We are just dipping our toes in the water where swinging is concerned, and have been to two Saturday night parties at Abfabs. On both occasions, we've found it difficult to strike up conversations with others, and it was apparent we were not alone in this.
So, we had the bright idea that before we go to our next Saturday night party, we'd try and pre-arrange to meet some people there.
We'd like to meet some friendly people, to enjoy good conversation and a drink without any expectation that this would lead to more,... although there's always hope!
We are English (him) / Spanish (her), married, secure with each other and happy.
D & M
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D_and_M
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 57
Straight Female, 58
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We'd planed to go to our first swingers party yesterday, we'd been building up to it for weeks and months, but unfortunately I was kept in bed for the wrong reasons - flu
We'd chosen Radlett from all the clubs listed as it has monthly couples only parties. But having missed yesterdays, we can't make there next two couples only parties either:(
They also do a Friday night couples and singles party, and we could make those in the next couple of months. So has anyone experience of Radlett's Friday night couples & singles parties? Bare in mind this would be our first visit to such an occasion, and we would be going with the intention of not 'playing'.
Would you say this is a good place to start, or should we wait until we can attend one of their couples only parties?
We'd chosen Radlett from all the clubs listed as it has monthly couples only parties. But having missed yesterdays, we can't make there next two couples only parties either:(
They also do a Friday night couples and singles party, and we could make those in the next couple of months. So has anyone experience of Radlett's Friday night couples & singles parties? Bare in mind this would be our first visit to such an occasion, and we would be going with the intention of not 'playing'.
Would you say this is a good place to start, or should we wait until we can attend one of their couples only parties?
Well I've been working on achieving a mmf, mff and mmff with my wife for a few years now. We're both 38 and slim - she has a gorgeous body! With each year that passes, I feel we make progress, although of course it's too slow!
Current status is...
She's agreed to go on a nudist holiday with me (we're going in June to the Dom Rep) - I think/hope this is a big step in the right direction, time will tell.
We'll take erotic novels with us on the holiday (that include all the fantasies I'd like to achieve!)
We now talk in bed (jokingly) about a mmf (usually it's with the fictional 'Simon').
She knows I would like to experiment more, with others, (but always with her included).
...but I need advice on what more to do, what more can I do. I really don't want to get to the end of the holiday without progressing the dream.
I look forward to your ideas/advice.
D.
Current status is...
She's agreed to go on a nudist holiday with me (we're going in June to the Dom Rep) - I think/hope this is a big step in the right direction, time will tell.
We'll take erotic novels with us on the holiday (that include all the fantasies I'd like to achieve!)
We now talk in bed (jokingly) about a mmf (usually it's with the fictional 'Simon').
She knows I would like to experiment more, with others, (but always with her included).
...but I need advice on what more to do, what more can I do. I really don't want to get to the end of the holiday without progressing the dream.
I look forward to your ideas/advice.
D.
