For the benefit of those who seem to be unable to read further....... please just read the profile and stop sending friend requests when you've not even said hello in chat or exchanged messages first!!!

We don't mean to offend anyone, but in the past we got lots of winks which you may not be aware just send a standard "I'd like to know more... like your profile etc etc" message, so much so that we have now changed our settings to send a standard reply back, we don't even see the wink, so don't be a winker as you are just wasting your time. 

Single men are two a penny on here, so we are looking for those that stand out (and we don't mean how impressive your todger might be). Take note of our preferences and please only message us if you fit our criteria. Put some effort into it if you want to get anywhere, be polite and sensible, you need to catch Polly's attention. If you can't be bothered to write more than a few words, then we can't be bothered to look at your profile. Treat this like a job application, you have to get through the initial sift to stand a chance of an interview so you need an impressive CV. We don't want your life story but include a bit of general background, and things like approximate location, age, height, weight. 

Please do not send friend requests if we've not even had some sort of conversation in the chatrooms, or exchanged messages via the mailbox, you are just wasting your time as we will just delete without even considering you. Do you just go up to complete strangers in the pub and assume they're your mate just because you've just walked over? Didn't think so! It's not going to get you anywhere with us, please look elsewhere if that's all you can manage.

We are interested in meeting SINGLE, STRAIGHT, PROFESSIONAL, INTELLIGENT AND ARTICULATE MEN between ages 45 to 60. We don't want to meet bi or bi-curious guys, sorry just not our thing, 

We are in West Norfolk, but we don't like to play in our own backyard, so if you are within say 20 miles of us it's unlikely that we will want to meet you. 

We are not interested if you are playing away as we don't want to potentially get involved in someone else's problems or be responsible for hurting someone.

If you catch our eye, we expect to exchange a few messages to chat about what a meet MIGHT entail, and possibly in due course a phone chat - this does not mean phone sex, it's about helping Polly decide if she wants to meet you. Again, be polite and sensible. 

If a meet becomes possible, we will initially meet in a pub to see if we all get on in person. Please note that meeting up doesn't guarantee fun, Polly needs to feel some attraction to a potential playmate. You should be smart, well groomed and smelling nice. Some intelligent conversation over a drink and perhaps a little bit of flirting etc. If she's happy, then we can go further.