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Ellie21
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Ellie21
When men are looking to pay for sex they usually go for women size 12 and under even if the women are charging so much for an hour and the bbw is at least £50 cheaper or more look at adultwork and you will see the bbw hardly get looked at or a booking.
I know this because i've studied the way men look at when a bbw is giving herself away for nothing all the desperate men crawl out of the woodwork saying size and looks don't !
So what are u saying? only desperate men want fuller figured women? actually i think you'll find thats its comments like that that make bigger women not feel sexy or good about themselves, so now all the bbw who get a offer should be thinking....oh god hes only after me cause hes desparate, i have to agree i think that most men like slimmer women but i would not say only desparate men like bbw some men do actually choose to meet bigger ladies cause they want to NOT cause they have to!

Comments like mine are not the reason big women feel bad about their size its the way men act towards them and the way the media potrays them so don't turn that on me.
I have fuller figured friends who i go out with to nightclubs and sometimes watch them constantly have men make jokes about them while they are dancing or at the bar,i've had men push past them to ge tot my other friends and myself who are smaller build and i've talked to them about the difficulties they go through trying to be treated seriously and not like some jolly person by men.
When i look on here and see so many men saying looks and size don't matter i wonder why the majority of bigger women i see don't seem to feel that they are valued by anyone,okay some men are genuine but like i said why is it that when you look at the escort pages where big women are advertising do you see mainly the slim women with all the business.
I've also looked at another site where the men are constantly critisizing fat women saying they shouldn't be asking men to pay them for sex fat women should be paying them and saying if they want to meet fat women they can go to mcdonalds and the supermarket all those type of jokes and there was so many i got fed up of looking at them for my report it just sickened and angered me especially as i gather a lot of these men will be various ages and sizes and no oil painting who have to pay for it.
There are so many messages being posted like that it baffles me why on here it is okay to be fat by sooo many men my OPINION is its okay to be fat if you are giving it away.
Thats another thing i've looked at men and womens tend to go into a lot of detail about who they want and they are not afraid to say no hairy men,no overweight men or state the race they are looking for.
We all have our preferences so don't be afraid to say what type of lady you are looking for,you don't have to be offensive just be honest.
I've looked at ads and lost interest because the person hasn't said whether they are looking for a slim or well built woman or a white,black or asian lady,when you place an ad these things are important to the person reading it just as age,height and hair colour is , maybe you will get more women replying to your ad if you take time to explain exacly who you want.
Quote by well_busty_babe
why are we yet again suggesting that sexiness is to do with your clothes size?
there is no hard and fast rule that says that one size is good... another is bad.
i am sexy because i am me... not because i am fat! lol
there are plenty of slim girls who are sexy , just as there are plenty of bigger ones who are just as sexy.
there are also just as many mingers in both categories.
please can we stop all the labeling and start to look at people as individuals.
my size is just one of my many charecteristics.... its does not define me!

The reason why we are on this topic is because yet again a man has asked the same question about fat women versus slim as if women should all be one i think men forget that there is a lot of fat men out there too and in saying that fat men tend to also ask for slim women when they are looking on sites like this or paying for sex,it is only when they find their size stopping them from getting slim women that they then start looking for bigger women just as those men who find that they are not getting sex.
Fat women are ridiculed by the media and a good example is Sonia from Eastenders who is constantly critisized by the press even though she isn't that big and tv is supposed to make you look 7-10lbs heavier will always be an issue and whether a fat woman is sexyy or not 90% of the time she will be overlooked in favour of a slimmer woman thats reality.
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That you cant judge a book by its cover,people arent just skin deep you know.

Oh, i'm not judging them, as I said I have friends who are transsexuals (and of course many black & asian friends) but just that I didn't find them attractive. I think you misunderstood. I am sure you have friend you don't find attractive too, do you not? I was wanting to know what other people thought on the subject, that's all.
Don't dig your grave any deeper some of us know what you said and meant. rolleyes
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is this rough sex with ugly birds ?

It angers me when people think it is ugly birds that should be treated badly when sex is a man is eager for sex he will probably be a bit too ethusiastic at first regardless of who he is with, just because someone is ugly they don't deserve to be treated in a rough way they have feelings too. mad
When men are looking to pay for sex they usually go for women size 12 and under even if the women are charging so much for an hour and the bbw is at least £50 cheaper or more look at adultwork and you will see the bbw hardly get looked at or a booking.
I know this because i've studied the way men look at when a bbw is giving herself away for nothing all the desperate men crawl out of the woodwork saying size and looks don't !