hummm a first timer to all this, and yet overtly confident, and so self assured that 'disappointment' shall not be found!
I don't suppose the measure of a woman's satisfaction has anything to with her eh? It's all down to us.... lol.
Christ, if it was all down to us, then we really would be up the creek!
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TheAnalogKid
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 119
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One of the primary reasons why single males get such a raw deal is because of their collective behaviour.
Of course there are sensible single males around, however, they are in the minority (sadly). From a couples perspective, it can be quite hard work filtering through the masses of single men in order to get to the nice ones. That's life I'm afraid, and it's unreasonable to expect couples to do that legwork. Far more might be achieved if single males pestered other single males into behaving decently in the first place.
There is one other reason why single males fair badly, and that's erm... dare I say, typical male insecurity. It's not the most popular view in the world, but it's a fair one. Many males in swinging relationships struggle with introducing other men into the relationship, many of them prefering to invite a single fem. This is a very tricky subject to approach and obscured slightly by the popularity of bisexualism amongst women. Nevertheless, underneath all the facade, a lot of blokes still worry about 'comparison' with other blokes and in an attempt to bury their heads in the sand... they play the 'No single male' card.
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Of course there are sensible single males around, however, they are in the minority (sadly). From a couples perspective, it can be quite hard work filtering through the masses of single men in order to get to the nice ones. That's life I'm afraid, and it's unreasonable to expect couples to do that legwork. Far more might be achieved if single males pestered other single males into behaving decently in the first place.
There is one other reason why single males fair badly, and that's erm... dare I say, typical male insecurity. It's not the most popular view in the world, but it's a fair one. Many males in swinging relationships struggle with introducing other men into the relationship, many of them prefering to invite a single fem. This is a very tricky subject to approach and obscured slightly by the popularity of bisexualism amongst women. Nevertheless, underneath all the facade, a lot of blokes still worry about 'comparison' with other blokes and in an attempt to bury their heads in the sand... they play the 'No single male' card.
/TheKid
haha... wish it was like this when I went... that's SOME homework you've got.... "discover the pleasures of older ladies" hehe
Stick around, it's fun and chatty and once you prove you're basically a decent bloke it gets better!...
I've managed, and now the people running the site have been ever so kind and decided to only cut off one of my bollocks!
Stick around, it's fun and chatty and once you prove you're basically a decent bloke it gets better!...
I've managed, and now the people running the site have been ever so kind and decided to only cut off one of my bollocks!
you were 44 and 39 a few days ago!!...
takes years off your all this pleasure!!!!
takes years off your all this pleasure!!!!
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we will be out in ROMFORD area of essex THIS WEEKEND (17th-19th)
bi married couple 44/39
we BOTH dress to please (stockings/suspenders e.t.c)
little overweight but deffinatly not obese
were c ...
The ones in clubs are less choosy about age because it's purely physical... they can seperate themselves from the thought of you being 18... if you look good and you appeal to them, then they might go for you.... of course the alcohol flow helps / hinders too.
Mixed bag of ages, but mostly 30's+
The majority of people post once, expect women to fall at their feet... leave disappointed after a day or two. No patience, not self control, and worst of all.... lousy attitude. That's how it works for the majority. That's swinging sites for you. A refuge for great people, and a magnet for fly by night idiots.!!
Mixed bag of ages, but mostly 30's+
The majority of people post once, expect women to fall at their feet... leave disappointed after a day or two. No patience, not self control, and worst of all.... lousy attitude. That's how it works for the majority. That's swinging sites for you. A refuge for great people, and a magnet for fly by night idiots.!!
