One of the many great things about swinging heaven is its anonymous. Fucking your sister in law, neighbour etc is great but can bite you on the arse when it goes tits up. Generally you're not going to encounter a shag from swinging heaven in the real world. However close to home does have a thrill. I work for myself doing home improvements and repairs. One of my customers owns a dozen rental properties and of late I've ha...

Last week I dipped into the personals on swinging heaven, sent off three messages and tbh I didn't really expect a reply. After all, couples looking for solo guys are usually deluged with messages and it's easy to get lost in the crowd. I do get that. However one of the ads, from a couple almost 4 hours away from me, responded. My message to them read "I spotted your ad today and had to reply. I'm miles away but have a ha...

Suck and go I live on the south coast but work in London often. The nature of my work means public transport isn't an option so its a trip up and down the A3. I usually work fairly late so drop into Wisley on the way home. Its usually a load of fellas mooching around without a female in sight. Today I had to be in nth London by 8 so planned on leaving home around 4 to beat the traffic, then have a nap in the van on arriva...

I do home improvements... Mostly bathrooms but will turn my hand to most things. In Feb of this year I met a couple (possible clients) at an empty shop near Chichester. Basically they were looking to open a beauty salon and looking for ideas on how to best partition up the space as well as costings and timescales. I drew up some plans along with costings then communication dried up. I'd pretty much forgotten about them un...

Timing is everything. Thats the case with most things on life but this experience yesterday means it's never been more appropriate. I messaged a couple at the start of January and got a "thanks but we aren't looking for a solo guy at the mo" reply. I thanked them and thought nothing more about it. Until yesterday afternoon. They messaged me out of the blue. Basically they'd arranged a mmmf..so two sh fellas. One was a no...

This is an account of an sh meet. Whilst it's very tame compared to most stories on here, it's true. I'm hoping the couple concerned post a story from their perspective. I messaged a couple in December and we started exchanging emails however I lost contact with them during the pre Xmas crash on swinging heaven. Last week they popped up again and we started messaging again, thankfully picking up from where we left off. Br...

At the weekend I posted a meet for a quickie on swinging heaven. Although I didn't really have any expectations, I just fancied a little hedonism or kink this week. This morning I had a reply which read "This might not be your thing but you seem pretty open about what you're looking for. Although we're miles away from you we are catching a ferry from Portsmouth tomorrow afternoon and will hopefully get down with a few hou...

I imagine like lots of solo males on SH, Ive had a lot of unanswered mail, or even been stood up. Ive even met someone who was nothing like their profile (not even the same colour or gender!!). However when it goes well its worth all the effort. Prior to the IT wobble just before Christmas, I had started a message exchange with a lady on here. Thankfully we exchanged numbers and reverted to whatsapp messaging. We couldnt...

I occasionally dip into the stories on here and should contribute more. But the changes to SH are so good I felt I should share. I admit my heart sank when I logged on few days ago to see an update..... Updates are generally rubbish. However SH have made it a much more user friendly site. The suggested local profiles that fit a criteria is genius. Anyway a few suggested matches popped up. I messaged one just 13 miles away...

Sorry for the auto corrects in my previous posting. I'm well aware that my experiences are very tame when compared to many on here but they are true. To recap, after 25 years of fantasising about it, finally a guy entered me while husband watched and wanked. Had the internet been around when we first got married. I'm sure by now I would have fucked dozens of guys. Anyway the days that followed the first meet were a bit of...

I often wonder how folks met like-minded folks back in the pre-internet age. Yes there were a few contact magazines but they were few and far between. I went to rios back in the early 90s a fair bit, in my late teens and early 20s but it was pretty quiet (and half its current size). But now it's so much easier. I've been chatting to a couple on here for a week or so about meeting up, and that's likely to be this coming we...

Ok this is tame, but it was so so horny...and my second meet from here. No names or location but I messaged a couple who were looking for a "soft swing voyeuristic male." In my mind I was thinking, well that may lead to something a bit more. A few messages exchanged, then whats app face pics and the following day we're having coffee in a pub. They set out their rules...they fuck, I watch and wank, no touching and no talki...

So Ive been popping onto the stories for a while and even contributed very occasionally. Finally I took the plunge and joined last week, hoping I manage a meet or two from here within the first few weeks. Little did I realise that I would be on a meet within 24 hours. Here's how it happened Friday night I put up a profile, and send some messages. I didnt really expect many/any replies but was surprised to get three positi...