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Hiya everyone.
Is it just me or is NOBODY interested in the younger man on this site!? (I HOPE it's not just me! :shock: )
At 22 I thought we were supposed to be young, eager and full of stamina! But I seem to be outside everyone's age brackets (sob!)
Is there NOBODY out there who wants a bit of oung flesh!? lol!
much younger than me and it would be illegal!
I'm 23 and have had no problems, I think it is more down to attitude, patience and other social stuff like that rather then age. There are loads of threads about age if you do a search and read through all the stuff which has already been said.
Good luck.
ta, I will have a look through.
Although I would think that perhaps a young sexy woman would find it a little easier than a young bloke like myself!
Pity you're so far away eh? lol
Quote by Hornyyoungster
Hiya everyone.
Is it just me or is NOBODY interested in the younger man on this site!? (I HOPE it's not just me! :shock: )
At 22 I thought we were supposed to be young, eager and full of stamina
! But I seem to be outside everyone's age brackets (sob!)
Is there NOBODY out there who wants a bit of oung flesh!? lol!
Oi! poke I'm Eager blink
wink :twisted:
try again after a couple of hundred more posts biggrin I wouldn't shag anyone after 4 sentences in a pub (well, maybe SOME people wink ) so why would I here?
I'm 24 and I've not had any problems. It's true - it's all about attitude.
Essex, nahhh, you're alright! I'll give that a miss thanks! I much prefer being in the swinging capital of England ! lol
The north rules! :lol:
Yes, females probably do get a softer time than young single guys. dunno But safety is always an issue not matter who or what you are. That's why many people like to get to know folk over time beofre playing with them, it's nothing personal.
Hope you stick around.
Quote by Mr Writer
I'm 24 and I've not had any problems. It's true - it's all about attitude.

what he said (apart fron the 24 bit cos I'm 30)
Lol
lol
Quote by Hornyyoungster
Hiya everyone.
Is it just me or is NOBODY interested in the younger man on this site!? (I HOPE it's not just me! :shock: )
At 22 I thought we were supposed to be young, eager and full of stamina! But I seem to be outside everyone's age brackets (sob!)
Is there NOBODY out there who wants a bit of oung flesh!? lol!

There, there, I'm sure that somebody will want to play with you, but you are rather setting your stall out in a very limited way. Your one and only angle for attracting other people is your age, even in your nick. Life is more than just a numbers game, my friend, and I'm sure you have attractions which go way beyond your birth certificate.
Sappho xxx
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much younger than me and it would be illegal!
I'm 23 and have had no problems, I think it is more down to attitude, patience and other social stuff like that rather then age. There are loads of threads about age if you do a search and read through all the stuff which has already been said.
Good luck.

Little gem, you are not a man! No way, på ingen måde! lol
Mike.
Quote by Sappho
Hiya everyone.
Is it just me or is NOBODY interested in the younger man on this site!? (I HOPE it's not just me! :shock: )
At 22 I thought we were supposed to be young, eager and full of stamina! But I seem to be outside everyone's age brackets (sob!)
Is there NOBODY out there who wants a bit of oung flesh!? lol!

There, there, I'm sure that somebody will want to play with you, but you are rather setting your stall out in a very limited way. Your one and only angle for attracting other people is your age, even in your nick. Life is more than just a numbers game, my friend, and I'm sure you have attractions which go way beyond your birth certificate.
Sappho xxx
Nah you're right but that's not the way i normally 'advertise' myself! hehe! It's just that looking at ads and stuff it's always 25-45 (etc etc). I don't consider my age something to show off about, I was jus saying that I find it a hinderance that's all!
I'll be here for a while so we'll see what happens eh!?
I am a youngun as they say, it is true it is all about attitude, if you show that you are kind, caring and generally a nice person, you will find people will get to know you and like you.
SH is like the real world you wouldnt go up to a women in the street and ask for a shag, so dont do it here.
MikeC
age has got nothing to do with it. well fair enough some do look at your age before your personality but that may be down to there personal preferences!.. but ive been on Swinging heaven nearly a year now (week after next to be presise!) and fair enought at the very begining i did have that problem, i would chat to people and the minute i'd say i was 24. the convers would go down hill, but i have persiviered. and got people to know me for who i am.
Jiggle
Quote by Lil_Bunny
I'm 24 and I've not had any problems. It's true - it's all about attitude.

what he said (apart fron the 24 bit cos I'm 30)
Lol
lol
what she said cos im 31 :lol:
Yeah, I have had totally mixed respons's. Its all about: politeness, being patient, and personal preference.
Remember your P's to get the results you wish for!
Quote by rachel-lane
I'm 24 and I've not had any problems. It's true - it's all about attitude.

what he said (apart fron the 24 bit cos I'm 30)
Lol
lol
what she said cos im 31 :lol:
What they said, but I'm 32.
confused
Oh God !! Here we go again = Age
Is everyone on this site "Ageist" :?:
Just read this from end to end and a "search" would have answered it all.
Fred whos is bloody
:?
Quote by MikeC
SH is like the real world you wouldnt go up to a women in the street and ask for a shag, so dont do it here.
MikeC

why cant u ask lady in the street for a shag?? least u not walking around the houses. are ya... and you be surprise how many ladys like the direct approach..
Quote by kinkyluton

SH is like the real world you wouldnt go up to a women in the street and ask for a shag, so dont do it here.
MikeC

why cant u ask lady in the street for a shag?? least u not beating round the houses. are ya... and you be surprise how many ladys like the direct approach..
If you did that to me it would earn you a slap!! :shock: :shock: :shock: theres direct and then theres direct!
Quote by Alleyson
If you did that to me it would earn you a slap!! :shock: :shock: :shock: theres direct and then theres direct!

i hold you to that alleyson wink.. what a lovely name you got by the way.. had it long?
It has often been said on here that ASL does not really matter to us on here. This is true up to the point of meeting someone for swinging.
Yet what is the first thing most people are asked to do when they first post;
"Tell us about yourself"
and the first thing that comes to mind at that panic stricken 'what the fuck do I say now?' moment - Age, Sex, Location,
All the things we say do not matter to us, are the first things people think they are being asked for as they walk through the door.
lhk
Kat
i hold you to that alleyson wink.. what a lovely name you got by the way.. had it long?
Errrrr funnily enough I've had my name for most of my life really, well all of it in fact!! but thanks
Quote by kinkyluton

SH is like the real world you wouldnt go up to a women in the street and ask for a shag, so dont do it here.
MikeC

why cant u ask lady in the street for a shag?? least u not walking around the houses. are ya... and you be surprise how many ladys like the direct approach..
Going up to a woman in the street and asking for a shag.....i don't even think a slap would be the answer there....But please prove us wrong and give it ago.....just let me get my camera first!
Quote by Alleyson
i hold you to that alleyson wink.. what a lovely name you got by the way.. had it long?

Errrrr funnily enough I've had my name for most of my life really, well all of it in fact!! but thanks
your welcome alleyson... the way you spell your name is so lovely... and the way you type is amazing
Quote by da69ve

SH is like the real world you wouldnt go up to a women in the street and ask for a shag, so dont do it here.
MikeC

why cant u ask lady in the street for a shag?? least u not walking around the houses. are ya... and you be surprise how many ladys like the direct approach..
Going up to a woman in the street and asking for a shag.....i don't even think a slap would be the answer there....But please prove us wrong and give it ago.....just let me get my camera first!
ok maybe not just you want a shag... so you never been outside a club and spoke to a lady then said fancy a fuck?... its cheeky some ladys like that.. might just be a luton thing i dont know... but im sure im not the only one who has done it?
Quote by kinkyluton

SH is like the real world you wouldnt go up to a women in the street and ask for a shag, so dont do it here.
MikeC

why cant u ask lady in the street for a shag?? least u not walking around the houses. are ya... and you be surprise how many ladys like the direct approach..
Going up to a woman in the street and asking for a shag.....i don't even think a slap would be the answer there....But please prove us wrong and give it ago.....just let me get my camera first!
ok maybe not just you want a shag... so you never been outside a club and spoke to a lady then said fancy a fuck?... its cheeky some ladys like that.. might just be a luton thing i dont know... but im sure im not the only one who has done it?
I've never had to go up to a woman outside aclub and say" fancy a shag" I've normally pulled before then.......and it was the ladies that asked me!
Quote by da69ve
I've never had to go up to a woman outside aclub and say" fancy a shag" I've normally pulled before then.......and it was the ladies that asked me!

we aint all as sexy as you dave.. so please spare a few thoughts for the ones who have to ask ladys sad :( :( :( :( :( :(
Quote by kinkyluton
... so you never been outside a club and spoke to a lady then said fancy a fuck?... its cheeky some ladys like that.. might just be a luton thing i dont know... but im sure im not the only one who has done it?

It shows utter disrespect for women. mad
Maybe they do like it but it demonstrates more what type of person you are than the type of women you pull. No fucking respect. Women are there for your disposal aren't they?
If a stranger asks me for a fuck outside a club I will know to avoid him like the plague if I ever see him again - and warn my mates about him too.
Quote by SunBunny

... so you never been outside a club and spoke to a lady then said fancy a fuck?... its cheeky some ladys like that.. might just be a luton thing i dont know... but im sure im not the only one who has done it?

It shows utter disrespect for women. mad
Maybe they do like it but it demonstrates more what type of person you are than the type of women you pull. No fucking respect. Women are there for your disposal aren't they?
If a stranger asks me for a fuck outside a club I will know to avoid him like the plague if I ever see him again - and warn my mates about him too.
da69ve just pointed out that a lady ask him.. so does that show that lady had no respect for men??... should he had warned his mates about her??
so you outside a club a cheeky bloke has just chated you up.. bah bah bah what you doing now,, fancy a fuck?? you would then run like the plague and tell all your mates you know that cheeky good looking fella over there.. he just asked me for a fuck.. he said what..was the crys of the mates... a fuck... shit lets run??
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da69ve just pointed out that a lady ask him.. so does that show that lady had no respect for men??... should he had warned his mates about her??
so you outside a club a cheeky bloke has just chated you up.. bah bah bah what you doing now,, fancy a fuck?? you would then run like the plague and tell all your mates you know that cheeky good looking fella over there.. he just asked me for a fuck.. then all run away....he said what..was the crys of the mates... a fuck... shit lets run??

You miss my point totally - again.
You have been chatting to a girl for say half an hour. Max. And then you ask her for a fuck. In my eyes that cheapens the girl and shows you are just after one thing, after which you will walk away, most probably, if you live in luton.
The point is that you think it is okay to behave in this way. I'm sure others do. But they have not said so on the forum.