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Smoky
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 43
0 miles · Bristol

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Quote by redpantherman
Well yeah, I am looking here for a quick shag/casual relationship, I think most men on here are. I can also see why women don't respond to single men as much, it's probably the equivelant of being leched over in a club the way some people reply.
I'll admit i'm not confident enough to go to a munch, which obviously means i'm not confident enough to meet people for sex. I'm trying to be someone i'm not, not being fake as such but trying to become what I want to be too quickly. So really this last paragraph makes me wonder why i'm on this site at all.

Here you are mate the worlds smallest :violin: for ya biggrin
Stop the lament.. & just join in the fun
You've popped yer posting cherry you've tried the quick shag route with no joy so sit back have a brew & chill with the rest of us :cheers:
One more thing!
As in 'real life' the more you put in the more you get out :thumbup:
No one's gonna shag ya unless they know who you are!
lol I wasn't looking for sympathy dude just being honest and anyway the world's smallest violin would look like this smile
Well yeah, I am looking here for a quick shag/casual relationship, I think most men on here are. I can also see why women don't respond to single men as much, it's probably the equivelant of being leched over in a club the way some people reply.
I'll admit i'm not confident enough to go to a munch, which obviously means i'm not confident enough to meet people for sex. I'm trying to be someone i'm not, not being fake as such but trying to become what I want to be too quickly. So really this last paragraph makes me wonder why i'm on this site at all.
I just wonder whether swingingheaven is some sort of exclusive club for couples and bi fems only. I have been coming here for nearly a year now, i'm respectful, I write more than one line, I never bother to reply unless I match what the ad says and I write out each reply according to the ad/profile rather than send a one message fits all, and yet I get no replies from people whatsoever. I am new to the scene in terms of not going on munches etc and if i'm honest I don't think i'd feel 100% comfortable meeting a couple, but I really don't know as I haven't had the chance. So I was wondering if anyone can point out to me what i'm doing wrong or am I just an ugly fucker?.
e2a: I have read the advice threads and am pretty sure I follow about 98% of the advice given.
Yeah I get pretty irritated with people not replying, but I guess it's cause they get so many boring one liners that they can't be arsed. I always make a point of writing more than one line and make each response individual. I think there's too many men on here who just perv over the pics, it's just annoying that for someone like me who's genuine and not pushy finds it hard to meet people cause of time wasters.