II must agree that this new search has introduced too many mouse clicks.
Distance, side scroll bar downwards, couples seeking couples, scroll bar downwards, ads radio button, and search. More than the old 3 clicks ;-D
now a gripe that isn't just petulance ;-).
Why do I have to enable scripting to search? - it should be done serverside, leaving my system safe from trackers, trojans, viruses whatever. Having active scripting, dramatically lessens the security on my pc.
Otherwise, the new search is far more versatile, thanks.
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Jemlet
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 55
Straight Male, 58
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Quote by Darkfire
As a matter of interest do you orgasm with penatrative sex with your regular partner? There was some research (sorry can't remember where I read it) that "A women won't have an orgasm unless SHE wants one. You can physically facilitate the process but unless she wants to orgasm she will hold back." Do you think that there are occasions where subconciously you don't allow yourself to orgasm until you have reached a level of mental comfort?
To answer this - not sure if it was to me personally or to the thread contributors in general... but penetration alone is not enough, with anyone
I do agree that usually women in particular have to reach a mental level of comfort before she'll 'allow' orgasm to happen.... but I'm very much in the minority with my other thoughts on this so am perhaps not the person to ask
sorry I was a bit vague - you and the other thread contributors. I was wondering in some vague sort of friday night way if you were more likely to come with penetration alone with a regular partner but you clarified that xxx
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Quote by tweeky
Mrs Tweeky and I went too tea today at my parents house. I walked in, ohh the nice table wear is out and wine glass's too, odd. We went in the front room and my Mum handed Mrs Tweeky a card we both asked "whats that". We got a bit of a bemused look in returnSo Mrs Tweeky opened it slooowly and then laughed, she looks at me .... "happy anniversary love" FFS we both forgot. 4 years of wed bliss 10 years total and we forgot already
Anyone else's memory this good?
Yip ours - we have forgotten our anniversary too
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Quote by Darkfire
Bear with me on this one - I know what I want to ask, along a similar line to the Scene Replay thread... but it aint coming out right! ...but, its Friday, we're due a sex-related thread, so I'm trying ..
From previous discussions and threads here, I'm aware that there's not that many of us who can orgasm at the drop of a hat (aka through penetration alone) and something else is usually required to tip you over the edge - clit stimulation being the main one but I'm curious about any others that really hit your spot and, for want of a better word, guarantee an orgasm
I've always found it incredibly difficult to orgasm through penetration alone...it can take me right to the edge...but never actually over it, no matter how horny I am! In fact, if I'm that horny, I kinda cant orgasm at all, until it builds to the point of exploding :lol2: Is anyone else the same ? (male or female
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So I guess the actual question is... is there one particular thing that will make you orgasm? the 'when all else fails' button? can you go right to the edge but not over it without this particular thing? ..and, what is it!? Or, are you one of the lucky people who can cum for England pretty easily? and (edited to add...) Oooo, sudden thought! :idea: - is there anyone who cant orgasm without penetration? :dunno:
Go on, have a bash (pun intended
As a matter of interest do you orgasm with penatrative sex with your regular partner? There was some research (sorry can't remember where I read it) that "A women won't have an orgasm unless SHE wants one. You can physically facilitate the process but unless she wants to orgasm she will hold back." Do you think that there are occasions where subconciously you don't allow yourself to orgasm until you have reached a level of mental comfort?
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Quote by Dirtygirlie
On second thoughts... it seems they've almost thought of everything! :giggle:
I can say these are good fun - I have an I-vibe, (you can get an i-vibe 2 for you and your partner)which definately makes your mp3 player far more useful and your commute potentially less boring.
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Quote by earthchild
they dont necessarily read em hun
they look at pics and send a wink cos they cant be arsed to read the profile and send a proper pm
i cant help it i am a nosey cow i always check profiles whether its a wink or not, if it has nothing on i send back, why ask me to look at your profile when there is nothing on it.
i hate winks
Earthy xx
For someone that doesn't know how most people appear to view winks I can appreciate that they are seeing a wink as breaking the ice. If they are too lazy to bother to read your profile then no problem with ignoring them, but assuming they are not just trying their luck with everyone, and that they would actually like a response I would have thought they would have taken the trouble to fill in their own profile. It really intrigues me that the sort of half hearted attempt at contact.
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Quote by Dlep
I'll trade you Jemlet !
you do one and i'll do one, any subject of your choice :thumbup:
Dollop are you shittin me? its almost pub kickin out time! you know I dont go in there at witching hour
ok - apologies if its being done before
Mixed wires Jemlet....I was on about a chat room rather than a forum thread
Dont apologise :D
ok I'll be brave and come and say hello xxx
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Ok as a long time registered seldom posts type of person I've read enough to know that some people get inundated with winks. I know that these are of such a frequency that the person has no choice but to ignore them. Now we don't get that many that they are still enough of a novelty to go and check a persons's profile and low and behold no profile and no photos. Gee that really did it for me
What is the bare minumum you expect when someone has taken the trouble to read your profile and pm you in some shape or form?
What is the bare minumum you expect when someone has taken the trouble to read your profile and pm you in some shape or form?
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Quote by winchwenchsounds far to familiar
Clothes:
Leg warmers of course with "street dancer" shoes
Bermuda shorts
Mismatched colour flourescent socks yip purple and yellow were acceptable combinations
Anything lairy in fact!
Music:
Wet Wet Wet
Pet shop Boys
Erasure
Gloria Estefan
Bangles
FYC
Transvision Vamp.......to name a few! Guess the year if you're bored
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You've probably heard of the bee problem in the US and europe (including the UK) - when entire hives are dying off inexplicably all over the countryside in large numbers.
Some research done by German scientists reckon that one of the main problems is pollen from GM crops which affect the natural bacteria in the bees stomachs - which effectively kills them.
One third of the crops grown in the first world countries rely on bees for pollination for them to produce seeds... No bees and... :cry:
Some research done by German scientists reckon that one of the main problems is pollen from GM crops which affect the natural bacteria in the bees stomachs - which effectively kills them.
One third of the crops grown in the first world countries rely on bees for pollination for them to produce seeds... No bees and... :cry:
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Oh, I forgot to say - not being circumsised, means I pee almost the same as b4 I got the PA. As the ring is usually tight in the pierced hole, there is minimal leakage from the hole on the underside, even if you are circumsised. The ring will tend to direct the flow somewhat, but pulling the ring out of the way to the side, or rotating the penis sideways can alleviate this.
Or you can sit down.
Or you can sit down.
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Mr Jemlet here:
I had a PA done two years ago - and I wouldn't go back - Jemlet reckons I feel thicker and she gets more stimulation.
It didn't hurt too much, sorta like an intense and very short lived burning sensation. The ring being put in was ouch, though. I needed to get a larger diameter ring, as the ring provided was too tight during nightime erections.
I could play after about 4 days, with full sex (wearing a condom) after a week - still had to be careful, as it was still painful. It probably took 3-4 weeks to not have to be careful during sex. As a PA piercing can migrate, it is suggested you take it really easy - with no sex or masturbation if there's blood.
Over 9 months I slowly stretched the gauge from the initial to 5mm. The thicker the diameter, the less likely it'll tear, personally I'd say get it to at least a 4mm gauge.
Otherwise, follow the piercers advise on salting and use lavendar oil to help healing.
Enjoy.
I had a PA done two years ago - and I wouldn't go back - Jemlet reckons I feel thicker and she gets more stimulation.
It didn't hurt too much, sorta like an intense and very short lived burning sensation. The ring being put in was ouch, though. I needed to get a larger diameter ring, as the ring provided was too tight during nightime erections.
I could play after about 4 days, with full sex (wearing a condom) after a week - still had to be careful, as it was still painful. It probably took 3-4 weeks to not have to be careful during sex. As a PA piercing can migrate, it is suggested you take it really easy - with no sex or masturbation if there's blood.
Over 9 months I slowly stretched the gauge from the initial to 5mm. The thicker the diameter, the less likely it'll tear, personally I'd say get it to at least a 4mm gauge.
Otherwise, follow the piercers advise on salting and use lavendar oil to help healing.
Enjoy.
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Quote by tabbi
You know what? I think the fact that you've put so much thought and effort into finding the right set for your friend will mean that the right set for her has found you
Well done xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
edited to say....ooops sorry jemlet i didn't read all the posts first but i think we're thinking along the same lines lol
Its okay - great mind think alike
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Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
I'd like to have a BBQ in the summer.
I'd do it by private invite for the people we know well.
Starting off quite chilled out - nice food, fine wine & good conversation.
Then dancing around laughing and a giggling and onto who knows what.
I'd wouldn't label it as purely social or a play meet- just a gathering of good company and just let the evening progress naturally, whichever way that may be.
Yip sounds perfect - could have done with one last night as was in the mood for a nice st patricks day sing along, but woke up to late to organise
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If she is not that experienced then choose a tarot deck that has a person for every card - makes it a little bit easier to feel the meaning of each card.
When it comes to choosing a deck think very strongly of the person the deck is for and then see which one you are most drawn too.
Enjoy
When it comes to choosing a deck think very strongly of the person the deck is for and then see which one you are most drawn too.
Enjoy
