i wish i knew why!
Hi Curvy
Personally i sort of remember when i was younger and single (thousands of years ago) sex with any legal age was cool regardless of sensibilities a shag was a shag good or bad.
If it came to dating or 'going out' with a girl then age did matter - i definalely did not want to go out with a much older woman. It would not of fit in with my peer group i suppose.
Mrs Lost would like to experience a fit young 18-20yr old (no doubt she will in her own time). As when she was experiencing them she did not commit it to memory lol So the idea of knowing again what she once had is appealing. Also being able to bring a lot more of what 'she' wants to a (god how do you put it politely redface) session!? apparently is a turn on :!:
I put an age limit on guys Im prepared to meet mainly cos I have a son of 19 (nearly 20) and tbh would hate the thought of a woman my age having a sexual encounter with him. I think very young people should experience their own age group for a while so they can decide their likes and dislikes .. but this is a personal feeling.
Why do guys want younger women? Experience is 1 reason I have been told, but also because older women know what they want sexually and vocalise it as well and this ensures maximum enjoyment for both parties. This is not my opinion but what I have been told by younger guys. bolt
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being relatively new to this, we still have many questions. one that is bugging me at the mo is the age thing.
i'd like to know wot u all think about meeting much younger people.
so, what i want to know is ----
what do younger guys see in the older woman?
is it the Mrs Robinson experience??
forbidden fruit??
a friends mother??
teacher??
look forward to hearing your opinions
curvy xx

I dont know if it is the same for the guys but when i was younger i always fancied the older men. Not old as in old enough to be your dad but just a few years older. They always seemed to be more experienced more in control and being slightly submissive ( although i didnt know it then) thats what turned me on about them. Maybe thats what young guys like too, the voice of experience.
louise xx
Louise xx
I fondly remember as a young inexperienced 19 year old having a wonderful experience with a 30something lady and thinking it was the best thing in the world ever, and looking back it's still not far off!
I'd be too embarrased to play with anyone much younger than me, I wouldn't like them to see what the ravages of time have instore for them biggrin
H.x
I've mostly always preferred older men. However, for a while now, I've been getting chased by younger guys in the swinging lifestyle but also in everyday life! :shock: Most are in their mid 20's.
I'm quite liking them too! For me, as long as men are mature "grown ups" and easy to talk to, I'm happy! Got told today at the gym by a guy who works there that he thought I was 25! :shock: :happy: Maybe younger men mistake me for their age group dunno
What I don't like is when a guy says to me "oh I like an older woman" confused I don't actually like them making a deal out of the fact I'm older cause I'm certainly not there to mother them or teach them something! That doesn't work for me. I think some young men are looking for that though.
Fee
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I've mostly always preferred older men. However, for a while now, I've been getting chased by younger guys in the swinging lifestyle but also in everyday life! :shock: Most are in their mid 20's.
I'm quite liking them too! For me, as long as men are mature "grown ups" and easy to talk to, I'm happy! Got told today at the gym by a guy who works there that he thought I was 25! :shock: :happy: Maybe younger men mistake me for their age group dunno
What I don't like is when a guy says to me "oh I like an older woman" confused I don't actually like them making a deal out of the fact I'm older cause I'm certainly not there to mother them or teach them something! That doesn't work for me. I think some young men are looking for that though.
Fee
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To be honest i thought i you were 20-something too xxx
fairly new to this, but its sumink id luv to try
I find it hard to explain why I would love to be with an older woman. Other than the experience, and I guess it also seems to be wrong.
It is my biggest fantasy, to be used by an older woman.
Nooooo it's to see if i can pull a younger guys .. :cry:
Then i remember young men will normaly shag anything so must be experiance wink
How cynical am i
rolleyes
Debz xxxx
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Nooooo it's to see if i can pull a younger guys .. :cry:
Then i remember young men will normaly shag anything so must be experiance wink
How cynical am i
rolleyes
Debz xxxx

I resent that....we wouldnt shag ANYTHING....i have a few exceptions ie animals, my family, post boxes, leprosy sufferers etc
I ment people smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Hehehe
Debz xxxx
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I ment people smackbottom :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Hehehe
Debz xxxx

Ok then i'll give you a least of people i wouldnt fuck x
My family
Michael Palin
Britney Spears
Paris Hilton
Jesus
etc etc
Quote by louise_and_joe
being relatively new to this, we still have many questions. one that is bugging me at the mo is the age thing.
i'd like to know wot u all think about meeting much younger people.
so, what i want to know is ----
what do younger guys see in the older woman?
is it the Mrs Robinson experience??
forbidden fruit??
a friends mother??
teacher??
look forward to hearing your opinions
curvy xx

I dont know if it is the same for the guys but when i was younger i always fancied the older men. Not old as in old enough to be your dad but just a few years older. They always seemed to be more experienced more in control and being slightly submissive ( although i didnt know it then) thats what turned me on about them. Maybe thats what young guys like too, the voice of experience.
louise xx
Louise xx
Speaking as a 42yr old single guy I look for a woman with a cheeky sense of humour and nice personality first and foremost, age is irrelevant to a certain extent as long as its legal hehe.... but i do like a woman that knows what she wants and likes although these days i would probably like more experiences with younger women but having said that there are some older women i would love to meet from here too... so i guess i am sitting on the fence on this one...
However, in answer to the question posed there is another possible explanation why some younger men go for the older woman.... had anyone considered that some may do it because they mistakenly believe that older women are easier to attract? Just a thought....
I do not personally subscribe to the view that a woman will throw herself at a younger man... and anyway have been rejected by enough older women anyway to know that for a fact hehe... well ok just a few then........
Graham
i dont put age limits on, if i get on with someone i get on with them simple as.
i have met some very mature 24yr olds and some very immature 40 yr olds, age is just a number that doesnt really give any indication of what the person is like or about.
as to what younger guys see in older women i guess they imagine its experience.
Earthy xx
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i dont put age limits on, if i get on with someone i get on with them simple as.
i have met some very mature 24yr olds and some very immature 40 yr olds, age is just a number that doesnt really give any indication of what the person is like or about.
as to what younger guys see in older women i guess they imagine its experience.
Earthy xx

How about this.
I am likely to want to meet an older woman because i find her attractive in mind and in body.