I difficult when we get caught up on labels and definitions. I'd say I'm str8. I don't fancy blokes at all. But I have interests and fantasies that include other men. Less open minded men would say that wasn't str8. I find describing myself as bi is over promising by the definition of a lot of people.

My "interest" is probably more down to dom/switch/sub than str8/bi/gay.

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We couldn't care less. Just wish people would be honest about their preferences.

Yes a plain I will, I won't, I want, is a fair expectation of an actual conversation upfront. The few options under the profile statuses don't really tell the whole story. 

I think people conflate sexual acts and sexuality. Sexual pleasure and attraction are not always the same. People can call themselves what they please, but it doesn't help if everyone needs to have a name for where ever they are in the complicated mix of things. 

Identity matters to many, often as a reaction to a threatening and biggotted society. If society treated all equally, it would only matter when discussing a sexual encounter with someone you wanted to do it with.