and just to add to the debate I wil jump in. I read the first page of this thread, then jumped straight to the last, as someone observed on the first page, by the time you read the whole lot it's time to do something else so you don't get a chance to post. I elected to post, missed a lot of the comments therefore please forgive me if I'm repeating something that has already been stated.
As I came onto this site this morning there were some 3,500 people supposedly online (I'm not sure if that's total membership but I suspect not judging by the number of pics in the galleries) and most of them, lets face it, are like me, saddo married guys who find it very difficult to type with one hand
. Seriously though, there is, understandably, a degree of hostility levelled at us a a whole although as usual it's the minority of nut cases that give the rest of us a bad name for being time wasters, pests, wankers (hold my hand up to that one.......ooops, not now) and generally a bloody nuisance bombarding couples and singles with one liners (I'm not holding my hand up to that one) and failing to show up etc. (nor that one).I would guess that the fact that I have to let anyone I do make contact with that I am married and cheating but that my wife wouldnt understand puts people off as its again a bit of a saddo thing to say and sounds realy lame. I know my wife doesnt understand as I have broached the subject of swinging on a number of occassions and she's just not interested, and sadly, our sex life isn't up to much.
Now if I came onto a forum and spouted all that I don't suppose I would be very welcome therefore I generally lurk.........with one hand.
