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T_cra
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 55
UK

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The profile basically says, I'm not looking? So why the rant that you can't meet anyone?
No pics available, very few preferences, no adds and agressive? Why would anyone respond? rolleyes
I'm a genuine bloke looking for more regular fun, rather than one offs, why would I contact you? Its easy I wouldn't based on the perception you give.
Don't get me wrong, you may be a lovely person, funny and really genuine, but there is no way for anybody to guess that confused:
So nope don't think your looking in the wrong place, just the wrong way cool
What is Bi anyway?
Straight is easy sleeps with opposite sex
Gay is sleeps with same sex
But Bi means so many different things to different people !!!
Classically I believe (no need to shoot me down in flames, I may be wrong smile ) Bi sexual means someone who will enter in to a same sex or opposite sex relationship, and finds both sexes attractive?
Swinging offers a very different range MMF , MFF etc etc etc, so what is Bi? Its a label that means wildly different things to different people.
Some people may be happy to play same sex to different degrees in a 3 some, but will still consider themselves straight and would never consider a purely same sex meet?
After all swinging has an element of excitement and the unknown to it. Its very hedonistic by its very nature, and one mans meat is another mans poison.
I think if you really looked at it you will find that basically people label themselves as they see themselves, not as others do? As long as they are open and honest in their PM's who cares?
You have second PM as I can't tell what day of the week its is :doh:
I'm a single bloke, in many ways I don't expect to get many responses to my adds sad , if someone looks at my profile I have a look back, read their adds and profiles carefully and if I fit or am interested I will write a PM. After all it is a site to meet people?
What I don't do is get in touch, with people obviously not looking for me, if the profile or adds say straight single male required thats fine, as thats what I am (Anyone looking for that biggrin get in touch). If they are looking for curiosity, interest etc If they want a Bi-fem or couple thats just not me, so why would I bother spending the time and effort to waste their time when they probably get plenty of PM's anyway. Also if the profile is empty, why should they expect to get PM's???????? obviously on here for social reasons or don't want hassling until they want to meet, so why pester them.
After all the idea is to meet like minded peeps for fun, not piss people off :cool:
Stay Safe & Have Fun
T
Quote by littlemee
:thumbup: T_cra and happy hump
:cheers:

Ta very much biggrin
Hey I'm new to the site, and very happy with the results so far biggrin
Had some fun meets with single fems and couples and thats in about 6 weeks?
And I'm just an average looking bloke, average cock size and pretty hairy, but what I am is polite, honest and genuine, I take time to read profiles and adds and respond to what people want, if its not what I want I don't bother with a PM.
Also I socialise, get to know some people, not many so far, but I'm persistent, and chat on-line so people get to know who I am.
Yeh people who don't answer can be frustrating, especially after you have spent 20 mins on your PM, but what the hell people are busy.
I have had a pretty good average of polite No Thanks, and if you socialise as well as meet, you really don't want to bump in to people who think you are an idiot.
Lets face it, you take the rough with the smooth, how often does "fancy a F**K" work in a night club? The people on here are real people, who enjoy a varied sex life as do I, you have to treat them like people!!!!!! If you want a quick F**K, drop your wallet in a massage parlour, thats what they are there for. If you want to meet likeminded people be nice smile
Stay safe & have Fun
T
What a Wonderful world, by Louis armstrong
I always liked jazz and in the late 80's saw good morning vietnam, I can never listen to that song in the same way after that, the images of bombing and destruction with that playing changed the way I see the music, I still love it but it more of a meloncholy way now.
On a lighter note the old Pulp classic Common People as sung by William Shatner had me crying, I was laughing so hard I nearly wet myself, Its the bit were he really goes for it its so terrible its fantastic smile
Stay safe & Have Fun
T
Some of the wierd and wonderful personal adds I have come across. Would upload the pics but new to this and not sure how?
Incurable romantic,seeks filthy whore Phone: xxx
Wanted: 30 Chinamenand a zeppelin for elaborate practical joke? Please Call on xxx
Small Minority wanted to spoil it for the rest of us. There's always one - is it you? please call xxx
Good-Looking, athletic, Notting Hill based movie star, millionaire, seeks gullible stunner. Call xxx
Lose weight fast! Fed up of dieting and exercise? Incredible results guaranteed! Try amoebic dysentry! Vials £20 just add to sea food Call xxx
And my absolute personal favourite :-)
Nemesis wanted: I'm 5'10,into Kayaking, books and conversation (by Day), Justice, Honour and Vengence (by night). Seeking arch-enemy, possibly crimelord or deformed meglomaniiac. Call
:haha: That all for now folks
T
Hi Naughty Wigan Couple
I know its a bit late confused , but any chance of an invite or at least sticking on the reserves.
Many thanks
xxx
T_cra
Have fun & stay safe
Hi all
I think this time around swinging is a lifestyle, Ide rather have the look of horror and walk away than lie to people. It does help that I have confidence in my self and what I want these days.
Sort of discovered swinging by accident about 8 or 9 years ago. My GF of the time had cheated on me and to be honest I was suprised that it didn't bother me particularly, but it seemed to bother her and we split shortly after.
So I went looking for some NSA fun with fems, hooked up with several and had a good time. wink One of whom was a lovely Bi lady who introduced me to mmf/mff which was great, really enjoyed it. I was open and honest and never hid my activities from the ladies I was seeing and it seemed to work well.
One of these became my wife, she wass't into the scene but appeared to have no problems that I had been in to it and she didn't want to join in so I became Vanilla for a long time. Unfortunately the wife never really let it go and threw accusations of cheating and sleeping with prostitutes about increasingly frequently, hence very nearly divorced and glad of it cool
So no I really don't think I would go back in to a vanilla relationship, I like to be honest and some people just can't handle that in the long term even if they think they can. Life is for living not just for paying the mortgage off.
Stay safe & have fun
T
OK Guys
I know this shit, I do it for a living
Pthalates are widely used to make uPVC (the hard shit windows are made of) into that lovely flexible stuff that goes in to your toys.
The problem is that there is evidence that pthalates may cause sterility in male rats when eaten (No not when U eat the rat). This is a known as a class 3 reproductive toxin. Ie only circumstatial evidence exists from animal studies.
The big problem was that pthalates were very widely used in packaging print, ie Crisp packets, and the food giants jumped on it and have lobbied lots of organisations for a ban throughout europe overr the last 20 years. Someone worked out that to gain a significant Pthalate exposure by eating crisps you would have to eat about 200 packs a day for a month.
So your flexible friend has 3-5% of pthalates, which are only classed as dangerous if eaten (noy just sucked). Exposure will be absolutely negligable.
Hey you are much more likely to have a latex allergy from a condom.
Stay Safe, have fun
T_CRA
xxx
Hi all
as a single bloke, things can be tough out there. To answer the original question, how do you let people down gently?
Personally I would prefer a sorry not my type, than endless email ping pong where it becomes frustrating for both sides and meeting up and having that nasty pause, as you fail to click is even worse. I figure the swing is a community and there is a not unreasonable chance that you bump in to people at clubs, parties and online so even if you don't fancy people for sex they can become friends.
As for the attractive thing, asking for attractive is like asking for an EGO, same things with a lot of the BIG guys out there biggrin , us mere mortals have to make an effort.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for me its more a personality thing than a body shape, over the years I have dated Tall skinny women and short BBW's and a fair few in betweens, always had fun.
As for Young couples problem I'm not there for the bloke cool one of my good mates is a 30 stone bearded monster, but is one of the most genuine people I know.
Stay Safe, have Fun
T_CRA xxx
Know a little about this, used to go out with a med tech when I lived in yorkshire.
HIV and Hep are the real nasty suckers though none are very nice
HIV is suprisingly delicate and ceases to be become infectious very quickly after exposure to the air (I am unsure of the exact time frame) but once a fluid is dry its pretty safe, also saliva and stomach acid destroys it.
Hep can last for hours outside the body and is far easier to contract via contact.
Also transmission from the mouth to genitals is far less likely than the other way round.
So what you really need to make sure is that you have no open cuts/ulcers inside the mouth when performing oral and that your partner has no obvious cuts/discharges/spots/warts or strange odours on their bits.
Importantly dont brush or floss your teeth immeadiately before oral sex, leave it a bit. If you need to freshen up use a mouthwash, preferably alcohol free antibacterial.
Spitting and rinsing after wards helps.
But at the end of the day its up to people to make their own minds up, I know I have biggrin
Hope this helps
Thanks DeeCee
If not this time, would you consider me for the next one.
Much appreciated
T_cra
Hi DeeCee
Would love an invite, swung a bit a few years back and looking to get back in to the scene now I'm single again.
I'm polite, well groomed, clean, non pushy and easy going, enjoy a laugh and full of fun lol
Genuine and don't believe in bullshit
Live over in Rochdale so prestwich is not a problem