i give loads of xx if i know or have known then a while and only a few xx if i have at least chatted to them in the past and none if i either dont like or dont know well enough. but then again i do give at least a peck on the cheek to say hi and bye in real life so its not that much different to chat for me.
bIoke you to me will always get loads of xxxxx. (john says not off him tho, perhaps a firm handshake lol)
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Sara_2006
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 57
Straight Male, 58
0 miles · Conwy
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Sex God
mine is just a name off the top of my head... sara is not my name i dont know any sara's it is just a name i chose to swing with when i was a single female it seamed safer for me to use a pseudonym than use my real name, most that i meet with i tell my name to but they still call me sara lol
Sex God
for me the answer is quite simple ... we have access to a profile which (if they are telling the truth) says if they are attached in some way .. and also we get to chatting, sometimes for quite a while before a meet is considered, and inconsistencies in what they say or just a feeling in that they are attached comes out in conversation. in a club environment not much chat, if any, goes on and there is no profile to go off so no way of checking before you play if they are attached. some i do know ask each person if they are with someone but this is rare.
Sex God
thanks or the well wishes .
i am still in hospital and had my operation and no nothing too sinister or life threatening and i should be up and about and on my feet quite soon.
varca there are some nice sweet nurses and porters around keeping me entertained just not in a swing sense pmsl.
john my partner is being the best support and i would just like to say to him 'I LOVE YOU BABES' and thanks for your support, the hugs and kisses are whats getting me through.
i am still in hospital and had my operation and no nothing too sinister or life threatening and i should be up and about and on my feet quite soon.
varca there are some nice sweet nurses and porters around keeping me entertained just not in a swing sense pmsl.
john my partner is being the best support and i would just like to say to him 'I LOVE YOU BABES' and thanks for your support, the hugs and kisses are whats getting me through.
Sex God
Quote by shark
Its all well and good ladies saying that it doesn't exist... but where is your proof??
A credible theory has been raised which can explain the differences in the cold/flu syptoms felt between the male and female gender!
It has to be said that every man who catches a cold is discribed by his female partner as having 'man flu' at every opportunity - yet another confirmation, because if it didn't exsist, why do women insist on using the term???
Its time to contact your member of Parliment and insist on a full enquiry.. let the truth out.......
Don't worry everyone, I will get the anti-biotics sorted out when I get my wifes boot outta my butt......
sorry to burst your bubble but antibiotics wont work on a virus infection your better off with lemsip and a hot water bottle and plenty of plain water lol
Sex God
also from what i hear that because the hoteliers won the case and the Muslim woman lost it will be the taxpayers who pay the legal bills running into the £1000's i think that if this was a private lawsuit then she as the loser in the case should pick up the bill or at least the people who funded her as it was not a 'queen' verses the 'hoteliers'
Sex God
Quote by sara-john
Hi peeps
Needing to upgrade our wireless router, anyone out there recommend a router that has 4 Lans sockets.
Take it we need to go for the N type.
Is the dual band anygood with 5hz radio band + band?
Amour69 x
Ok the dual band is no good to you unless you want to equip your wireless pc's or laptops with type C adapters.
I personally would go for the Draytek Vigor 2110 Series Router/Firewall. Has all you want, is a very good spec and comes with a usb shared media port. The Draytek website has all the info. Be warned they are a little more expensive than some but are they are top end routers.
can we get 1 john ??
Sex God
i have and would have no hesitation complaining again. it is for everyone's comfort that there is a dress/undress code in clubs .. i would also find it uncomphy if it was a female that was in 'vanilla' clothes and not in appropriate attire like undies or towel or bdsm attire
Sex God
despite recent events of a financial nature we will still be coming to this event. we will sit in the corner quietly observing whats going on
right before jumping in with both feet and having a right laugh n giggle with some fab people
c & c as it is not a munch then i can not see any problem
right before jumping in with both feet and having a right laugh n giggle with some fab people
c & c as it is not a munch then i can not see any problem
Sex God
due to john's shop being broken into we find ourselves short on the necessary funds to enable us to attend. it is with great sadness that we wont be able to attend as it will be my birthday on Monday and there are quite a few names on the list that i was particularly looking forward to meeting as well as being able to catch up with some friends. i am sure that all attending will have a fab time xxx
Sex God
my partner and i do not use condoms as protection as i do not feel the risk of an STI (i use a coil to protect me from unwanted pregnancy) is there from him and if any potential playmate didnt like that then they was quite within their right to say they was not happy and to 'walk' away with no hard feelings. this is our choice on our love making and shouldn't be anyone else's business on how we play together but whilst playing with other partners then condoms are a must and is non negotiable.
splendid i know how you feel because not only is there a risk of highly unlikely pregnancy but also a slightly higher risk of an STI as live sperm is involved even from the fem (although not as high as unprotected sex with the male) i do not have the statistics as to either risk tho.
ok something else we all know that there is a small risk of an STI from unprotected oral sex with a male but there is also a risk from a female the only way around this is to use a femidom or other form of barrier between your tongue and the female
splendid i know how you feel because not only is there a risk of highly unlikely pregnancy but also a slightly higher risk of an STI as live sperm is involved even from the fem (although not as high as unprotected sex with the male) i do not have the statistics as to either risk tho.
ok something else we all know that there is a small risk of an STI from unprotected oral sex with a male but there is also a risk from a female the only way around this is to use a femidom or other form of barrier between your tongue and the female
Sex God
as far as i am aware and it has been years since i last used a femidom .. it is not latex and therefore stretchy it is more like a plastic bag held in place by 2 rings .. 1 inserted in and covering the cervix and g spot the other ring on the outside covering the clit. the rings are semi rigid and the outer ring no so flexible as to get shoved inside you while shagging, but you do have to hold it in place during initial insertion of the penis.
for me it was like shagging through a plastic carrier bag as i am sure that males find with a condom. it is as safe to use as a condom where STI's are concerned and i would have no problems using 1 while playing especially if the guy is latex intolerant and non latex condoms were not available, as i know some fems are latex intolerant it is also an option for them.
for me it was like shagging through a plastic carrier bag as i am sure that males find with a condom. it is as safe to use as a condom where STI's are concerned and i would have no problems using 1 while playing especially if the guy is latex intolerant and non latex condoms were not available, as i know some fems are latex intolerant it is also an option for them.
Sex God
Quote by The_third_man
there has been a male companion before ... there was peter perves and frazer hines so another wouldnt be breaking new grounds
But wasn't there a female assistant at the same time?
while fraser hines was a companion he starred in a total of 20 episodes over seasons 4-6 so bound to be a female or 2 ( from wikipedia ... Anneke Wills 6 episodes ... Deborah Watling 7 episodes ...Wendy Padbury 8 episodes) only 3 actresses during his time with the doctor so he was the main companion
for peter pervis ...stared in 10 episodes over seasons 2 and 3 with a total of 7 female actresses not all of whom would have been in the same episodes
Sex God
what about the single ladies who 'use' the males as taxi's and then expect them to pay the entrance fee, whatever it is. just so that they have an escort to the club and the security that goes along with it. i have been a single female and wanted to visit clubs in the past but been too 'scared' to go alone in case i am 'pounced' on by the couples was i wrong to want that security in knowing i was with someone.
it comes down to (for me at least) can singles swing .. be they females or males .... in my opinion they can. if it is your opinion they can not then that is your right so perhaps a site like this where they don't restrict the memberships to purely couples only is not for you. and also i find that some of those who only play and want to play with couples only also have on their profiles that they are looking for single fems .. is this not perhaps a tad hypocritical if you also dont believe that singles can be called swingers
it comes down to (for me at least) can singles swing .. be they females or males .... in my opinion they can. if it is your opinion they can not then that is your right so perhaps a site like this where they don't restrict the memberships to purely couples only is not for you. and also i find that some of those who only play and want to play with couples only also have on their profiles that they are looking for single fems .. is this not perhaps a tad hypocritical if you also dont believe that singles can be called swingers
Sex God
we go to clubs together as a couple because that is what we are. we also play separately when at clubs which we dont often do on private meets. i have been know to sit at the bar waiting for him to come back from playing as he has been at the bar waiting for me. we do swing together also ... it depends on how the mood takes us and who takes our fancy just as much as if we take someone else's fancy.
i do not have a problem with singles pairing up to make getting in the club cheaper but i can also see from the other point of view that they are not a 'proper' couple, ie not going out in a vanilla type of way.
the only downside i can see from this arrangement is that there is more of a possibility of the guy from the pair up (who generally pays the couple fee for the female) expects to play with the female and she may not necessarily want to. but this can happen in a proper relationship at a club.
also from another point of view ..
there is less likelihood of a 'green eyed monster' raising its head in a pair up for the evening relationship than from a proper relationship so does this make it more or less attractive when it comes to playing with some couples than others.
i do not have a problem with singles pairing up to make getting in the club cheaper but i can also see from the other point of view that they are not a 'proper' couple, ie not going out in a vanilla type of way.
the only downside i can see from this arrangement is that there is more of a possibility of the guy from the pair up (who generally pays the couple fee for the female) expects to play with the female and she may not necessarily want to. but this can happen in a proper relationship at a club.
also from another point of view ..
there is less likelihood of a 'green eyed monster' raising its head in a pair up for the evening relationship than from a proper relationship so does this make it more or less attractive when it comes to playing with some couples than others.
