Hiya ,im ang one half of the two,thanx for all your replies to my last topic,however i cant help thinking that im no wiser,ok we all know most of the reasons for not putting up a face pic ,ie,job,neighbours that sort of thing but surely if your wifes pic is up then the people who know you will also know her to !! It is always a possibility that one will be recognised on here we all know the risks but at the same time the risk must be worth taking as we still do it . It just seems to me that you men think that if the wife is attractive then you will get by to ,we all have different tastes albeit fat,thin ugly,not so ugly ,so come on all you men ,even if its not the actual face at least put up a bit of you ,just so we get an idea xx