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29 Sep 2005

Quote by RedHot

Let's not focus on the negative, if we are to move forward in peace.

rotflmao

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: Oh! That's a cracker that is rolleyes

rolleyes

T-J
Yeah I know, sorry TJ - but hey - you gotta laugh. lol

lol

I won't be negative ever again. But I must just reply....
And this will be the last I talk of it. You have my word.

Quote by Wishmaster
SunBunny seems to have a real problem handling rejection . God help any man who has the audacity to dump her (and there are reasons why guys have continually ended relationships with this woman) - but for the record, she left a cheap pair of handcuffs here and a length of skipping rope (not exactly the crown jewels!!) - both of which have long been binned, hence why I haven't returned them.

Er....I dumped you. Remember?
And maybe there are reasons why women continually dump you. How well do you cope with rejection?
Why didn't you just tell me you had binned my stuff, when I PMd you? At least I would have stopped asking you to return it.
Is it your right to decide what is worthless? Maybe the stuff was sentimental. How difficult would it have been to come clean?
And I was never that into you to not be over you.
My problem with you was that you turned out to be a very different person to the person who befriended me last year. I thought you were a genuine friend, and in the end, I was just someone you could use for a while to make someone else jealous.
That is what upsets me the most.
END OF STORY.

29 Sep 2005

Quote by duncanlondon
I think you need to direct your thoughts to the possibilities of what may happen next. LL may appear at a public venue where an SH event is going on.

Libra+Love has asked me to say that she is done with SH and will not associate with it anymore. So fear not. She is no longer a risk to society. She will not be going to Chams, at least, not on that night.
And before anyone thinks it - I have not passed on any info. I did not recieve munch details.
Are we all totally innocent ? Are all the friends we have , on here, and IRL, perfect angels? Must we fall out with people we love because they do something that we may not agree with? What about all the other, wonderful things she does for me? Do you think I am friends with a mass murderer?
I do plenty of shit things and I piss plenty of people off. But I have a lot of real, lifelong friends.
Let's not focus on the negative, if we are to move forward in peace. smile

smile

29 Sep 2005

Quote by Darkfire
With regard to Libra&Love's little confession above (assuming it is LL and not just some troll or other SH member with a wooden spoon) I'd say this pretty much justifies any ban that was made - and the reason why some people do not want to associate with her are now quite clear.

It wasn't a little confession, it was quite a big one. At least she made the effort to come on here and put over her opinion - something that was obviously denied her when she got banned.
Whilst I may not agree with all she does, I would never choose 'not to associate' with her - she is one of the best friends I have.

Quote by Darkfire
generally being a two-faced super-grass

At no point has L+L been two-faced. She is blatantly honest.

Quote by Darkfire
This amount of bad feeling is really not helping..

Quote by Darkfire
people's anger should be directed at whoever is passing on the information

Oh and that's going to make the site a better place is it?

29 Sep 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
Sunbunny's fixation with making some comment whenever Wishmaster posted anything she disagreed with

There are two sides to every story, as we all know.
My gripe with wishmaster stems from the fact that I am STILL waiting for him to return my private property, that he said he would post (I offered to pay postage) to me about 3 months ago now.
I have PMd him many times requesting he return my things.
I have offered alternative methods of delivery/collection.
He was told, on the Chams thread, that one of the reasons I wanted to go that night was to collect my stuff. He seems to have ignored that fact and instead made out I intend to sabotage his little party.
Up until now I havent mentioned it on the forum because I was hoping he would have the decency to return what is mine. He leaves me no option now.
I thought I would clear that up - seeing as everyone else is putting themselves on the line. And quite rightly so. Maybe now the rumours can stop, as well as Posties accusation that I have been spreading 'bolloxed up' rumours.
Anyone who knows me will know that I I am about as honest as they come. I have no reason to lie - and would be an idiot to lie on the forum, unlike so many others.

28 Sep 2005

Quote by Wishmaster
Are you following me........ again!!!.

Not at all. I just got in and read the whole thread.
Yours stuck out more than others, is all.

28 Sep 2005

Quote by Wishmaster
Take a peek at the Chams thread.... all is clear ........ I back Postie on this one .. we don't wan't petty big fish / little pond politics here.. SH is about sex & swinging...
........Anything else is just small people trying to be big people wearing oversized clothes.

'We' being whom? You or the people in charge?
Who says all people going to Chams aren't after sex? Is there a knitting circle there we are unaware of?
Why do you have to make the Chams thread something that resembles a munch with 'only people you like' allowed on the list? Is it to make you feel you have more friends? Or less?
If its 'all about sex and swinging' why include some and not others on the list? Who's being petty now wishmaster? Do the people you don't like have less rights to have their names mentioned?

25 Sep 2005

Quote by PoloLady
Third and final point: Can't something be done to stop this happening?

Don't place ads?
wink

wink

25 Sep 2005

Quote by Sim
Am i ment to answer alll the questions?
whats going on its all abit much for me!

lol

:lol: :lol:
Keep up , it's a quiz - all questions must be answered and any you do answer need a question first! Puberty? 120 pounds? Dysfunctional Coital Aninsertia? dunno

dunno

Quote by PoloLady
1. What do Americans mean by â€˜getting to second baseâ€™ on a date?
Tit feel?
4. Which artic nomads made a practice of lending wives to visitors?
Polar bears?
9. What is dysfunctional Coital Aninsertia?
Puberty?
10. In the USA, what ranges from 7 years to 18 years?
Amount of time a donut has been in a pre-packed cellophane package on a shelf in Walmart?

25 Sep 2005

Quote by treasurechest
Am I the only one who find Black Lace Books predictable and unchellenging?

I sent off for submission guidelines a while back - and they are very strict. Black Lace are the Mills & Boon of cliterature ....they are somewhat formulaic and have a list of do's and don'ts that makes it hard to be creative - but the books sell because the public buys them - a lot of people think the stuff they're reading is highly imaginative.....I guess swingers have higher expectations ! lol

lol

25 Sep 2005

Quote by Blake45
Perhaps there should be a Saga Swingers site.....

And instead of wank parties and munches they could do things like knitting circles ('You can unravel my wool any day baldie....') daytrips to National Trust sites (with Edna at the back of the coach spreading the baps and dishing out crumpets, offering her flask to anyone with wrinkles....) and coffee mornings at each others' houses (so everyone gets the chance to air their bunions in private).
Just a thought........ rolleyes

rolleyes

25 Sep 2005

The stiff stubborn arc
forms impossible laddered stairways
to unknown zones rising in rising out
never-ending, arousing,
catching a stray gaze
at the curve of her back,
so preciously untouchable,
wrapped in finest tightest whalebone
and the eyes rest unheeded,
unnoticed; some stolen, unspoken, unbroken moment
as he stands mesmerised by the slopes
and seduction of her pose.

25 Sep 2005

Quote by Silk and Big G
We dont know it but we think we know someone who might .................

You took the words right out of my mouth there guys. Great minds eh?

23 Sep 2005

Quote by markz
maybe your not off SH long enough

Oh I think Blue can probably multitask.... lol

lol

23 Sep 2005

I guess you could invest in a very large magnifying glass..... :shock:

23 Sep 2005

Hmmm. Do bi fems play alone? rolleyes

rolleyes

Alone as in on my lonesome? - No. Never. Not once officer. :gagged:
Alone as in without a guy? - Absolutely not. Disgusting. And so slimy and slippery and wet..... silly

silly

hwoar:
Alone as in with no chaperone? - Is it safe out there? :shock:

22 Sep 2005

Quote by Ricci79
Is that bad or good thing?

I'll let you be the judge of that. lol

lol

22 Sep 2005

Quote by Ricci79
Wow!!
I just am newbie and any recommendations of my survival in SH?

Keep away from Frecklebird till you learn to use preview on your posts wink

wink

22 Sep 2005

Happy Birthday to me, Happy Birthday to me
Happy Birthday to Sunny Bunny, Happy birthday to me.....
:beer: :high-smile: :evil2: :high-smile: :giggle:
Oh sorry, wrong person. lol

lol

wave

Happy Belated Horous kiss

kiss

21 Sep 2005

....oops nearly missed this.
Hope you had a dam good day dammie, and that you drove your truck in red stilettos, with a cake on your head and balloons dangling from the wing mirrors.
Sunbunny.x

20 Sep 2005

Quote by Him'nHer
well depends on the person using the word i suppose but generally around here we use vanilla to describe something that's plain or "normal" as in not unusual or different

Around here being in SH?
I think in here it's used to differentiate between swingers and non-swingers.
It's what goes on outside this depraved community....so I guess you could call that normal... lol

lol

17 Sep 2005

Quote by Wishmaster
oooo sunBunny. ur teeth are showing.... you sit awake all day and night waiting for me to post something you can have a pop at .... poor dearie...

If you think that is the case I feel sorry for you. I am working 10 to 12 hour days and I visit the forum to lighten my head a little, and read something other than major corporate websites and annual reports in Spanish and French. I am not a big sleeper and am always at work by 6am, not in the chatroom talking crap.
What you do / say is of no consequence to me, and you are NOT the centre of my attention, I'm afraid to say.
But I couldn't possibly pass this opportunity by, given what you posted further up.
I guess you were baiting me, because you knew I was around tonight.
Who's sad now?

17 Sep 2005

Quote by Wishmaster
I am ... a swinger - one that doesn't cheat on my partner .
Cheating = play by deception
Swinging = play by permission
Go figure!

rotflmao

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

17 Sep 2005

Aw thanks HornyRed. I wasn't seeking agreement but it's nice to receive it. And Blake45 has been sending me such nice, friendly PMs, I thought I'd stick up for him. Us writers have to stick together.... lol

lol

17 Sep 2005

And let us not forget that not all regular SH swingers are as honest as they make out on the forum. I have to side with Blake and Donsidelovers on this one. It's one of the reasons I stopped meeting people off the site. There seems to be a trend to say one thing yet mean another, and the single girl is supposed to figure out the fakes from the genuines. I can't be bothered. I'm a straight-talking, what-you-see-is-what-you-find girl, and I can only take so many lies.
I personally preferred playing with married men, in some ways, only because they couldn't afford to lie to me. Single guys, however, just tell you what they think you want to hear. And we wonder why they're single???? rolleyes

rolleyes

Yes this theme has been done to death but then the forum users do love to jump down the throats of guys who come on here telling it as it is. Would you rather they lied?
If you don't agree with it, don't meet these guys. Meet the singles and couples who claim to be so morally correct and upstanding. They won't mess you around. I bet.
Married men have more respect, in my opinion. Not to their wives, admittedly, but then that isn't my problem. It's not like I want a relationship out of it - just a nice, honest shag will do. I'm pretty certain not all swinging couples have as much respect for each other as they make out. In fact I'm sure of it.

16 Sep 2005

Hi Jezzay

biggrin

- I do wish Norwich wasnt so far away. I love book clubs. Well done for starting something intellectual for the site addicts. Makes a change from bukkake and piss-ups.
Happy reading everyone...... wink

wink

10 Sep 2005

Quote by AndyWolves
Perhaps we could organise a trolley convoy/contraflow? Or I could break the list into nugget size pieces and distribute at the start - meet you all at the checkouts?!

I'm not squeezing your bananas mate I have my own fruit to fondle. Bloody cheek. wink

wink

If I were you I would construct a list that is divided by product type, so that you can cross sections off as you go, which should prove a less daunting experience.
Otherwise I suggest you find a willing submissive partner who will run around picking up all the low-shelved, obscurely placed items, and queue at the cheese/meat/fish counter for you, giving you more time to perfect that cool shopper technique. cool

cool

10 Sep 2005

Quote by AndyWolves
Greetings All!
I can't believe I missed this thread for so long -what the hell was I thinking!
I'm a bit of a demon with a Tesco trolley! Would love to join you guys, so please count me in! Especially if I get to take NN for a spin!
Give me a shout with the info when you have it!
x

Now this is what I call a Happy Shopper. lol

lol

6 Sep 2005

Now where's the little bitch who told me it was Fancy Dress, and that she would meet me dressed as a kipper... mad

mad

4 Sep 2005

Quote by berksbex
What do you do when you fall for the â€˜other man?â€™ Iâ€™m in an open relationship, I wonâ€™t say Iâ€™m a swinger, because he doesnâ€™t have sex with anyone else, I do. We have agreed this and up until recently, that is what I wanted. But I think Iâ€™m falling for one of my guys/friends whatever you may call them. I want to be with him more than anything. The trouble is that he could not cope with me staying in this lifestyle, and I have been so free for so long, Iâ€™m not sure I would be able to keep to his ideal. Also, there is the obvious thing about my man who I love, or at least thought I loved. Has anyone else experienced this?

In my opinion you shouldn't do anything yet - I highlight your indecisiveness because that is the issue. You shouldn't throw away a relationship on a whim, you barely know this other guy (in comparison to your long-term partner) and at the moment I presume you can only really base the relationship on the times you meet for sex - which is nothing like domestic life, eh?
However, what caught my eye was the fact that you say you 'thought' you loved your partner.
I have been there myself. Personally I wonder if you really do still love him. I think this other guy is pointing this fact out to you. Sometimes we don't like to acknowledge loss of love because it brings so much heartache, most of the time. But when someone else comes along who we really, really like - our feelings shine through and we cannot escape the truth.
I kept the truth from my longterm partner for far too long - about six months - and constantly lusted after another guy, agonising over what to do. Eventually I could hide it no more and we split, horribly, with a lot of pain, because I had hidden my feelings for so long. But I didn't start a new relationship with the other guy - I stayed single.
My point is that, if you don't mind me saying, I think you are maybe not in love with your partner any more. I think maybe a bout of freedom may help - some time apart perhaps - so that you can clear your head and figure out what you really feel. Because getting involved with a guy who has the potential to make you feel trapped will not help either.
Keep it casual. And try to be honest with your partner - he will thank you for it, in the end.
I hope this is helpful....having been there myself I wouldn't wish what I went through on anyone.

4 Sep 2005

mad

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Mod edit: nope!
:x
Sorry Mod. Just been reading a lot about him lately. I will say no more, honest.