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MrElad
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 53

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Thats fair comment. I hadnt thought about it along those line. I guess being new has more than one draw back, the main one understanding how the scene works. thanks.
To be honest, I am surprised that this has made it to two pages. From what I can see, you have individuals that are not in any position of responsibility on the site saying they are in favour, and then you have those that are, saying they are not.
Setting up another room isnt difficult and modding it isnt either.
With regards to what can be spoken about, I grant you that it may not be much different from the swingers room, but that doesnt mean that doggers that are online, cant pm each other with discussions about locations and such,(live) and that negates the need for waiting for a response via the web-based pm. Plus, chatting live is far more stimulating than email's or pm's via the site. imo wink
If its too much hassle, then there is already a room available and we all have the facility to use that. I just thought that rather than not knowing who was into what, having your own room for your own little part of the community would help the communication process to be made more accessable and speed things up for people that are looking for things quicker.
Sorry If I have caused a bit of a sh*t storm that wasnt my intention, I was just tossing some ideas around.
Regards,
R.
lol, this wasnt an attempt to raise my profile, or take part in a popularity contest, i just thought it would be a good idea. Granted there is a room already there, but its chaotic.
Not to worry as i said, it was only a suggestion. biggrin
I was expecting this response, and its a valid question.
The only reason I ask is i visited the Swingers chat room tonight, and there didnt seem to be much in the way of Dogging Chat. Granted this is probably because I am new and didnt really know anyone but it was just a thought to get the like minded people in the same room at the same time.
If you feel that its not worth it, thats fine it was just a suggestion.
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Hi Guys/Gals.
I notice that there's a swingers chat room on irc, how about we create a Dogging Room also.
Its good that we have a forums for us to chat on, but nothing beats chatting real time.
Perhaps the regulars/mods in here could create one and then we all have a place to hang out and gas!?
Opinions?
"you're new, we won't share info with you til we know you're really a dogger"

I have had this already.
I know its a very secular group, and I really appreciate the reasons for not giving out all the information, but as with anything when you are new, there is absolutely no trust. This is brought about by the idiots that spoil it for the rest of us (albeit new) people that are looking to get involved.
From a manchester point of view, there only seem to be a few areas that are active, and those are either crawling with gay blokes cruising, or police/kids smoking weed.
Im not sure exactly what I am going to do to get round this other than get involved with conversations on here. I'm a bit stumped really.
New to these boards, but would be definately up for it.
Do you have any ideas of a location yet, I am oldham based, but could travel.
Hope to see you all soon.
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