Updated 12 Feb 2023

I am bisexual, but I know I prefer women over men, its just fun to play.   I am happy to play a scene straight as well.  

I like BDSM, Bondage and fetishes and am known within the local BDSM scene, I have some dungeon equipment such as crosses, benches etc. However if BDSM is not your thing we don't have to do them.  I am a switch which means I can be both Dominant and submissive, depending on what has been agreed. I also like cross dressing but I do it for fun and a laugh, and with no disrespect meant to those who cross dress for more emotional reasons, I am just a bloke in a dress, again its fun to play. I also like sploshing. 

Being able to play is one of the main reasons I am on here.  I have a very sensible job and doing the 'naughty' stuff allows me to be me and relax from the real world.  Safe sex is a must and due to a minor latex allergy I have to use Latex free condoms.

About me

I consider myself to be polite and courteous person who likes the social side of meeting new people as much the fun side. I always find I lean something new after meets and am always willing to learn.I also believe that it is nice to be important but important to be nice!

I have a good sense of humour but tell 'bad' jokes such as why are prates called pirates?  Because the arrrrrrrhhhh!

Rod