Why is it that when couples are on here advertising for other couples ,nine out of ten only have the womans pic up ,Do the men think that if they like the look of the woman, then the woman are just going to go along with that without seeing any pics of the man ? I dont think so ,Often i have looked at profiles but discounted them straight away because there are no pictures of the male half ,so come on men ,its lovely having a sexy pic of your other half up but have the decency to at least include one of yourself to ,or explain why there are none of you x
btw... :welcome: to the forums! :bounce:
You know you are right, loads of fem pics. It must be that the female side have to take what they get, they are only bate.
Poor lasses.
I don't have my pic up on the public profile (it is in the private section) because I am a hideous troglodyte that has the power to turn the viewer to stone by merely glancing at my crumpled, deranged visage.
Therefore I put up Mrs Res to entice unwary couples in so i can pounce on them, tie them to a chair and force them to listen to three pages of poetry so bad, that in the end they are begging me to have sex with them instead.
I agree with the op. Pics of the male half of the couples' body would be nice.
I respect most people don't put face pics on their profile, we don't either, but a little hint of what to expect is better than having doubts.
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i know we can choose not to contact those whodont have pics of the fella, but i agree with the op, its nice to see both the male and female. not asking for full face, but a idea is nice, especially when you see loads of the women but not one of the guy.
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Couldn't agree more! :thumbup:
Its nice to see photos of both parties - and quite understandable if they want to have their faces covered - it still allows you to see if that intial hulloooo.... yummy feeling is
there....
And as Mrs DD points out, if you errr... walk on both sides of the street as she does, then it is deffinately preferable to see everyone! hence a couple of photos of each of us on our profile.. although it has to be said that Mrs DDs pictures seem to get perved... errr... looked at... a lot more than mine!!! Strange that..... :dry:
Being brutally honest here. one reason is with Women whether large small short or tall are great nude or in lingerie etc and are a joy to look at for. When it comes to men however. Then there is no opposite attraction equivelent, at least none worth mentioning. How many people want to look at a large guy equivalent of a bbw? Very very few.
I'm a fat guy i make no bones about it and know that physically/sexually my appearance is very much against me. I don't need to be told that i'm a realist. I can assure you that if I had a six pack and a twenty three inch cock my picture would be up there without a doubt.
People will enjoy looking at different sizes shapes of women especially when it comes to the possibilities of a shag but not men its the way it is, We are not going to advertise the fact that I'm a fat guy other than being honest in our profile and making as little of it as possible. My picture is available if asked for.
J is gorgeous though and her pics are there because she deserves to be shown off and personally that why they are there for me. For her they are an advertisement and a good one too.
What if you are a couple and you are only seeking single straight men, are photos of the man needed then?
We only have photos of me on our profile, as we presume that the guy is mainly interested in seeing them of me.
Do you think we should have photos of Mike on too?
Lucys post.
Hiya.
We havent put pics onto our profile because several years ago at another swingers site we were almost recognised. We are fairly well known locally and it was almost very embarrassing. We did bluff our way out of the situation. No disrespect to any one on this site but we prefer not to take chances anymore until we feel ready to send some out to someone.
Hiya ,im ang one half of the two,thanx for all your replies to my last topic,however i cant help thinking that im no wiser,ok we all know most of the reasons for not putting up a face pic ,ie,job,neighbours that sort of thing but surely if your wifes pic is up then the people who know you will also know her to !! It is always a possibility that one will be recognised on here we all know the risks but at the same time the risk must be worth taking as we still do it . It just seems to me that you men think that if the wife is attractive then you will get by to ,we all have different tastes albeit fat,thin ugly,not so ugly ,so come on all you men ,even if its not the actual face at least put up a bit of you ,just so we get an idea xx
I think the thing is Couple4fun, we are all different.
You have one photo of yourself up, and 3 of your good lady, all very nice may I add!
A lot of people just dont put them all in to the public gallery, some do not even have any in their public gallery, but prefer if things go to another level, and you like the sound of each other, to exchange photos via the private way.
Its not just about looks, personally I have found that what you think you fancy, if visual is the way you choose folk, may not actually be the best out there! (Apologies to all those Adonises out there!)
I loved Losts reply on your other post!
Its just the way it is, like I typed earlier, we are all different!
Respect to you though!
Lucys post.
There is another reason for not having the male pic, or rather for just having a female pic. I have been contacted by 2 "couples" that only had a female pic on the profile. Both turned out to be married men whose wives had no idea that their husbands were on the site, let alone posting a pic of them on a profile! On questioning, one of these guys admitted that he was looking for NSA fun on his own, and that he thought he would get more luck if he hid behind the "couple" status than as a single man.
I keep my face hidden for a good reason but do have one in my private album. I wouldnt meet someone without seeing a face pic and wouldnt expect someone to meet me without seeing mine.
What I will say is that I now have met people that I probably wouldnt have noticed before in the real world!! I have got to know people in chat or msn, and have liked them for who they are rather than what they look like. Perhaps Im growing up at last!!
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