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Johnboywalton
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 48
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Your right of course KK. ITs a difficult one I know and I've been wrestling with the idea of asking an escort to come and visit for some time. I've been in contact with a few and we've communicated via email. I'm been very open with them and made them aware of my situation. A couple of which say they'd never discriminate in any way (ok money's money no matter who the client is) and that they have other disabled clients.
Hey KK & BHD.
Firstly Kitkat; with regards to having my nelsons column being dismantled (a strange anology when I look back on it) its been a 'long long' time since anyways even had a chip away at it. EIGHT years! So I'm talking years of pent up sexual dissatisfaction. Hence my yearning. As everyone seems to be pretty open on SW I guess I should be also. Self gratification isn't something I'm blessed with unfortunately after my accident. A spinal cord accident has left me with lesser sensation from the chest down so sex for me isn't about the climax itself (despite the fact I can still stand to attention when called upon); its more about the satisfaction of being able to pleasure the partner. Hearing the yearn's of pleasure and facial reactions when I touch the right spots. Does that make sense? I do want the dismantling to mean something but at the moment I'm so tightly wound I just need that release - hence the call girl option.
Secondly BHD; Unfortunately I have a taste for the odd alcoholic beverage - hence my requirement to use the wheels when socialising. If I wasn't partial to the liquer I'd more often than not use my crutches when socialising. In answer to your question I do find peoples recations differ when I'm in a wheelchair - not in a distasteful way but in a way 'some' (and I emphasise some as they're in the minority) find it difficult to look past the wheelchair. Especially in terms of realising disabled peop's have sexual needs too (hence the thread title). Please don't think I'm bitter about being in a wheelchair and resent able bodied peop's as I'm not. Its just I've been this way long enough to pick up on these things.
Firstly Kitkat; with regards to having my nelsons column being dismantled (a strange anology when I look back on it) its been a 'long long' time since anyways even had a chip away at it. EIGHT years! So I'm talking years of pent up sexual dissatisfaction. Hence my yearning. As everyone seems to be pretty open on SW I guess I should be also. Self gratification isn't something I'm blessed with unfortunately after my accident. A spinal cord accident has left me with lesser sensation from the chest down so sex for me isn't about the climax itself (despite the fact I can still stand to attention when called upon); its more about the satisfaction of being able to pleasure the partner. Hearing the yearn's of pleasure and facial reactions when I touch the right spots. Does that make sense? I do want the dismantling to mean something but at the moment I'm so tightly wound I just need that release - hence the call girl option.
Secondly BHD; Unfortunately I have a taste for the odd alcoholic beverage - hence my requirement to use the wheels when socialising. If I wasn't partial to the liquer I'd more often than not use my crutches when socialising. In answer to your question I do find peoples recations differ when I'm in a wheelchair - not in a distasteful way but in a way 'some' (and I emphasise some as they're in the minority) find it difficult to look past the wheelchair. Especially in terms of realising disabled peop's have sexual needs too (hence the thread title). Please don't think I'm bitter about being in a wheelchair and resent able bodied peop's as I'm not. Its just I've been this way long enough to pick up on these things.
Nothing related to the joy of sex but.......On August 11th Channel 4 are screening an american TV series called LOST. You may have seen the surreal promo adverts over the past couple of days. Couples dancing on a beach with a plane wreck in the background. All I'm saying is watch it! I've seen the entire series via download and its AMAZING. TRUELY ENSPIRING & it sets the benchmark for all future television. A Bold statement I know but its that good. Remember you heard it there first. WATCH IT.
I'd be interested in hearing any views from those who've already seen it?!?
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I'd be interested in hearing any views from those who've already seen it?!?
:) Ok - So I've tried the old 'wanna shag' tac and it doesn't seem to work for me. It actually seem quite shallow looking back on it anyway,
Instead lets try a new approach - ahum here goes.....are there any girls still single in South Wales? If so why not message me and we could get to know one another over the net, perhaps meet up, and go from there.
I'm no ogre so if you'd like a piccy just ask. I'm 26 but age isn't an issue to me.
Wonder if I'll get a reply!?!
Instead lets try a new approach - ahum here goes.....are there any girls still single in South Wales? If so why not message me and we could get to know one another over the net, perhaps meet up, and go from there.
I'm no ogre so if you'd like a piccy just ask. I'm 26 but age isn't an issue to me.
Wonder if I'll get a reply!?!
I'm currently have a skinhead but about 10 years ago I had shoulder length hair. One night the biggest, blackest, hairiest moth I've ever seen flew into my room. I thought nothing of it as whats a moth to me. A couple of hours later I had an itch in my hair. As I ran through my fingers through that mop of mine I noticed that the big bad ass moth had decided to nestle its way into my locks. I freaked, jumped up and banged my head on the top bunk bed. I pride myself in being a phobia free person but ever since the sight of a moth makes me shake like a baby. I hate the things with a passion. DEATH TO ALL MOTHS! :shock: :shock: :shock: Butterflies on the other hand are beautiful creatures so hands off!
Hey there all!
I'd be interested in hearing your views, advise and opinions on this one. Especially if there are people out there who are in the same situation.
I'm a disabled guy of 25 years of age living in South Wales. I'm not dependant on a wheelchair as I can walk with the aid of crutches but normally use one when I'm socialising. Now my problem is this - I like girls (who doesn't) and often end up having a cuddle on the dance floor. So in that sense I've got to 1st base. However, when I approach the subject or make my move for 2nd base (not as in 'wanna shag') I never get anywhere. I do get the feeling some girls are afraid of the whole disabled thing. Which is understandable in a way. Hey I might be the same way if it was the other way around.
Ok so here's the thing - I've been walking around with a nelsons column for the last few months with no one to dismantle it - So I've been thinking of late of turning to a florence nightingale type person whom might help me with my problem - in essence a prostitute. Not one which you might pick up down a dark and seedy ally but a high class one you might find advertising themselves as escorts.
I'm not sure whether I'm not doing the right thing or not? Does my yearning for attention justify me turning to a prostitute? Is this a dark and seedy world I may be fuelling?
Of course I need to find myself a nice girlfriend who'll be able to help me but I'm not sure I can wait that long! Whats a guy gotta do!
Ps If there are any nice gal's South Wales out there who want to help me out of this sticky jam feel free to message me.
I'd be interested in hearing your views, advise and opinions on this one. Especially if there are people out there who are in the same situation.
I'm a disabled guy of 25 years of age living in South Wales. I'm not dependant on a wheelchair as I can walk with the aid of crutches but normally use one when I'm socialising. Now my problem is this - I like girls (who doesn't) and often end up having a cuddle on the dance floor. So in that sense I've got to 1st base. However, when I approach the subject or make my move for 2nd base (not as in 'wanna shag') I never get anywhere. I do get the feeling some girls are afraid of the whole disabled thing. Which is understandable in a way. Hey I might be the same way if it was the other way around.
Ok so here's the thing - I've been walking around with a nelsons column for the last few months with no one to dismantle it - So I've been thinking of late of turning to a florence nightingale type person whom might help me with my problem - in essence a prostitute. Not one which you might pick up down a dark and seedy ally but a high class one you might find advertising themselves as escorts.
I'm not sure whether I'm not doing the right thing or not? Does my yearning for attention justify me turning to a prostitute? Is this a dark and seedy world I may be fuelling?
Of course I need to find myself a nice girlfriend who'll be able to help me but I'm not sure I can wait that long! Whats a guy gotta do!
Ps If there are any nice gal's South Wales out there who want to help me out of this sticky jam feel free to message me.
