Hey All
I haven't been a plorific poster.... but having seen over the lasst few weeks/months posts being locked... I wanted to inject some Lurving back into SH
so with that i will say:
Beat me bash me
Bite my bum
I'll whip you
Strip you
Make you Cum
Fluck me
Suck me
Lick me out
Pull my nipples
Till i Shout.
Yes it is early.... but in a post V'day tinternet hugging.....(no it's not poetry)
Hugs and friendly stroking to all, snugles, love and warmth.
No i've not been on drugs! ;-) but i may have drunk a bit too much champagne.
ahhh i am like this all the time - Big loving and bless you all... wake with a smile on your faces..... and a hard on in your hand. ;-)
xxxx
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RidingMountains2
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 48
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Quote by Velvet Lips
....I am also concerned about any effect this will have on any references given to new employers as I am definately leaving, so for now I'm letting thing lay, but as you rightly say I will take it up again if I can't get out or he starts up again.
Thank you to you all for the effort you have taken to write x
VL - as far as references go it is illegal to give a bad reference... it would be worth finding out what your company policy is on references....many large companies will generally only confirm that you worked for them and make no comment on your abilities.
References
An employer is not obliged to provide a reference for an employee.
What should be included in a Reference?
Length of service and position held.
Competence on the job.
Honesty.
Time-keeping.
Reasons for leaving.
Any other comments pertaining to the employee such as any lengthy period of absence.
Any other remarks of a more personal nature.
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What are the Key Points to Consider?
Provided that the employer believes the reference to be correct and as long as it is provided without malice, the reference is protected by 'qualified privilege'. This means that the employer will have a defence to any defamation claim brought by the employee if the information turns out to be untrue.
The defence of qualified privilege is lost forever if the statement falls into the hands of a third person who does not have a valid interest in the matter. Such statements should therefore be clearly marked 'Private and Confidential'.
An employer does owe a duty of care to the employee about whom he is writing a reference. The employer must take reasonable care in the preparation of a reference, as he will be held liable in negligence if he fails to do so and the employee suffers damage as a result.
The employer's obligation is to provide a true and fair reference to the best of his knowledge and any statement must not be misleading.
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What Action can the Recipient of a Negligent Reference Take?
The recipient of an inaccurate statement may be able to sue the person giving the reference for any loss suffered, if it was reasonably foreseeable that the recipient of a reference would act on its contents.
If reliance has been placed on a carelessly drawn up reference the giver of the reference may be held liable to pay the recipient damages for financial losses that flow directly from the negligence.
Hope that helps
Quote by Missy
Right I need help to kill my brother, all the things he could have done, he's done this, I mean I lend him my landrover so he can move his F1 sidecar, and what does he do.
HE CLEANS IT, and NOT ONLY CLEANS IT POLISHES IT.
FFS Landrovers are susposed to be muddy.
Sparky
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:You should start doing school runs then - fit right in you will, with all the other sparkly clean 4 x 4s that have never been further off road than mounting the kerb on each (and every) left turn!!!
And most of them don't even do that ... they just block the road..... or park in residents driveways ;-) :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
The problem is that it is never actually goign to stop it - short of the administrators personally interviewing it's members before they are given acess to the full site... you are not going to stop it - this is the unfortunate aspect to the internet.
You can however generally tell by the way that people post as to whether they ar egenuine or not - however you must also consider that yes this is a swingers site and you may find couple members logging on on the same log on ....
You can however generally tell by the way that people post as to whether they ar egenuine or not - however you must also consider that yes this is a swingers site and you may find couple members logging on on the same log on ....
Quote by Velvet Lips
Hi Again!
I thought I would just update you on my situation at work. As I suspected would happen, the whole subject has been sweeped under the carpet. They paid "lip service" to my complaint and have put it all down to me being tired and emotional because of the work load I'm carrying which they freely admit is actually enough work for two people!!
The only bright point of the whole day was I was offered an interview for a fantastic job which I applied for but didn't really think I would be seriously considered for. Couldn't have been better timed!
lets hope I get it because I really don't know how much longer I can survive my current position.
thanks for all your best wishes
Hey Velvet - what can i say ... i totally sympathise with you. I was in a similar position... the problem being that my Boss was not only a director but my brother! - I found this website very usefull for information, legal position etc. there is a plethora of help on there..... needless to say that there were further reaching concequenses to my personal situation... and i decided int he end to not go the legal route due to the family ties. - As it turned out another member of staff was trying to systamatically orchastrating my dismissal.(which i knew at the time but they were sleeping with my brother so he believed them).. from my family company?!?!?!.... as a result i was moved sideways into a sister company... this needless to say did not work out and i left after 3 months.... the said member of staff was later found out and left the company and i recieved a full appology from my brother and family..... however this did not help the depression, selfdoubt and hurt tht i felt at the time.
Have a look at the sight.... the unfortunate thing is that if you leave doing nothing this so called manager will be free to do it to someone else. He i a bully who by the sounds of it comes from th old school mentality of management. It sounds to me like he needs to go on an anger management int he workplace course..... or some sort of personal development.
All the advise you have been given is spot on and my heart goes out to you.
Hugs
RM2
Quote by mik69
why haven't you lot stripped yet? Don't want little old me being on my own. Can I have a cuddle some one My nipples are sticking out its that coldCoat hangers comes to mind :lol:
oh sorry, you said cuddle 
errrm no I meant :therethere: 
Get back you sod
as i said earlier theres a que and as i wasn't on last night (I know about time lol) i'm at the front of it :twisted:Easy now everyone - patience is a virtue ... or so i am told.... i am still waiting for that bloody JD bottle!
Sod it GIVE ME SAMBUCCA!!!! and make that a round for the house!
Quote by Darkfire
Right - who's drinking all my JD???
that's my bottle, it has my name on it, and its coming with me into the corner again:twisted:
Fight you for it!
:shock:
I like you already - come, pull up a chair :twisted:
What I get a lapdance for taking the JD off you…. Sounds like a fair deal
Quote by Darkfire
……….., ya gotta find it first ! :twisted:
Now Now be so down on yourself……size doesn’t matter you know. ;-)
Quote by mik69
Right - who's drinking all my JD???
that's my bottle, it has my name on it, and its coming with me into the corner again
Fight you for it!
Now that I may just hang around to see :twisted:
Right DarkFire..... come on stop hiding in the corner come out with the bottle of JD now.... before i come in there and get it myself!
Quote by dambuster
I am surprised you have felt the need to highlight the double meaning.... i prefered the first one myself ;-)
Hmmm ? Nice avatar, Miss.
I do think your neck looks a little bare thou!
I often feel the need to wear a collar..... but my dog keeps thinking it's time for a walk!
Quote by dambuster
Does this asylum have padded cells.... preferably with a viewing window?????
Viewing window ????
Now that does sound interesting :twisted:
Oh really..... and why would that be? :eeek:
Quote by freckledbird
so whats the secret girls, how do you get that super thick skin on the bottom of your feet that needs a power tool to shift
High heels darlin ;-) Every man should have a pair if only to understand our pain ;-)
Oh, now you reallyneed to chat to DB
I feel now like i should run and hide very quickly! A mad heel fetish me thinks...... and question..... What is toe sucking all about anyway!!!!! youwould need a gas mask to go anywhere near my feet i can tell you!
Quote by dambuster
. . . . And YES the search facility is a great tool....
Oh c'mon - the search tool is crap ! ! ! (or is that just me being a numpty again
Quote by RidingMountains2
Anyway... Peace and Love and all that malarky..... well if not that then how about some banter, laughter and fun?!?!?!
Or a shag :shock
!?!?!Well that too ;-)
Quote by dambuster
I don't think I've come across you either RidingMountains2, so - sod the joined date thing (it don't mean JS any more) . . . . . . . . .
I've just realised how that soundsops: - I mean, I don't thing we've bounced off each other before
Welcome to the asylum.
I am surprised you have felt the need to highlight the double meaning.... i prefered the first one myself ;-)
As for the joined date... i did join that long ago... but have been travelling for a while so obviously not been about.
Does this asylum have padded cells.... preferably with a viewing window?????
Quote by freckledbird
RidingMountains, I refer you to the above comments - many people are welcomed with open arms, when they take their time to look around and find things out, rather than asking a continuous stream of questions which alarms the people who want to ferociously protect their identities.
Hey Freckle - and good evening. I totally agree with what you said... and i sympathise with you and other more experienced members who get frustrated with the same old questions being asked over and over agin...... Christ i do it myself sometimes on another site! And YES the search facility is a great tool.... but sometimes when a person needs some information... they need it then....and bless our little human quirks....(like many men).... we don't always read the instructions or stop and ask for directions. ;-)
Anyway... Peace and Love and all that malarky..... well if not that then how about some banter, laughter and fun?!?!?!
Quote by Lilmiss
takingitslow
Please dont let yourself be dicouraged and put off the way your apear to be doing.
This can be a great site, but Im afraid if you are going to use the forums you are going to have to develop a thick skin than the one you have at the moment (sad but true)
These "put downs" are received not just by you but by many others, dont let them get to you.
Ive looked at your past post, (only quickly I admit) and you seem curious - nothing wrong with that. If you dont ask questions you will never find out.
As for your spelling, I for one couldnt care less.
Just keep posting , this site needs new posters who are honest and genuine
Can i just ask..... Where in my post following did i "put him down"... To result him addressing his further post to Freckledbird and other paranoids????
I'd like to suggest....
That your last 1 was prolly locked so you couldn't do this!!!
If you have a problem with what Freckledbird has said, that you take it up with her by pm NOT by opening a new post coz the other has been locked.
I think that constances comment was a generalization. ... not specifically aimed at you... and was more of a "don't give up" to TIS than a who said what to whom and why.
Quote by Pete_sw
pete why is it sooooo quiet today, you barred everyone or something? or are they all recovering from last night
Monday blues mate,
it's always pretty quiet on a Monday.have a
on the houseYeah and got to be up at 5 am tomorrow!!!!!!!.
.... slide me over the JD bottle will ya! ;-)
Quote by constance
takingitslow
Please dont let yourself be dicouraged and put off the way your apear to be doing.
This can be a great site, but Im afraid if you are going to use the forums you are going to have to develop a thick skin than the one you have at the moment (sad but true)
These "put downs" are received not just by you but by many others, dont let them get to you.
Ive looked at your past post, (only quickly I admit) and you seem curious - nothing wrong with that. If you dont ask questions you will never find out.
As for your spelling, I for one couldnt care less.
Just keep posting , this site needs new posters who are honest and genuine
100% respect to you Constance for that and Here Here!!!
TIS - At the risk of being shot down in flames...... I actually think having read all your posts that you have asked some highly valid questions for someone who confeses to having a weird experience.... you obviously are intersted in the lifestyle and are now asking for advise on how to share this part of yourself with your girlfirend...who appears to be slightly confused about it all.
Fanastys are just that....they can be made to happen but only if the person is ready and willing to take that step.
I too am a "newbie" but have had some sucessfull experiences not as yet through here but from other sites... However it is never easy. Swingers protect their online identity ferociously as do many other chat forum posters.... there is also in every forum a group of "core" users who sometimes can make it dificult to be welcomed with open arms.
Just my opinion.
TIS - have fun... and if you are looking for a bi-female to just meet up with down the pub for a few bevies and some laughter and banter... let me know... I am a single bi female and am more than hppy to join couples... but ONLY if they are 100% sure on both sides ;-)
Fanastys are just that....they can be made to happen but only if the person is ready and willing to take that step.
I too am a "newbie" but have had some sucessfull experiences not as yet through here but from other sites... However it is never easy. Swingers protect their online identity ferociously as do many other chat forum posters.... there is also in every forum a group of "core" users who sometimes can make it dificult to be welcomed with open arms.
Just my opinion.
TIS - have fun... and if you are looking for a bi-female to just meet up with down the pub for a few bevies and some laughter and banter... let me know... I am a single bi female and am more than hppy to join couples... but ONLY if they are 100% sure on both sides ;-)
Quote by lovejoy68
hi manchester :welcome: to the forums
hope its a red shirt you have on
have fun & enjoy the site:D
Nah she is from Manchester... therfore should be wearing Blue ;-)
there are some in red from manchester i admit not many
its ok for you,you have a choice where i grew up it was dorchester town or bournmouth so i chose life i chose mufc :D :D
Well we all have our crosses to bear....
But having moved about so much myself it should either be Portsmouth, Crewe or Chealsea... not to mention a stint in Lyon ;-)... humm decisions decisions!BTW Welcome Manchester.
