Why CoolHead? Three reasons I can come up with.

Everyone who comes to know me will realise I have one, even in the worst of circumstances, and am completely un-shockable.

I always try to give a lady some very cool head. Sorry boys, nothing for you here.

I was on a skiing holiday when the photo was taken.

I have been skirting the edges of the scene for ten or more years now, my first experience of threesomes was when I was at college, and I haven't been idle since. Never been to a party or a club. There can always be a first time and I'm not in a massive rush. Any invites forthcoming will be considered of course.

I try hard to be a nice guy, who's honest and reliable first. I'm wondering if there are any ladies out there who would like some comfortable loving? NSA and straight but still gentle and slow because sometimes it's nice to. Obviously not suggesting for a minute that's the end of my repertoire though. I will happily do anal, but at your request. I can pretty much take it or leave it. Fun occasionally.

I've spent many a happy hour or more playing in cars and the outdoors and love to go for evening drives or park-ups with a horny companion, though I'm not particularly into Dogging. There's good countryside available locally. I firmly believe that good foreplay can last all evening or even day if you can figure out how to wind someone up just right.

My interest in S&M is new, developing and ironically intriguing. Any sexual partners pleasure and safety have always been my primary concern, so BDSM interesting me is something I am fascinated by. I know I'm a natural Top, but would love to be patiently guided by a more experienced Bottom. I have had the pleasures of a willing slave before, but was following my nose. Also experimented with Kinbaku / Shibaru. That was great fun and I could spend hours doing that again. I have a growing collection of restraints, some homemade (Perils of being a skint engineer).

As you might expect from a bloke, I'm a sucker for stockings or a nice pair of heels, but also go in for feet (clean!) and am not bothered if someone doesn't shave. My teenage years were spent elbow deep in the Mayfair magazines of 15-20 years ago and now I love it when occasionally I find someone who has more down below than modern porn would have us believe is normal.

I don't want to get done under trades descriptions, so for 'Muscular', read, 'Tall and Stocky'. Don't think I qualify for Large yet but not a habitual gym worshipper either. More catering pack than six pack, got the same amount, just in one container.

Big Gruffly Bear. Romantic softie at heart.