Thanks getcarter, by the way what a fantastic film, the original i mean!
i promise i won't tell the mods and you would be surprised to know that i have received some pm's agreeing with me but they are too intimidated by the mods to openly post their support of my point. Now what sort of an open discussion forum is it when posters fell that they have to reply secretly?
Can't really tell you my secret as i don't have one. Maybe people are attracted to "Bunny Boilers" as i have been described.
Thanks tv_Susie,
As least there are some people out there who think that some of the mods take a very high handed approach with any poster who says something that they don't like or agree with. And your right the last comment about me being a bunny boiler was totally uncalled for.
Just to put everyone straight, with regards to these couples that didn't show, it was not because i had hasseled them leading to them thinking i was a nutter. In all cases it was a simple case of we had discussed a meet, had set a date, and they had failed to turn up without having the manners to inform me of the situation. That is unacceptable, and i don't care what some of the mods think, this situation must be addressed and not doing so just damages this site.
You know these forums are a complete waste of time. Unless you agree with a moderator, you just get shot down in flames by them every time. Also why do you have to get personally insulting bluexxx by suggesting that i am just looking for a quick shag and am not serious about this lifestyle?
Don't worry, you have once again confirmed for me the idea that whenever you have forums like this, they are totally dominated by a small click of friends who dictate whatever is said. There is no true open, reasonable discussion. Don't worry, i will not post another topic or reply here. Mant thanks!
Hang on, this is getting out of hand.
I never suggested that there be any area for posting comments on peoples performance or such like. I mearly asked if there could be somewhere where we could confirm that Mr and Mrs X did turn up. End of story, no other comment needed.
In reply to shireen above,
Whilst i accept that events can chage and things can crop up that prevent people from turing up, that does not excuse the sheer bad manners of people who do not have the deciency to inform the contact that they will not be there. I was brought up to believe that manners were everything, and so bad manners are never acceptable. How difficult is it to call to say we're not coming!
Hi Bluexxx,
Thank you, no i wasn't asleep. I just don't spend every waking hour checking out the forums and chat rooms. I would rather be out and about meeting contacts.
I've read some of that post you directed me to. Thank you and whilst i can see that some people get terribly upset about the whole idea, i still can't see the problem. The general complaint against the idea seems to be that new comers would have a difficult time being accepted into the fold because they wouldn't have been verified. Well i don't know how busy the scene is where you live but it seems to me that there are not thousands of couples around me all wanting to swing. Therefore that means there are a relatively limited number of people swinging and so once a contact has met all those confirmed genuine swingers in their area, then they would naturally want to give new unconfirmed swingers a chance. So i don't accept the arguement that newbies would be excluded.
And even if there was an element of that, surely the result would be good in that it would have the effect of discouraging those who are not genuine in that they would have to struggle and perserve to be recognised?
Thanks Katien_n_John,
At least someone seems to agree with me. Can someone please tell me why what i have said is so "controversial"? Surely as swingers we want to do anything that will improve and enhance this site and lifestyle. It is irritating for everye concerned when a contact doesn't show, so why shouldn't we praise those that do?
Why is the first moderator so upset that i have posted this topic? Surely it is perfectly reasonable to talk about this subject, after all this is an open forum where we can discuss whatever we wish. What is the problem? If you are so fed up with reading such posts, perhaps it just goes to show the scale of the problem and the need to tackle it.
Hi Guys,
This week and next were going to be fantastic. I had it all planed. i was finally going to meet four new couples that i had been talking to on mobiles, on MSN, via texts, and via email. They had all received a number of piccies of me in action showing i was the real McCoy, and they had sent me some piccies back. It couldn't get any better!
Then two days before meeting the first new couple, the guy suddenly announces that he has to watch me in action with another regular couple that i see to "check me out" and oh, would it be ok if i could set it up for him to fuck my couple? He said that his wife was classy but choosy and he always vetted guys first. The fact that he had never sent a piccie of her should have rung alarm bells , but as a single guy on here you have to go out on a limb sometimes. Well Keith, you are a sad fucking wanker and a fucking liar!
Then on Thursday, having spoken earlier in the day to the second couple that i had arranged to meet, i drove for 3.5 hours to stay in a Hotel near them so we could meet that evening. Guess what? Suddenly the lady was working late and no show. This was in fact the second time that i had failed to actually meet with this couple. But of course, they are"completely genuine".
Now today, i have arranged to meet my third new couple tomorrow night. Whilst we have swapped many piccies and emails, all of a sudden since arranging a date, they have become mysteriously quiet. No email to confirm the meeting from their end. Are these two also timewasters?
So, one more new couple left. Again, i'm meant to be seeing them next week. I've set a date and asked them if they can make that, but so far no reply.
i read on here many examples of couples moaning about single guys who are timewasters and wannabes, but it would appear to me that there are just as many couples that do the same thing.
Is there no way that we could set up some kind of database where swingers could confirm the genuineness of contacts that they have successfully met. I don't mean giving them marks on performance or bad mouthing those couples that don't show up, mearly an area to confirm those contacts that do show up.
What do you think?
Hi people,
Straigtforward question really. It is a beautiful day here down in Sussex. Is there anyone out this afternoon looking for some dogging fun? Although i've been to all the local spots, i've still yet to find my first dogging couple. Would really love to watch a couple have some fun together. If anyone is interested, please pm me.
Love Higman.
Hi guys,
I'm going to Belfast tomorrow for three days, and i was wondering if anyone can give me any advise as to dogging locations in the area. Or are there any ladies or couples who would be interested in meeting up for a drink and a bit of fun ? Just let me know, i'll be waiting,
Love Hogman xx
Hi everyone,
I'm going to be working over in the Kent area this coming week. Are there any ladies or couples out ther who would like to meet up for a drink and a chat. No pressure, no strings attached, and nothing more, unless we all get along really well and want something more to happen. I would just like some company during the evenings after a hard days work, and i would love to discuss with others their experiences of this lifestyle. I do hope someone will reply to this and get in touch with me. I have adverts on this website if anyone wants to check them out.
Cheers, Hogman xx
Hi bluexxx,
OK, OK, I take your point. Like i said before i was not trying to upset or offend anyone. Howver i did not like the way that mal69 responded. Lets call it quits and stop now. And with regards to that particular line, perhaps the alcohol was still running around my brain when i wrote it and i therefore apologise. OK ?
Hogman
Hi mal609,
I am most sorry if my post offended you. That certainly was not my intention. Neither was it so denigrate any of the ladies that read these posts. However i do have to take issue with your statement that you will terminate my membership of this site, if that is what you were suggesting. Who the hell are you to say what people can post and cannot post. As long as it doesn't break any of the site rules then individuals can post what they like. Why is it that as soon as someone gets into a position of what they think is authority, they instantly become tin pot Hitlers who think they can tell people what to do ? Lighten up man, take things in the spirit in which they were meant, ie as a bit of fun and not deadly serious. I actualy have a very high opinion of women, i think they are the single most important creation on the planet.
Hogman
Hello everybody,
First of all a question for the guys. Do you, like me, feel incredibly horny the next morning after you have been out for a few beers ?
Secondly, a question for the ladies. Is there any lady out ther who would like to help me with this problem. I have two balls full of sperm that need to be emptied, and the best place to empty them is up inside a lovely, warm wet, pussy. Any ladies interested in having their vaginas filled with copious amounts of cum ? Read my profile and adverts and email me if you are interested. This is a genuine post, i'm ready and available now.
South East area.
Love Hogman xx
Hi again,
Today i'm going to Eastbourne. Would like to mett up with any ladies or couples who are into dogging at any of the sites on the way or around that area. Can make either first thing this morning, next couple of hours say, or later on this afternoon. Email me if you are interested. I am totally genuine, and i can send you a facial piccie if necessary.
Love Hogman xx
Hi People,
Of to Sunny Hastings today down the A23. Any ladies up for some fun anywhere along that route ? Can make early this morning, next hour or so, or later this afternoon, say around 4pm.
Love Hogman xx
Hi Greebo,
You've got a PM.
Hogman
Hi peeps,
I posted a topic earlier asking if any ladies were interested in some nsa adult fun today anywhere on the way to or around the area of Eastbourne. Change of plan but i am now going to Shoreham today. So same deal, any girls interested ?
Love Hogman xx
Hi Peeps,
I will be travelling down to Eastbourne today to work. Does any lady fancy meeting up for some nsa daytime adult fun today in any of the local haunts ?
Still looking for my first successful Dogging experience. Seen a number of young courting couples at some of these sites, but they have just got embarassed and driven away when i have given any sortt of signal to show my interest. Obviously NOT doggers!
So come on, give me a PM or email and lets meet,
Love Hogman xx
Aw babe,
Give me a break, i'm just a newbie and need as much advice and encouragement as i can get. And anyway, it's just defeatist to say that 4 hours is great a distance, your not even trying, lol! i'll meet you half way if you like.
Anyway, there is a couple in the car right next to me and she seems intent in poloishing his knob with her mouth, but they do't seem to want to let me play, and i'm feeling soooo randy. Shall i keepyou informed of their progress ?
Love Hogman xx
Hi bluexxx,
Do you not believe me? I really am sitting there right now. Babe,just come on down and have a look. Woud love to meet you.
Love Hogman xx
Hi peeps,
I'm talking to you right now through the wonders of modern technology and Bluetooth. I'm sitting here up at Devils waiting for some other doggers to turn up. Who cares what the weather is doing, i'm feeling exceedingly randy, have an enormous erection and need some ladies help with it. Come up her to the and join me now. Please reply to me via email if interested. Come on girls, what else is there to do on a rainy Sunday afternoon ?
Love Hogman xx
Hi peeps,
I'm sitting here feeling exceedingly randy and ready for some fun. Anyone want to join me. I'm all ready to go out now anywhere in the areas above. Any interest, just PM me but do it soon cause i won't be sitting here waiting for a reply for long !
Love Hogman xx
Oh God, i do hope so, lol! I don't know about other blokes, but when i have been out for a skinful of booze, i always feel incredibly horny the next morning. And last night, we went out to a local pub, saw a fantastic live band, had a shit load of vodka, and now i'm beside myself with lust. Are there any ladies out there who would like to help relieve me of this problem ?
Love Hogman xx
Is it raining then ? God, i've spent so much time sitting herewatching swingingheaven that i hadn't bothered to look outside !
Anyway, who cares if you go frizzy when you are out in the rain. Come and sit in my car and you won't have to get wet, well not on your head anyway, lol !
Weather is awful down here in beautiful sussex, but at least it isn't raining. Anyone out for some fun today ?
Hi eagerslut9,
You also have a PM
Hogman
Hi Peeps,
New to all this but already i have found some of the well known sites and witnessed some furtive goings on !! Just wish i could have been part of them. Anyway, is anyone out today during the day in Sussex and Surrey ?
Love Hogman xx
Sorru bluexxx,
I wasn't trying to have a dig, just saying thanks for some help and i do understand why you have these rules.
Hogman