If I had withheld sexual contact I would expect nothing else. My lack of sexual action to my partner if I had one would be the cause of the cheating and therefore my fault. Deal with the cause not the victim.
Obviously all of the critics are in wonderful relationships with sexy partners. If you were in the same boat as most of the 'single' men on here you wouldn't be so quick to condemn. Also no one on here is critical of a nympho wife cheating on her husband. Read the bloody stories and follow up comments. Hypocritical people!