Is it just me or would it be a good idea if you could search on what people are looking for?
You know the sort of thing, bi couple, straight male, pink elephant, that sort of thing.
You could on the old search. With this you have to trawl through a load of profiles to find people looking for somebody like you. :jagsatwork:
As to why people dont want to post pictures showing their faces its because swinging is still not viewed as socially acceptable. I would have thought that was obvious, and before anyone gets on their high horse, I know its not illegal and that we supposedly live in a free, democratic , liberal society (believe that and you will believe anything) but lets be honest the only people who spout on about free, democracy and liberal in the same sentence are politicians; usually just before they screw us and take away a bit more of our freedom.
The other side of the coin of course is the fact that if anyone you know finds out that you are a member of this site then they must have been on here looking so are they considering it too?
At the end of the day its a personal choice and you can still post face picutres on private gallery and send invite to view private gallery to people who want to see your face.