i know of 1 club in the nw that does a newbies night i think its once a month .. whereby new people to the scene or just new to clubs can go along and they do icebreakers games and they have some fab advice to offer any new person to swinging or to the etiquette of clubs and swinging in general.
there is not a club i have been to where if you make it clear to the managers that you are new that they wont go out of their way to help you blend in and make the most out of your visit or help yu break the ice to more frequent club users to ask advice or just sit with so you dont feel so left out.
if you frequent a particular chat room, they normally hold social/non pushy (even though all clubs have a no means no policy) events at clubs and in that environment at least you will know some names to chat to.
in any event just go along to a club and have a sit down , take a few deep breaths and try to relax and at least have a look around, if ever you feel pushed or nervous about any attention just say no thanks and walk off, even go as far as mentioning it to the staff , they are there to help you
good luck and hope to see you at an event soon xxx
sara
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Sara_2006
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Bi-curious Female, 57
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my feelings on younger people swinging ..... have they had enough of the dating game already and know what swinging is about ... i think not .. they think swinging is just like 1 night stands in 1 respect they are right but it is not how i see swinging... it is an enhancement to a relationship or to help others enhance their relationship and not about selfishness
they have the energy but do they have the self control and the maturity to control themselves .... yes some are mature but the majority in my opinion do not
as with older swingers my opinion and preferences are .... i wont play with someone i could have given birth to or who could have given birth to me lol
they have the energy but do they have the self control and the maturity to control themselves .... yes some are mature but the majority in my opinion do not
as with older swingers my opinion and preferences are .... i wont play with someone i could have given birth to or who could have given birth to me lol
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Quote by varca
stuff...
bout bloody time you got yer fine arse back on here
You missed me 0069??
I have been well errm busy, long story... tell you next time you fancy staying up all night :grin:Good to see you too ya sexy thing
MSN still works you know
(and i live near the M6 too :rascal
Mine bloody doesn't!!!
I let Lep near my puter and it has never been the same since :lol2: I need a man who can shag me to death and fix my puter to come by sometime soon... know anyone? ;)i do
Sex God
what about working tax credit and child tax credit .. as i understand it they pay for the child care on top of the allocated allowance. i have been lucky in who cares for my child as it was family and no need for added costs and i also had various jobs that did cater for my childcare needs, working in school hours is definitely a bonus and a lot of supermarkets do allow for mothers with children better working hours
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Quote by Lassy09
well i think this hole crb check is proved not to be perfect in the light of the peado in a nursery!
the world has finally gone bonkers!!
to be controversial tho its only convicted offenders that will show up with a CRB check ... if they have not been caught in the past then it will not show up in the check, this is why and how she slipped through the net
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Quote by Crashnnix
just had to look at my profile as someone left a quickie on it n i was mortified (ok exaggeration lol)
that my age says 40!!!
not till wednesday i aint lol
just wanted to put the record straight .....i'm still 39 till wenesday ok
Do I care that yer 39 or 40? Nope.
What i care about is if you're funny, sexy and can hold a conversation x
you aint met whiplash yet then i take it lol or you wouldnt say she is funny or sexy :twisted:
btw luffs ya fat slapper xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx n happy birthday for wednesday
Sex God
perhaps something to think about for after your holiday .. i use a coil and the effects are ... lighter periods or stop completly esp if your light anyway .. i was quite heavy for a couple of days but even i have stopped completly.. added benefit that they dont tell you ... no PMT 
i had period pains for 3 months solid at the start but since then its been plain sailing and a benefit is swing on whatever day of the month suits you and not ruled by mother nature any more woooooooooooooo
i had period pains for 3 months solid at the start but since then its been plain sailing and a benefit is swing on whatever day of the month suits you and not ruled by mother nature any more woooooooooooooo
Sex God
i suppose its to stop the fraudulent use of a CRB check is to have a new 1 issued with each post you hold. and depending on the involvement of the post you hold as to the intensity of the check ... i believe there are 3 levels of checking ... the lower 1 and free is for volunteers and the next up is for teachers etc with the upper 1 being for social workers etc.. dont know for sure tho.
Sex God
working in an environment that involves children we have a large number of volunteers that help with coaching the children but each and everyone of the volunteers are CRB checked and because they are volunteers it is a free service ... if it was for a paid job then the CRB checks have to be paid for
i feel that if it remained free and was better advertised that volunteers CRB checks are free then more checks would be done by schools .. but also it can take weeks for the results of the checks to come through and if you are only volunteering for a short period of time then the check might not come through in time as for each volunteer venue must have their own check done ... you cannt use a CRB check from 1 job to validate another
i feel that if it remained free and was better advertised that volunteers CRB checks are free then more checks would be done by schools .. but also it can take weeks for the results of the checks to come through and if you are only volunteering for a short period of time then the check might not come through in time as for each volunteer venue must have their own check done ... you cannt use a CRB check from 1 job to validate another
Sex God
this taken from the chat room rules page .... the bit in red highlighted ... its still against site rules to whisper without asking even in a room entitled that whispers are allowed
Chat Etiquette:
No excessive use of capitals.
No trolling: this means the posting of the same message over and over again.
Please do NOT whisper without asking first and getting a yeah.
Remember "NO" from a member means "NO".
Chat Etiquette:
No excessive use of capitals.
No trolling: this means the posting of the same message over and over again.
Please do NOT whisper without asking first and getting a yeah.
Remember "NO" from a member means "NO".
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Quote by noladreams
Just to throw another point into the mix.
As a T-Girl, (that's either a TV/CD/TS or similar to those who don't know), do we pay the same price as a single girl, (some get in for free at some venues), or do we pay the same as a single guy?
Oooh - dunno.
However I do know that when I go to a tranny night in Manchester then the T-girls get in free, the guys pay one price and me (with my own boobies and lady bits!) pays more than both the guys or T-girls.
Just one of them things, I guess.
i know of 1 club that does have separate prices for t girls etc but its the only 1 i know of
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Quote by soul-girl
If himandher only think couples are swingers why do they have single males as on their friends list
Not standing up for or against their take on the subject but because they are a swinging couple does that mean they are not allowed singles (male or female) as friends then
But are they just single male friends :confused2: or have they meet them on a meet :wary: cos if they have then it just makes what they say confusing lol just to add to the mix lol they also looking for single bi fems
Sex God
i am in Wales and have been for the past 19 years it is a country i love dearly and feel patriotic towards it and support the welsh assembly and any sport that Wales competes in ... i was born English and feel slightly patriotic towards England but no where near as much as i do for Wales. patriotism to me is about being loyal to the country you feel most at home with and would support them no matter how well they was doing at the time patriotism to others means different things and no one answer to what patriotism is are correct unless you take the dictionary definition literally
Sex God
we are going on sunday 20th sept and wondering if any one else was going .. we will be taking along another fem and would like to make this into a nice party atmosphere and have a laugh and a giggle with peeps. it is couples only night i know but single fems still allowed.
Sex God
Quote by Tangouk2003
Sara
i think the 1st one is
109 elements on the periodic table
not sure about 2nd tho
Hope this helps xx
i have been in touch with the quiz organizer and you are right tango hun ... she says it depends which way you look at it to whether it has got 109 or 117 elements(whatever that means)
so thanks for the answer xxxxx
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