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What is the longest and the shortest length of time between talking to, approaching or being contacted by someone with whom you have had no previous contact and having sex with them. (when on this site- not talking clubs etc)
The longest...... I first spoke to someone over a year ago.. and we are only now getting close to meeting to have sex. Now that we have decided that we are going to. :shock:
The shortest? :- 4 hours. :twisted: That was seeing him in the Yorks room and asking to whisper and then chatting and driving to a mutually convenient location and chatting over coffee and fucking in his car. 4 hours from start to finish.
what about you ?
longest - im still waiting but 18 months++
shortest - under an hour redface surprisedops: :oops:
Quote by dekntan
longest - im still waiting but 18 months++
shortest - under an hour redface surprisedops: :oops:

damn... beaten on both counts. lol
wow... I wish I was so decisive. smile
Quote by splendid_
longest - im still waiting but 18 months++
shortest - under an hour redface surprisedops: :oops:

damn... beaten on both counts. lol
wow... I wish I was so decisive. smile
i was horny he was rounde the corner :oops:
Shortest: probably about 3 days.
Longest: was about 14 months or so, but fun when it happened!!
Nola x
Varca.. now you are scaring me.. I hope that I don't fall in love with my 'long one' lol
you and he both chose well tho' :P
Quote by Burtman
34 minutes redface

enlighten me how that was done?
were you next door neighbours?
did you have a jet fired up and ready to take you to wherever you wanted to be ?
tell me tell me . wink
Quote by splendid_
34 minutes redface

enlighten me how that was done?
were you next door neighbours?
did you have a jet fired up and ready to take you to wherever you wanted to be ?
tell me tell me . wink
Entirely beginner's luck - first ad ... reply 10 mins later .... quick chat... both agreed we wanted to .... rendezvous arranged about 10 miles away.... and a horny encounter in her car not long after....possibly with witnesses from the local angling club! And yes I did have something already fired up but it wasn't a jet smile Many more followed, but we took it at a more leisured pace after that.
Longest - two years.
Shortest - few months.
Shortest: about 2 weeks
Longest: about 4 weeks
Quote by Burtman
34 minutes redface

enlighten me how that was done?
were you next door neighbours?
did you have a jet fired up and ready to take you to wherever you wanted to be ?
tell me tell me . wink
Entirely beginner's luck - first ad ... reply 10 mins later .... quick chat... both agreed we wanted to .... rendezvous arranged about 10 miles away.... and a horny encounter in her car not long after....possibly with witnesses from the local angling club! And yes I did have something already fired up but it wasn't a jet smile Many more followed, but we took it at a more leisured pace after that.
blimey i thought i was a fast worker lol
Longest...........Over 12 months
Shortest.........Probably 6 months or so and still counting.(so has the chance to be the longest in which case 12 months would then become the shortest....Made sense to me when I said it to myself anyway dunno )
The longest .... 6 weeks with Jay, met him, dated him realised he was special, was worth the wait.
The shortest.... 2 hours redface years before meeting Jay, was out nightclubbing bumped into a bloke I'd known for years, he'd been to my first wedding, I was horny asked him if he fancied a "non committal shag", of course he didn't refuse! lol
Longest 6 years
Shortest less than 1 train journey.
Longest: 2 years 3 months (… and counting) banghead
Shortest: 1 hour 20 mins :shock:
Great thread Splendid!! Have some Pinky points (tm Winchy) for talking sex :cheers:
Longest: 4 months
...and what a build up wink Amazing flirting, MSN sex, phone sex etc throughout this time
Shortest: 4 weeks
...just getting to know a couple who seemed to like to take time and seemed quite nervous, met in pub for social drink (we don't play on first meet) went on to a vanilla club, snogged lots then he whispered to me "Do you play at home?" Quick discussion wih Blue and within 20 minutes we were at home shagging senselessly carrying ont till 6am! :shock: :shock: We broke every rule that night: no play on first meet, no playing at home redface surprisedops:
pink x
Quote by blueandpink
Great thread Splendid!! Have some Pinky points (tm Winchy) for talking sex :cheers:
Longest: 4 months
...and what a build up wink Amazing flirting, MSN sex, phone sex etc throughout this time
Shortest: 4 weeks
...just getting to know a couple who seemed to like to take time and seemed quite nervous, met in pub for social drink (we don't play on first meet) went on to a vanilla club, snogged lots then he whispered to me "Do you play at home?" Quick discussion wih Blue and within 20 minutes we were at home shagging senselessly carrying ont till 6am! :shock: :shock: We broke every rule that night: no play on first meet, no playing at home redface surprisedops:
pink x

Cough, Cough, erm I thought that one up lol
louise xx
Quote by louise_and_joe
Great thread Splendid!! Have some Pinky points (tm Louise) for talking sex :cheers:
Longest: 4 months
...and what a build up wink Amazing flirting, MSN sex, phone sex etc throughout this time
Shortest: 4 weeks
...just getting to know a couple who seemed to like to take time and seemed quite nervous, met in pub for social drink (we don't play on first meet) went on to a vanilla club, snogged lots then he whispered to me "Do you play at home?" Quick discussion wih Blue and within 20 minutes we were at home shagging senselessly carrying ont till 6am! :shock: :shock: We broke every rule that night: no play on first meet, no playing at home redface surprisedops:
pink x

Cough, Cough, erm I thought that one up lol
louise xx
Whoops Louise: duly edited kiss
Quote by blueandpink
Great thread Splendid!! Have some Pinky points (tm Louise) for talking sex :cheers:
Longest: 4 months
...and what a build up wink Amazing flirting, MSN sex, phone sex etc throughout this time
Shortest: 4 weeks
...just getting to know a couple who seemed to like to take time and seemed quite nervous, met in pub for social drink (we don't play on first meet) went on to a vanilla club, snogged lots then he whispered to me "Do you play at home?" Quick discussion wih Blue and within 20 minutes we were at home shagging senselessly carrying ont till 6am! :shock: :shock: We broke every rule that night: no play on first meet, no playing at home redface surprisedops:
pink x

Cough, Cough, erm I thought that one up lol
louise xx
Whoops Louise: duly edited kiss
:giggle: never had a Tm before you see and as much as i love Winchy I just couldnt let her have it :lol:
louise xx
Here was I about to set the record straight- only to find Louise refusing to let me have it :shock:
Well flipa to you Mrs!
Hmm, shortest- have to think about that one.
Longest- Have to think about that too! (How crap am I lol)
Did go 2 years after a "lustful liason" with a guy before doing it again though. Every time we saw each other it was simmering :twisted:
The shortest was a couple of months we think, but not sure about the longest. We know when we had sex obviously but we're not sure on the timespan of the longest as we don't know when to take it from dunno You know us, we're crap at signs so wouldnt recognise the first sign so to speak rotflmao
Longest 7 years rolleyes
Shortest 2 weeks
Longest, about 4 weeks
shortest, about 20 minutes :shock:
never again.......lets just say he would be done under the trade description act for his user ID lol
Quote by Bonedigger
Longest, about 4 weeks
shortest, about 20 minutes :shock:
never again.......lets just say he would be done under the trade description act for his user ID lol

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
I thought it was quiet around here lol
whaddaya mean you thought it was quiet round here lol :lol:
just worra ya tryin to say woman.......:lol: :lol: :lol:
wow... some interesting replies.
20 mins !! BD that isn't good at all. Although there are a lot of people who could be contravening some part of the trades description act.
My user name might refer to me with my clothes on.... but clothes off? nah it doesn't apply. Ms Krueger would be more applicable. wink
Quote by splendid_
wow... some interesting replies.
20 mins !! BD that isn't good at all. Although there are a lot of people who could be contravening some part of the trades description act.
My user name might refer to me with my clothes on.... but clothes off? nah it doesn't apply. Ms Krueger would be more applicable. wink

redface surprisedops: Im so sorry :oops: :oops:
Quote by splendid_
wow... some interesting replies.
20 mins !! BD that isn't good at all. Although there are a lot of people who could be contravening some part of the trades description act.
My user name might refer to me with my clothes on.... but clothes off? nah it doesn't apply. Ms Krueger would be more applicable. wink
Who the feck is Ms Krueger when she's at home :shock:
Quote by firelizard
wow... some interesting replies.
20 mins !! BD that isn't good at all. Although there are a lot of people who could be contravening some part of the trades description act.
My user name might refer to me with my clothes on.... but clothes off? nah it doesn't apply. Ms Krueger would be more applicable. wink
Who the feck is Ms Krueger when she's at home :shock:
Freddie Kruegers equally fire damaged sister. lol