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Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
Straight Female
UK

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Forum Virgin
How cruel is the world right down to the bone,
Thats what I think when im alone,
Greed and possessions worthless why cant they see
Tiz the same for you and also for me
Freindship love and giving are the things to partake
Wadfuls of money sadly that will not make
Shame we have to whisper from Scotland to Devon,
That we like to go into swinging heaven,
Id like to shout HEY!! look were on here!!,
To astonished freinds and stand proud and clear,
To get them to see our loveley freinds so dear,
Though distance maybe long we feel quite near
With furbs toni and suction theres laughs about,
with 24, stace, and melly our tongues are hanging
out.
Too many to mention too many to call,
Just wanted to say we love you all
:heart
Forum Virgin
Im not that stupid being an ex IT person but can someone on SH set a tag or drop down box to point to the poetry corner on the main opening screen ? its bloody hard to find- ill wager most people on here dont know it exists - it does a very important function- I think it shows inner feelings that others on here can draw strength on. -thanks
Forum Virgin
All of my friends had a girlfriend when 15 and young,
They were trendy and good looking and probably well hung,
I was left out from the rest ignored and just someone plain
Why should they go out with me ? they had nothing to gain,
No one wanted to know, deep inside I would wonder why ?
For someones warm touch, to just want me, then to sleep id cry
Just a smile from a girl took me into heaven and past,
For days and days that would last
Not much to ask is it? when you need it most
A recognising smile, from its genial host.
In retrospect im not bitter because I now see the whole,
It was for a reason the force, made me see my soul
I think I tried to be good and kind to people I met
In their eyes they think, what you after pet ?
I made a promise for anyone who wanted to love me,
To give them everything I could as far as I could see.
Then it happened, I could never choose someone so lovely in years to come,
In not that intelligent, as a picker im undone
So it came to pass that we were wed 30 years ago today
And its true what they say it gets better every day,
So those that passed the ugly one by, may regret in now
They are all divorced and may wonder how, the ugly one got the sacred cow
Im not crowing by any means, and that is the truth,
Im sad that everyone cant feel this love under their roof
So for 30 years we never had another, then to swinging heaven we came,
Why, cos it was unfair to me that she never had another game,
So she tried and it was emotional, not all it seemed,
Argues ensued and not what we had dreamed,
But another lovely person burst on the scene,
Someone who really wanted my cream !
Ive never felt someone as warm as that,
When I did feel like a right old twat,
I felt real warmth and an understanding,
she didn’t complain when I found it hard to get outstanding
It was hard to accept, that someone wanted the fat ugly thing,
Which says more about her than anything
She wanted mrs more which was fair enough,
To dive deep into her now bald muff
My despair for the world in its selfish unrest,
Took a turn that day, and I saw the best,
Now I feel the luckiest on earth to have felt
2 people who have made me melt.
Mr B
Forum Virgin
Having worked in IT, really think you should get existing chatroom working without breakdowns before moving onto the beta version.
My ex company did what you are doing and went out of business.
The existing chatroom is simple and very good (when its working) (Note the simple keep it that way!)
When people get frustrated by being 'dropped' out of the room for whatever cause, and have to wait 5 mins to get back in is unacceptable- 2 mins would be far better.
Dont know why im writing this cos no-one there listens and they think they are right.
Forum Virgin
Thanks yes I thought I was bi as Cds and Ts really turn me on, but being rather fat and ugly I dont turn anyone else on despite being a friendly person, and obviously didnt do much for the person who came to visit us, so I suppose I felt even lower than I did
As for us both being happy with it, I would rather wifey had 100 people and stayed with me for all the other reasons except sex as we still love each other to bits.
Dont get me wrong I can help her to climax 10 -15 times on average most days doing other things,and pressing the right buttons physically and mentally, I seem to be very good at other peoples psychology...except my own
She just wanted a feeling of 'tightness' which a bigger cock gave her for the night-we've now bought big toys so hopefully that will help
Forum Virgin
Also facinating to see that you love your partners as much as I do and couldnt bear to be without them.
That helped a lot knowing that you can love someone deeply yet still agree to swinging,perhaps I dont particularly like it, which I find frustratingly illogical, but overiding that is I want her to be happy....
Forum Virgin
Thank you everyone who replied,it was very interesting.
The scenario was that my wife of 30 years had only ever had me, and she wanted to see what it was like with someone else.
So we went ahead, 2 weeks ago and met a well endowed man
We were both very nervous, but D, made us at ease with no pressure.
If we didnt like it, or wanted it to stop he would go with no hard feelings.
The brilliant thing was although my wife loved it,and I felt a bit useless at the time, we learnt from it, and have got stronger from it,as we understand our own, and each others feelings much much more.
Hope that helps someone else somewhere
Forum Virgin
i would be very interested to hear about how you have handled your partner having sex with someone else.
most would be angry, some would just let it go,and some would encourage it, how did you find the solution or strength to handle the problem ????
thank you if you reply