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SunBunny
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 50

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Quote by naughtynymphos1
Personally i think the truth is always best at least that way everyone knows where they stand, ok so u may hear some things u don't like but at least u have the option to move on smile

Exactly.
Whether it hurts or not, we are entitled to it.
Quote by Vix
We are ALL (pretty much) here for sex.
Flower it up as much as you like, girls, but if you weren't, surely you'd be better off in the WI or the PTA?

If sex is all they want why not just bloody well say so? Why pretend to offer more?
I always put my cards on the table and expect the same back. Unfortunately men lay out a fake pack just to mess with our heads. And how are we supposed to make an informed decision based on a pack of lies?
Mark,
I only seek genuine advice.
The people who have betrayed my trust know who they are anyway - I just want to be a bit more prepared for the future.
Can anyone help?
All this talk of Trust being the key element of swinging is all good and well but how do you know when the truth is real or fake?
I never seem to get it right.
Is their some kind of facial expression, or tone of voice, or particular body language to keep an eye out for?
Is it just gut instinct?
Is it a question of only believing females and remembering that men generally have a hidden agenda?
Is it just me - am I that easy to lie to because I'm too trusting and honest?
It's not just in swinging. I'm talking life generally. I need some advice because I am getting to the point where I really haven't a clue who to trust anymore.
How do I sift through the bullshit to find genuine truths?
Or is it a no-hope situation?
Please don't tell me to only trust my 'friends' - even that can be dangerous...............
Quote by da69ve
Your right Midlandsman....but i think some people consider this a dating site rather than a swinging site!

An 'honest' swingers' site, eh Dave?
Quote by Wishmaster
Having taken some time this morning.... to look introspectively at what would attract me to someone.......it would be a mixture of......
1). sense of humour.....
2). level of intelligence.....
3). ability to converse on all subjects and to spar with words.....
4). personality.... a mischievious teasing personality does it for me.....
5). a non-pushy person.....
equi-princess xxx

Hey!!!.......... I got 5/5 on that ...... gee........ I'm impressed with myself here!!!
lol cool :lol: 8-) :lol: 8-) :lol: 8-) :lol: 8-) :lol:
You would be the only one who is impressed wishmaster. Your behaviour this past week is way beyond any I have seen so far - and you know as well as I do that I have met some serious arseholes on here.
If you are so intelligent, why did you think your girlfriend wouldn't find out about you cheating on her, and lying to her ABOUT HER MATES - who of course tell her what you really said in that club.
Lies alwayscome out in the end.
So how fucking intelligent are you EXACTLY?
Tell her you can't see her tonight (after a week apart) because you are 'meeting a friend,' forgetting that people who know the truth about you (that you are cheating on her) will let that truth come out - to the right people.
YOU ARE SO FULL OF SHIT
YOU ARE SO FULL OF SHIT
YOU ARE SO FULL OF SHIT
Put a single guy ad in the Men Looking For Women section, complete with cock pic, and tell her it is just so that 'people know what I look like'.
Quote by Sarah
oh dear, something happened I should know about?????????
I am VERY fond of my swinging partner and my other swinging friends.
Carn't we have a day when we are all nice to each other? please

Sarah that's my trouble I am always too bloody nice.
Quote by Happy Cats
1. Put them on msn block
2. Ignore all phone calls, pm's and text messages untill they go away
3. Arrive at pre-arranged meet with someone else.
Please add yours......

You could be a coward and do all 3!
No, sorry thats ridiculous.
Happy Cats I love you.
It's okay girls I let him know it was over first. He was too much of a coward to tell me himself, or maybe he was just too busy pursuing his next fuck to remember he still had a 'girlfriend'.
Thank goodness for my turbo-powered bullshit detectors.
Please take my name of the munch and party list as wishmaster's partner.
I would rather clean my ears with a needle than go with this man.
If I want bull shit I will go to a farm, not a party.
Deleted as I've just been told I'm not allowed to sell anything....SORRY mods....all gone now... rolleyes
Jucy Lucy I really suggest you pack them boots hun - just in case.........................
I'm so excited now I can't think straight.
Checked out the line-up last night ....the one band I most want to see is playing saturday night......COLDPLAY - Yay!
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
I'll look out for you hun - drive safe xxxx
Welcome Ms Muff........hope you enjoy your stay. You don't have to be mad to play here, but it does help.
Bet you know how to brew a good cuppa. .... wink
Congratulations on your 2:1 Cocoa, you are so gonna party! lol
I'll be there Wednesday afternoon, in me bikini and polka dot wellies, carrying a very large duvet and a bottle of tequila..................... :happy:
Bought me some hip new wellies today. Getting excited now..................... lol :lol: :lol:
Hello young lovelies may I congratulate you on your reunion and wish you lots of madness for the future. ..... Rache let me warble one of my favourite lyrics: -
' I wanna taste your peaches can I shake your tree....?'
Lots of luck to you both may your june pOsitively sPaRkLe XXXXX
I reckon you're trying to up your post count so you can get in a threesome with Jags and Sarge. Naughty little minxchief.
Quote by MISSCHIEF
You don't think I'm showy offy do ya? :shock:

Hey hun, if you got it, flaunt it. sillyhwoar:
I think it's lovely Misschief. Very lovely... lol :lol: :lol:
Go on - post again :shock: :twisted: :shock: :twisted:
Please?
Quote by davej
...oh and I didn't tell ya, but your an absolute delight, bloody pleasure to chat with ya at essex2

redface surprisedops: :oops: I have my moments......
Great to meet you too darlin - and Mrs davej - I was determined to put a face to the elephant/giraffe trainer.... wink
Quote by smokerjim
* smokerjim hangs his head in a para-Catholic guilt trip and sidles off to the sidelines, hoping no one sees him*

I did . :shock: wink lol
Quote by davej
yep always did have good legs

Shame about the sense of humour, eh?
Quote by handh
l'instant from Guerlain for me

....and me...and Addict, by Dior. Mmmmmmmm.
On a man I like most. Long as they're wearing, I'm sighing. biggrin
Quote by HornyHertsMale
Any tips and advice on gettin started?

er.....start shagging?
(best way to start swinging in my opinion. No fun on your own.......)
wink