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Quote by babe1
hi
Yes will be nice to see old and new friends
wink :wink: :wink: lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
Hugs
Babe1
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It would be lovely to meet old and new friends, but I can't see our names on the list :cry: :cry: :cry:
Any chance you can stick me and bipoisondwarf on the list please babe?
Marcuso
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Quote by herts_21
is there going to be a pm of when and where etc nearer the time as i kepe missing this post!

All you have to do is click on profile and then go down to preferences and the third one down will allow you to receive alerts every time someone replies to a message in a thread that you post in if you click on the yes box
Quote by O. K.
But of the first 18 posts which might have been described as taking the piss (although varying greatly in levels of piss-taking, from the very mild to the bitter), eight were from females, and ten from males....
On the broader aspect of your question, I don't feel threatened at all - I actually didn't get the reference about the car, I ignore all references to cars anyway, as I don't drive.
I would be perfectly happy to give anyone of any age advice in how to pitch their initial approach in here, and have in the past done so, though usually on here in public rather than via PM. Reactions vary from the embarrassed and suitably enhumbled, to the brash and arrogant. References to Roger's advice for single guys post, and Marcuso's ditto are often made - whether guys get much out of them we really cannot tell. Yes, some go too far in their sarcasm, and it makes me feel uncomfortable, as it obviously does you as well Rainbows, but no one person in here can control what reaction people get - I have also seen reasonable posts from women and couples get a bit of an obtuse reaction from others in here, for example Zanahoria, and then disappear in confusion, so it's not only the single guys who suffer from this.
Mike.

Mature guys will always be threatened by the younger men because they are fitter, longer stayers, nice to look at, always have an erection and women will always prefer them to older guys, so stop fooling yourselves and look for someone your own age!!!
OMG........did you actually just say that in an open forum????....(guess you must be one of the aforementioned young ones then??)
Even though I am now part of a couple as far as swinging goes, I have done over a year as a single "mature" swinging male........By mature I presume you mean age-wise and not outlook on life......lol
I am, in fact, 40 later this year, so some may see it as mature and some may see it as young.........lol
In no way, shape, or form have I EVER felt threatened by younger males, because I have always seen swinging as a social community instead of a "let's fuck" kind of thing.
In the past year I have met and socialised with people from every social strata, from single parents (of which I am one).....to company directors.
I have socialised with people aged from 18 to late 60's and really enjoyed almost every minute of it.
I don't see swinging as any kind of competition, or as anywhere that jealousy belongs at all.
Have I looked at younger guys at munches and thought "I wish I was his age/got his looks/had his physique?".....No I haven't, because people will take me for who I am......and if they don't like me for who I am then they were never likely to have liked me at any stage in my life..........I like where I am in my life at the moment and wouldn't wish to be younger or change anything about my past, because my past and the age I am now are what has made me who I am. And I am more than comfortable and happy with who I am.
Mr Comparison
PS.......you are always welcome to ask Mrs Comparison if I am fit enough for her and a long stayer.........and she seems to think I am nice enough looking.........but she is due at specsavers later this week...........lol.........as for do I always have an erection..........well..........go ask her.........lol
Quote by SunBunny
I like the mature look... wink :wink: )

OOOOOOOOOOOO,,,,,,,,you bugger............Mr Comparison says he'd be more than happy to verify that you like the mature look if you gave him a go........lol
Quote by DeniseBabe
ive killed your post. sorry :cry:

LOL.......not at all Denise..........I love watching two women "doing the biz".....lol
One of these days I may even see it for real.............lol
Quote by northeastcoupleuk
welcome to the addiction

Thank you northeastcouple
You have met one of us and hopefully you will have met us both in the "not too distant" future
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Quote by Rainbows
You see - Libra love that could've been us!!!
:rose: :rose: :rose:
lol :lol: :lol:
Ahhhhhh Macuso - that s great!!!!! kiss. Umm - if you decide to move and poor, poor lottie needs a home - I can offer her a comfie bed midway biggrin wink
:wink:

LOL.......well.......I got 5 pups needing a good home babes......xxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by DeniseBabe
:doh: sorry :doh:

LOL.......don't be sorry babes............I'm definitely not sorry...........I think I can speak for both of us when I say that the Essex munch was probably the best thing thats happened to both of us for a hell of a long time
:thrilled: :swingingchair: :rose: blast 69position passionkiss :thumbup: sillyassionkiss: hump :69: :hump:
:smoke: :smoke: :smoke: :smoke:
and YES.....the emoticons do actually mean what they say in this case..........lol
Quote by DeniseBabe
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
Pleased for you both......... :inlove: :inlove: :inlove: :inlove:

LOL.....we're not at the "in love" stage YET....and not even sure we ever will be..........but by heck.......we are having some bloody good fun as a "couple" at the moment..........and long may it go on.
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Quote by DeniseBabe
and it all happened where.......... remind us?????? biggrin

EEEErrrrmmmmmmmmm........dunno babes...........my memory is going now I'm getting old..........lol
Oh OK.........it was the Essex munch........so maybe there are other things apart from the M25 and the M11 come out of Essex after all............lol
Quote by cu3b4ll
Hi Newbies wink
:welcome: to the Cafe wave

Thank you Cueball
We've both been here before, just not as a couple.
Quote by Vix
Marcuso, you pillock. rolleyes
lol

lol.......sssssssshhhhhhhhhhh Vix......this is a serious attempt to swing as a couple..........lol
Quote by Vix
Marcuso, you pillock. :roll:
:lol:

Wot she said!! Pillock :lol: :lol: :lol:
How are the babies btw? And that gorgeous Lottie?
LOL......well....we decided to do an ad together, so we had to make it an anagram of marcpoison eh?
and yes, the babies are fine.....and Lottie is as hyper as ever ......lol
Oh and I know someone that absolutely adores your new avatar babes
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Hi Clare
Can you take marcuso and bipoisondwarf off the list please and add us instead.
Thanks babes
Comparison
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Hi Denise
Can you take marcuso and bipoisondwarf off the list please and add us instead.
Thanks babes
Comparison
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Quote by lucyweebaps
The official invitations are being sent out at the moment :bounce: :bounce:
If your name is down for the munch and you haven't received your invitation yet, please pm me biggrin
Lucy xxxx

Hi Lucy
Can you take marcuso and bipoisondwarf off the list please and add us instead.
Thanks babes
Comparison
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Hi there everyone
Just thought the male of the couple had better come and say hi.......you may know us both seperately, but now we're on the scene as a couple so now you got us in stereo...............lol
hello to friends old and new and we look forward to seeing you at the Scottish munch.
Marcuso and Sandie
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