Thanks for the feedback. Actually I did go to the reporting pages but the process is rather long winded with too many drop down options before you get where you need to be. In this instance being rather disturbed after the event I did not pursue it.
The purpose of my message was not to whinge, as you put it, but simply to highlight, discuss and give my opinion on an issue - which is what I thought forums were all about.
As whispering is such an issue I find it strange that a fix hasn’t been made to disable whispers. We hate whispers, generally its single men saying what a babe my girl is. Its true and it’s a compliment so our question to those guys is why whisper it?
Whispers can also be extremely offensive, last night we were on cam and were publicly abused by a single male antagonist. He then followed this by sending a stream of abuse on whispers. It would be better if we were able to either disable the whispers or somehow appear to be offline – ie no name in the chatters window. I know we could report him but whats the point? He would just sign in again under a different name, at least we know who he is and can change rooms should he reappear.
I think a warning mesage has little effect on these guys.
No one seems to have answered the question about Dubai. I live between SW UK, Kazakstan and Dubai and for the last year the majority of my time has been in Dubai.
There is a swing scene and a couple of groups, but it really is very slow and limited. Most contact is by referal to fellow swingers or through the expatriates site. Remember its a Muslim state, even living together is illegal.
For sinle guys there is an endless and I mean endless supply of ready willing young fit ladies. Clubs abound and my girlfriend and I love the place.
The added bonus is it hardly ever rains and it is the safest city on the planet.
Hope this helps.
MK