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Sweet_kandi

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Straight Male, 47

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Bisexual Female, 51

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15 Apr 2012

We have a free night this Saturday due to kids being away :-) Looking to see if any bi fem couples in the area, sorry straighties but I would end up getting a slap in the face for touching things I shouldn't lol We are happy to meet for drinks and socializing and if everyone is happy we could head back to ours. We are happy to accommodate overnight or if a hotel meet is preferred then we are happy with that too. Just easy full stop :-) Drop us a line if you are interested xxx

20 Oct 2011

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17 Oct 2011

We are looking to play this Saturday 22nd and over the next couple of weeks. Been away from the scene a while and back with a 'bang' lol. There is more information in our profile but long story short we are looking for a couple with bi girl or that elusive bi girl. We are more than happy to accomodate if you have to travel. We make a mean fry up lol. Drop us a line if you are interested.
Happy Swinging!
Xxx

16 Jan 2011

We have pics of both of us on our profile as we are of the same thinking Brucie. We don't mind looking at a profile with only ladies in the pictures but prefer it if there are some of the men too. We need both of us to feel a sense of attraction as we are in this together. I think it is to do with females apparently being more photogenic and the sex sells attitude. No way would we meet with a couple without seeing both of them on cam first. We find even pictures can be misleading biggrin

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27 Dec 2010

Thanks for all the input guys biggrin

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we eventually got it sorted out...thank god! Was a worry as we are not technophobes but just didn't realise that the PS3 could have access to everything lol. Kandis face when he shouted me after he had seen his ass fly by the screen on my sons room was a picture :-D Hope you all had a lovely Christmas
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26 Dec 2010

lol this is the wife ;-) kandi was the one upstairs sorting the playstation settings out when he flicked by a picture of his ass! And I now realise the confusion when I said profile in my original post. I was refering to the profile on the laptop, not the profile on here biggrin

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26 Dec 2010

Thanks frecklebird biggrin

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We have disabled the sharing of pictures between our profiles and it has rectified the problem. We just didn't think that our son would have had access to our pictures as they were password protected in my user account. Just a wee heads up for others in case they hadn't thought of this. We always monitor the computer usage for our children. It was just a tad worrying that a simple thing like that could have had drastic consequences.

26 Dec 2010

And in relation to our swinging account, We use a seperate email address from everything else for added security. I simply used my normal everyday email address to register the playstation. However the playstation is connected to the same wireless router and from here has given itself access to the profiles on my wireless network. No password information has been required on the console for this. It is a just a heads up for others to ensure they check their security settings on their laptop and not just assume that the safety of the windows password is all that is required. File sharing was enabled between kandi and my profile to ensure we had access to photos etc ( the childrens profile does not have access to this file sharing ) however the playstation automatically gave itself access to any shared files on your home network regardless of passwords put in place.
I hope this makes it a bit clearer

26 Dec 2010

My son does not have access to any passwords or anything to do with security in relation to settings on the computer. I am the administrator with full control of settings and he has a basic profile on the laptop with restrictions. No passwords have been put into the playstation. Somehow, the playstation has full access to the laptop on the same IP address. My profile is password protected...even Kandi doesn't know it! and yet the playstation has full access to my account on the laptop.

26 Dec 2010

The PS3 bypassed all our passwords on the laptop and gave him access to all our photos! We are still trying to sort it out and see what exactly has happened.

26 Dec 2010

Hey Guys n Gals
Just a wee heads up if anyone bought their little bundles of joy a PS3 for Christmas. We got one for our 10 year old and are in the middle of setting it up. Now due to his age I used my email address to link it to the internet. Kandi has just went up to make sure it is all working okay and realised that my darling 10 year old son has full access to our profile on the laptop! Yes, every single one of our pictures can be seen on my sons tv from his playstation! We are in the process of figuring out how to change all the settings but just wanted to raise your awareness just in case you haven't checked this for yourself. Boxing day could have been very interesting in our house if we had not noticed this

15 Oct 2010

We are looking to meet in or around Glasgow this Saturday with a bi fem couple or a bi female. We can accomodate and can travel locally. If interested then have a wee peek at our profile and drop us a line.
Happy Swinging!
Sweet & Kandi

16 Jul 2010

I know you weren't huns biggrin

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I just liked the tongue in cheek approach to it as I have kids that need to be considered too so totally understand where you are coming from.
I have been made to feel guilty about my 'extra currecular activities' yet would it have been the same view if it had been knitting or photography? I don't think so. I think it is because of sex being part of it and what people don't understand, people condemn.

16 Jul 2010

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I have to lie to people all the time about what we do and our reasons for going out. As I said, I dont like it much but needs must.
Our weekend hobby (well mostly weekends) also means that I am spending Saturday evenings getting ready to go out instead of sitting with my children watching X-Factor or whatever crap happens to be on the TV. Such a bad mother!!

In relation to this statement then what about people who participate in sports or who follow sports. How many Saturday afternoons are fathers not there for their children due to watching football or playing golf? What about a mother who goes to the gym during the week instead of being there to cater for the children? Swinging is just another sport biggrin

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Should we feel guilty because it is of a sexual nature?
And responding to Brucies comment, I am lucky that I don't need to lie to my friends and family about what I am doing as they all know that I swing. I tell then I am meeting friends and they know what that means. The don't ask for anymore details. I tell my children I am meeting friends which isn't a lie either. I yet again don't go into detail. I don't go into detail of what I do on a 'vanilla' night out with my children so I shouldn't have to just because it is a meet.

16 Jul 2010

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9 Jul 2010

Must be against you then sweetheart and not in a way that would benefit you :twisted:
Happy Swinging!
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9 Jul 2010

lol @ next jesus comment biggrin

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As I stated, it is a personal preference to us. Are you knocking someone elses personal preference? We didn't knock yours, just that we have a personal preference. And that personal preference is to not play with people whos partners have no knowledge. You have no idea how or why we came to this decision so who are you to judge us on it?

9 Jul 2010

Happy Birthday Ben
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9 Jul 2010

We only ever play with couples so can't really comment on playing with single guys thing. As it stands, we would never knowingly play with anyone, male or female, who was playing away from home without their partners knowledge, regardless of their reasons. We actually shy away from people who are honest enough to admit that they are playing as a couple but are not in a loving relationship with each other. We are both in this scene to enhance our already loving and happy relationship and prefer that in others. We have been approached by single bi fems whose partners doesn't know they are playing and we still won't play with them. To us it is an all or nothing situation. We don't have any issues with people doing it. We just have our preference of what sort of people we share our experiences with biggrin

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7 Jul 2010

Got to be Kings Of Leon 'I Want You' biggrin

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This was when I (as in Sweet) was getting into the swinging scene and finally accepting I was bi. I then met Kandi and realised I coule be BOTH bi and in a loving relationship with loads of hot sex! lol silly

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Listen to it. As soon as you put it on, the rawness of his voice and the whole slow tempo. It is grinding......grrrrrrrr. Then it comes into the wee basey bit in the background. God! It is a songasm! It reaches places that Carlsberg couldn't even reach lol. We've had many a fun night by ourselves and with others with this song on in the background. :twisted:

4 Jul 2010

Thanks guys biggrin

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And LMAO @ Sme :D God that made me laugh right out loud. That reminded me of the time I had just got my baby chinchilla. I was going on a night out as had just got made redundant. I left in the OH at the time with his friends. I warned them that if they let her out to make sure they put the toilet seat down as she jumped everywhere and the last thing I wanted was her down it.
I came in that night very very drunk and went into the toilet. I remember looking down the toilet and thinking someone hadn't flushed it. Then the horror came of realising that the dark thing down the toilet wasn't a big pile of c**p but my baby chinchilla!! I screamed and shouted and the next thing my brother came running in and dragged the wee bedraggled soul out of the toilet pan and started to give her mouth to mouth! :D lol, he has never forgotton that. She was already dead tho. Have had a few stories over the years of pets and strange happenings. Like the time my chipmunk got stood on and squashed. God, honestly, we love our pets! :D And we are usually a cheery wee house to be in. Kandi has just told me off for being a morbid little mare hehe.
And totally agree with the 'making your own stress' due to running late. I do that all the time and the poor kids n Kandi usually get the brunt of it.

4 Jul 2010

We have been lurkers on the forum for a while. Decided to post as have had the day from hell and wondered what stands out as being a day from hell for you?
We woke up this morning to find our wee cat lying ill outside sad

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Brought him in to find him unresponsive. 2 cats have been poisoned here in the last 6 months so alarm bells went off.1 hour later and in the emergency vet to be told that he has chronic kidney failure and the next 48 hours are crucial. We arrived back at the house for me (Sweet) to go up to where I found him to see if there were any signs of anything only to step down from the wall and go over on my ankle! This resulted in me screaming n nearly passing out in front of the kids n lying in a mess on the wet ground :( Enter Kandi who fire lifted me straight back into the car and straight up to A&E. Now lying on the couch with an ankle the size of a balloon with crutches n out of action for 10 days! Lol, so now feeling all sorry for myself and poor Kandi had to do the Florence Nightingale thing and still waiting to hear about our gorgeous wee cat. So, what equates to the 'Day from Hell' for you?