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Tosh
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 48
0 miles · Hereford and Worcester

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Quote by Missy
Firelizard - exactly! We've been on the site that long and yes it's got in and out of priority, but it's always something we talk about.
It's a good point about the munches - but I understand that does mean socialising ;) and we're miserable gits! We'd just rather find our own fun without getting too much into the social scene of swinging. (not that this has got us far!)

From the sounds of it - you're looking for a purely physical experience, preferably with an adonis, as opposed to someone who is into the swinging 'lifestyle' but may look slightly more average?
If that's the case, if it is just looks and physical contact you're after - then I would say go for an escort. That way you can browse the ads or whatever they have, choose your ideal bed buddy, book him and go for it biggrin
What I don't like about that concept tho, is that it's a job to him, not necesarily pleasure. Personally I find it essential that anyone I play with is doing so because they 'want' to, because hopefully they're gonna have, not only as much pleasure as me, but thoroughy enjoy giving it too.
With the escort thing, you get the body and that's it. Perfect if that's exactly what you're after, no small talk etc, just receiving pure physical pleasure from someone you've picked out :D
As it happens, them being Adonis's (? or is it Adonisi) isn't important. S just wants someone she feels that instant sexual spark with. They'll have to be quite young and fit to keep up with her though :twisted: We've met one guy who was no oil painting, but was dirty as fuck and we were all set, but sadly things didn't work out on the feeling safe front.. and we decided to exit stage left.
TBH, the escort type fuck em and chuck em experience is kind of what we're after, but the sparky, flirty conversation must be there. Whatever, vacuous aren't we lol I've got to say too, it isn't important whether the person in question really enjoys themselves, it's about our pleasure. I would be incredibly surprised if they didn't enjoy themselves in the process though!
Thanks, and anyone else who wants to stick their oar in anyway they want, please go ahead, we're out of ideas :D
Recommendations from other people would be good - but we don't know who we're getting the recommendations off, don't know whether we have similar tastes. So that's sort of out really. Bah humbug ;)
Firelizard - exactly! We've been on the site that long and yes it's got in and out of priority, but it's always something we talk about.
It's a good point about the munches - but I understand that does mean socialising ;) and we're miserable gits! We'd just rather find our own fun without getting too much into the social scene of swinging. (not that this has got us far!)
Do you mean a normal club, or swingers club? As S pulls in clubs often enough, but she baulks at mentioning threesomes to any of the guys she meets...
True, but we had a couple profile as well (recently de-activated), as I couldn't place ads with S without one.
It remains to be seen whether this will also put people off giving me advice!
Hi, we are newbies in need of guidance! Hope you can help us out.
Several times now S & I have met up with men and for one reason or another things haven't clicked into place for S to want to sleep with them/have a threesome. Which is absolutely fine, and I supported her decision perfectly in each instance. But when all she really wants is a hard session, and we've been trying to sort the perfect meeting for so long, what are we doing wrong!!? I'm sure this has happened far too many times to lots of people, but I'm now starting to think hiring an escort or contacting one of many porn sites with guys that S really wants to be fucked by, is an easier solution than advertising in small ads.
Sadly it's a one-to-one (or one-to-two) thing we're after, swinging clubs don't interest us. We don't just use this site to try and find blokes, small ads on other sites have failed dismally too. Obviously the amount of men who respond to the ads isn't the problem - it's the quality. Sorting the wheat from the chaff takes long enough, but then to find one that we feel safe enough to meet means others may have slipped the net by the time we realise that ones a bloody weirdo ;) & then of course when you meet one - there's the risk that things just don't happen for either party - which has sadly been true on a couple of occassions. So - is it just a case of working harder at a method of sorting, or are we missing something to make the whole process easier.
Cheers,
C.
A female friend (see profile pic) and I are out in Brum tonight, (again) with a hotel room booked. We are after male to join us:
You must be experienced, good looking, have a brain, be under 35, and able to write more than one line in any PMs you're going to send We need someone respectful, certainly not arrogant and in love with themselves, easygoing and aware that we make all the rules with no guarantees of anything - but be aware that if these rules are adhered to, my friend has no limits guys.
PM us your message plus face pics.
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A female friend (see profile pic) and I are out in Brum tonight, and will book a hotel room for a threesome if the right guy PMs.
Must be experienced, good looking (pics required!), under 35, and able to write more than one line in any PMs you're going to send ;) We need someone respectful, certainly not arrogant and in love with themselves, easygoing and aware that we make all the rules with no guarantees of anything smile - but aware that if these rules are adhered to, my friend has no limits ;)
PM us, cheers.
Yep, tis aardvark. You've got our response, but your response for getting down here isn't very inspiring, suggest you come up with something more imaginative in your next pm!
This Saturday 1st April, in central Birmingham, me and an old flame are having another get together. PM me. Face and cock pics are required! Extra guy needs to be experienced and aware that this is an opportunity for my old flame's fantasies to be played out not any perverse ones he may have!
Thanks!
C.
An old flame and I are out in Brum this evening, and as she was so often wont to do, she's wearing her sexiest, sluttiest clothes and wants to flirt and pick up some guys for mine (and her!) entertainment, hopefully she'll pick one to out to fuck with me looking on. Which bars/dive's ;) are recommended for open minded non pushy man slags? ;) Broad St and similar aren't our kind of thing...
Anyway lucky me will be her wheels for the night, watching her open her legs for the right guy on my back seat hopefully.
Cheers,
Tosh.