Hubby & i have been swingers for quite a while, & we understand that for various reasons people don't want to show there identity to everyone, but out of politeness an idea of their area & things they like would be good, it doesn't give away who they are to there neighbours/friends, who if they find them on this site are looking to do exactly the same......... have fun, & in the case of single males get what they're not already getting!!!!!