I guess we all consider ourselves an exception in some way or another, and try to explain ourselves accordingly. Some just want sex, and if that is all, that's fine. Others are bored and seek a change. Some are looking to explore but can't for whatever reason in their current situation. Some may call that cheating, but I don't judge as we are all the arbiters of our own conscience, and regardless, such 'standards' are simply religious and or societies rules, and nothing else. Many seek excitement or perhaps experiences outside the vanilla and missionary.

I do wonder what category I fall into. 

One thing I do know is that the physical act is always enhanced by a cerebral connection, or mental stimulation.

So, what am I looking for?  

Whatever it is, for me it's best combined with the erotic and naughty. Our imaginations are our most powerful tool, so combining the two can only lead to something very special. It's with connections like those that we can find the safety and comfort to explore more fully our deeper desires. Perhaps things that have long intrigued us but we've struggled to explore.

Covid and lockdowns has brought some very interesting experiences into my life, including more than one old / young role play scenarios, exploring cuckold fantasies with some couples, and a couple of very specific fantasy experiences with some married subs.   

Long may those opportunities continue.