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Burtman
2 weeks ago
Bisexual Male, 65
0 miles · Derbyshire
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Did anyone else see the section on swinging on This Morning a few days ago. They had two couples on, one of whom ran a swinging hotel. Not being a regular daytime viewer I was a bit surprised they had this as a topic on a morning show (then again, anything seems to go on Jeremy Kyle's show), but I thought it was handled in a pretty mature, non-sensationalist way.
I had attached a link to the excerpt but if it doesn't work I'm sure someone on here can help us along.
Edit.... the clip only seems to appear for me if you refresh once you're on the page.
I had attached a link to the excerpt but if it doesn't work I'm sure someone on here can help us along.
Edit.... the clip only seems to appear for me if you refresh once you're on the page.
Without going into detail, I see the effects of living with and caring for disability every day, and it does irritate the hell out of me when I see this going on. Most times you can tell there's not going to be a badge on the windscreen just by the type of car (maybe a bit of prejudice against boy-racer cars and my-4x4-is-bigger-than-your-4x4's, but I've seen it so many times).
At times like that I have been tempted to leave a message saying
"Want my parking space - want my disabiity?"
But as I get older and grumpier my thoughts turn more to the simpler (in large bold print slapped across the windscreen for all to see)
"I'm not disabled, just pig ignorant!"
Maybe one day I'll have the courage to do it.
At times like that I have been tempted to leave a message saying
"Want my parking space - want my disabiity?"
But as I get older and grumpier my thoughts turn more to the simpler (in large bold print slapped across the windscreen for all to see)
"I'm not disabled, just pig ignorant!"
Maybe one day I'll have the courage to do it.
From today's Derby Evening Telegraph - has anyone here been tapped on the shoulder mid thrust and been given their free gift?
FREE NHS CONDOMS GIVEN OUT TO DOGGERS
Workers from Derbyshire County Primary Care Trust have been visiting secluded places across the county where people take part in the practice known as dogging.
But the trust would not tell the Evening Telegraph which areas were being targeted, how much the initiative cost or how workers actually handed out the condoms.
However, the trust did reveal that it was giving out contraceptives on a weekly basis and said it had a duty to protect the dogging participants, the communities in areas where it took place and the sexual health workers who ran the outreach service.
Local councillors have criticised the move ? saying giving out free contraceptives will encourage the behaviour.
John Wardle, Ashover parish councillor, said a picnic spot called ***** in the north of the county and the car park at ***** were known dogging hotspots and he believed they had been targeted by NHS workers.
He said: "I think this is absolutely bonkers and a complete waste of NHS resources.
"These doggers are desecrating our local beauty spots and we are trying desperately to discourage them. I think we should be planting nettles or gorse, not giving them free condoms."
Dogging can involve having sex with different partners and meeting strangers at an agreed outdoor location.
A car park near ***** in Ilkeston is also thought to be a popular spot. Ernest Bevan, councillor for Ilkeston North, criticised the NHS for "wasting money".
He said: "Giving these people condoms will only encourage promiscuous behaviour when really the police ought to be going out to book them."
Derbyshire NHS bosses said they were working with the police and local councils on the initiative.
They said the cost of providing condoms was much less than the cost to the NHS of treating sexually transmitted diseases like chlamydia and HIV.
Richard Marriott, co-ordinator for sexual health services at Derbyshire PCT, said: "If we didn't undertake such preventative measures the overall cost to the NHS would be much higher, as the average lifetime cost to the NHS of treating a person diagnosed as HIV positive has been estimated at ?150,000."
The trust said it had been handing out free condoms to doggers on a regular basis since the 1980s.
John Evans, Mayor of Darley Dale, has arranged a meeting with the NHS and police after it emerged that sexual health workers were visiting people who had sex in a lay-by in *****, near Darley Dale. He said: "The primary care trust is just trying to stop people getting horrible diseases but this does raise issues of public order, which concerns me."
***** Park in Derby is also a known dogging hotspot but falls under Derby City Primary Care Trust, which says it does not provide free condoms at dogging hotspots.
A spokeswoman for Derbyshire police said: "We had a meeting with Derbyshire PCT about this ? we are not supporting it but we are not against it. It's their initiative.
"Dogging is an arrestable offence under public decency laws and if a member of the public reports an incident we will investigate it."
***** edited to remove specific place names ....not that you'll be able to get anywhere near 'cos of all the DET readers on a night out!
FREE NHS CONDOMS GIVEN OUT TO DOGGERS
Workers from Derbyshire County Primary Care Trust have been visiting secluded places across the county where people take part in the practice known as dogging.
But the trust would not tell the Evening Telegraph which areas were being targeted, how much the initiative cost or how workers actually handed out the condoms.
However, the trust did reveal that it was giving out contraceptives on a weekly basis and said it had a duty to protect the dogging participants, the communities in areas where it took place and the sexual health workers who ran the outreach service.
Local councillors have criticised the move ? saying giving out free contraceptives will encourage the behaviour.
John Wardle, Ashover parish councillor, said a picnic spot called ***** in the north of the county and the car park at ***** were known dogging hotspots and he believed they had been targeted by NHS workers.
He said: "I think this is absolutely bonkers and a complete waste of NHS resources.
"These doggers are desecrating our local beauty spots and we are trying desperately to discourage them. I think we should be planting nettles or gorse, not giving them free condoms."
Dogging can involve having sex with different partners and meeting strangers at an agreed outdoor location.
A car park near ***** in Ilkeston is also thought to be a popular spot. Ernest Bevan, councillor for Ilkeston North, criticised the NHS for "wasting money".
He said: "Giving these people condoms will only encourage promiscuous behaviour when really the police ought to be going out to book them."
Derbyshire NHS bosses said they were working with the police and local councils on the initiative.
They said the cost of providing condoms was much less than the cost to the NHS of treating sexually transmitted diseases like chlamydia and HIV.
Richard Marriott, co-ordinator for sexual health services at Derbyshire PCT, said: "If we didn't undertake such preventative measures the overall cost to the NHS would be much higher, as the average lifetime cost to the NHS of treating a person diagnosed as HIV positive has been estimated at ?150,000."
The trust said it had been handing out free condoms to doggers on a regular basis since the 1980s.
John Evans, Mayor of Darley Dale, has arranged a meeting with the NHS and police after it emerged that sexual health workers were visiting people who had sex in a lay-by in *****, near Darley Dale. He said: "The primary care trust is just trying to stop people getting horrible diseases but this does raise issues of public order, which concerns me."
***** Park in Derby is also a known dogging hotspot but falls under Derby City Primary Care Trust, which says it does not provide free condoms at dogging hotspots.
A spokeswoman for Derbyshire police said: "We had a meeting with Derbyshire PCT about this ? we are not supporting it but we are not against it. It's their initiative.
"Dogging is an arrestable offence under public decency laws and if a member of the public reports an incident we will investigate it."
***** edited to remove specific place names ....not that you'll be able to get anywhere near 'cos of all the DET readers on a night out!
Quote by splendid_
34 minutes
enlighten me how that was done?
were you next door neighbours?
did you have a jet fired up and ready to take you to wherever you wanted to be ?
tell me tell me .
Entirely beginner's luck - first ad ... reply 10 mins later .... quick chat... both agreed we wanted to .... rendezvous arranged about 10 miles away.... and a horny encounter in her car not long after....possibly with witnesses from the local angling club! And yes I did have something already fired up but it wasn't a jet
Many more followed, but we took it at a more leisured pace after that. 
Quote by dippergt750
Do you know, it's really odd, men advertise on here for sex. A woman or couple answer quite swiftly and the response is always the same..........."thank you, I would have met up but I'm in Scotlandat a funeralin bed with plague" etc. etc.
We assume that the buzz comes from getting the reply.....do they masterbate all day on the stregth of the sex they could have had if the wife wouldn't have found out?????????????
..... and then there are those of us who can only dream of getting a reply, let alone a swift one!
I guess it's the dog chasing cats syndrome.... they happily chase every one they see, but are left mightily confused when they actually catch one.
Quote by Awesomemistress:inlove: :rose: :inlove: For a very special lady called Furby.
i just want to say how helpfull a thread like this can be.... it offers support advice an personal experiences, but above all .. it shows that we are not alone.. in the big bad world of our own minds... thats the most important thing that ive got from this.. not the drug advice.. leave that tothe docs, there supposed to know what there doing, but the fact that what ever were feeling, what ever it seems like, no matter how bad it gets, you can see that someone feels the same or felt the same or got over the same.... its a comforting feeling to know your normal... and that its ok to feel bad........
ITS NORMAL....... AND ITS OK TO FEEL BAD!!!!!!... how cool is that.... forgive yourself, love yourself.. and BE YOURSELF.........
love.. hugs... and
:kiss: :kiss: :kiss::kiss: Kiss better both of you xx:kiss:
Quote by Bigpaul44
now i don't advocate this practice and i do enjoy it although not to full fruition for obvious has it that is jayne mansfield met her it does give me a thrill to get head while at the wheel especially in day light! do others like to practice oral or masturbation whilst hurtling along the A30
Is there something particularly erotic about the A30?
Quote by Rainbows
When meeting a couple, its really nice to have a glass or two of wine. Even better to skip down to the hottub at the bottom of the garden, have a few more glasses of wine, have a cuddle - maybe more
All very nice. But when walking back to house in the dark, do NOT step in dog poo and then spend the next 15mins in the bath with a shower attachment trying to clean yourself up. It just kinda kills the evening!
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....but just think how you'd have felt if you'd trodden in it on the way into the hot tub.... and not noticed..........hmm interesting bubbles
Quote by Calista
As the thread title says, Google never lies .......... see what you get if you type in "failure"
:twisted:
You get a lot of search results with the word failure in them
a wiki definition and a lot of political ones and a handy google link at the top of the page explaining why they are there 
try "failure" and the "I'm feeling lucky" button ..... I that bit was missed off ;)
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:cheers: cheers Calista
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