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Just spent 10 mins trying to get my head round that definition of Sexual Addiction.
Isn't it addiction when you can't function 'normally '(it adversely affects your working and social life) because it takes over and controls you? That's different from being incredibly randy and enjoying different sexual partners.
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It is NOT in the terms and conditions of when I signed up that my PMs could or would be monitored
Gem. x
I have no doubt that as this site will rely on a database to work -so anyone with access to that database (i.e. programmers, etc) will be able to see all your posts, PM's and personal details including the IP address you access from.
I run a simple forum on a site elsewhere (nothing to do with swinging) and I can look through the database if I'm so inclined...
It has the same colours and feel as the BT logo and for that reason it could be improved.
A logo should be unique, and identifiable with activity of the organisation it represents unless you have endless pots of money to tell people what the logo means (think Orange).
Why only the female form represented...?
A logo should be unique, and identifiable with activity of the organisation it represents unless you have endless pots of money to tell people what the logo means (think Orange).
Why only the female form represented...?
The last but one non-swinger ('vanilla'?) I dated got so turned on by me telling her I'd been with other guys she went out and found herself a bi woman.
She was telling me this week that's she's going to spend the night with her bi friend and the bi friend's husband. No idea if they are on here though. Do I get brownie points for introductions to the swinging lifestyle?? Get a free badge if you introduce 10 people??
She was telling me this week that's she's going to spend the night with her bi friend and the bi friend's husband. No idea if they are on here though. Do I get brownie points for introductions to the swinging lifestyle?? Get a free badge if you introduce 10 people??
My theory is that morals probably originated as pure common sense to protect the community at large (don't impregnate your sister, for example, would be a good moral to stick to) but they then become refined, expanded and ever more detailed and become hijacked by people (religious, political, power mad) for their own ends.
They then are used by those people to control other individuals and populations by a combination of denying knowledge and gradually occupying the “moral high ground†to the exclusion of every other moral or belief system (i.e. “we are right and you must therefore be wrong, so we can cast you out / torture you / kill you / make war on you / take your territory, etc, )
There are so many examples of this in the world right now.
One of my favourite quotes goes something like this:
“Let me keep company with those who are searching for answers but save me from those who have found
(If anyone can give me the exact quote and its origin I’d be grateful).
They then are used by those people to control other individuals and populations by a combination of denying knowledge and gradually occupying the “moral high ground†to the exclusion of every other moral or belief system (i.e. “we are right and you must therefore be wrong, so we can cast you out / torture you / kill you / make war on you / take your territory, etc, )
There are so many examples of this in the world right now.
One of my favourite quotes goes something like this:
“Let me keep company with those who are searching for answers but save me from those who have found
(If anyone can give me the exact quote and its origin I’d be grateful).
Its a classic problem - there is no agreed definition of what 'moral' is between groups of different interests and beliefs.
By the standards of the Archbishop of Canterbury or Christian Voice I've no doubt we are seen as immoral. By the standards of some of my friend's late teenage children who get blind drunk at weekends and take enormous risks shagging whoever they meet in a pub or club, people on here who are careful and considerate are probably seen as quite moral / stuffy and old fashioned.
Its all Einstein's fault - he invented relativity.
By the standards of the Archbishop of Canterbury or Christian Voice I've no doubt we are seen as immoral. By the standards of some of my friend's late teenage children who get blind drunk at weekends and take enormous risks shagging whoever they meet in a pub or club, people on here who are careful and considerate are probably seen as quite moral / stuffy and old fashioned.
Its all Einstein's fault - he invented relativity.
Ah Paris! City of "Last Tango" and all that....
We both enjoy anal sex but we'd forgotten the KY and all the shops were closed.
Over dinner in a very nice restaurant we were discussing Marlon's use of butter in the film and suddenly salvation arrived with the bread in the form of two neat little sealed tubs of butter which disappeared quickly into a handbag.
Later on we discovered one was salted and the other unsalted. Which gave us a dilemma -
Is unsalted better for the intended use than salted?
Is one healthier than the other?
Which would you have used first?
We both enjoy anal sex but we'd forgotten the KY and all the shops were closed.
Over dinner in a very nice restaurant we were discussing Marlon's use of butter in the film and suddenly salvation arrived with the bread in the form of two neat little sealed tubs of butter which disappeared quickly into a handbag.
Later on we discovered one was salted and the other unsalted. Which gave us a dilemma -
Is unsalted better for the intended use than salted?
Is one healthier than the other?
Which would you have used first?
Get a professional marine surveyor - it'll cost you but you'll get a comprehensive survey so there'll be no nasty surprises later on. If you get it wrong the old adage - that a boat is "a hole in the water into which you pour money" - will apply in spades.
The RYA ( ) have some useful advice available. They have an inland section.
Go to the newsgroup and ask about the specific type of boat you are looking at - there's bound to be some other owners out there. (You can access newsgroups via Outlook Express if you don't have any specific software on your PC).
Look to see if the boat has a class association or owner-group web site - usually lots of advice on those type of sites, or at the very least useful contacts numbers.
Have fun.
The RYA ( ) have some useful advice available. They have an inland section.
Go to the newsgroup and ask about the specific type of boat you are looking at - there's bound to be some other owners out there. (You can access newsgroups via Outlook Express if you don't have any specific software on your PC).
Look to see if the boat has a class association or owner-group web site - usually lots of advice on those type of sites, or at the very least useful contacts numbers.
Have fun.
Putting an ad in the photo ads section here:
http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/index.html
... giving some idea of what you are looking for would be a good start!
Good luck.
http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/index.html
... giving some idea of what you are looking for would be a good start!
Good luck.
Go for it.
Three of my previous girlfriends and 1 ex-wife used to have very strong orgasms while having anal and loved it as much as I love it.
Just take it very very slowly and gently and use lots of lubricant. Ask her to tell you when to push - or respond to her pushing against you so she's controlling the penetration. After all she's the one who's going to get hurt if you are too eager (its hard not to be eager though!)
Enjoy yourselves and if either of you don't like it - stop doing it!
Three of my previous girlfriends and 1 ex-wife used to have very strong orgasms while having anal and loved it as much as I love it.
Just take it very very slowly and gently and use lots of lubricant. Ask her to tell you when to push - or respond to her pushing against you so she's controlling the penetration. After all she's the one who's going to get hurt if you are too eager (its hard not to be eager though!)
Enjoy yourselves and if either of you don't like it - stop doing it!
