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Please read profile before sending mails. If you mail me without reading my profile, they will be deleted along with one liners.

If you think you tick all my boxs then send a mail telling me about you, It will be these mails with pics attached that i consider 1st. Others will just be deleted. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but i am doing this so not to waste your time and mine. I made an effort with my profile so those who have done the same will also be considered 1st.

So just to reflect, Those who i will consider 1st will be those who have READ my profile, attached a Pic, sent an intelligent mail and made an effort with their profile.

Me :

I DO NOT meet with anyone under the age of 40. ONLY straight SINGLE white guys, NO Bi or Bi Curious please. No offence is meant.

What I look for :

I DO NOT WANT cock pics, I DO WANT Face pics. There has to be an attraction, and it is your Face, (smiling I hope) that I am going to be attracted to, NOT your Cock. I have my face pics on my profile and if you cannot show me on here we are never going to meet. They do not have to be on your profile, but you can attach them to a mail IF you match what I am looking for

No Face Pic = No Reply/Meet.

I like guys who are smart dressers and take care and a pride in there apperance. Smart casual or suited will make more of an impression than no effort at all. I make an effort and expect any guys I meet to do the same. Jeans/Trousers/Shirt or T-Shirt is what i class as casual. Clean shaven, above and below, or at least well trimmed below. Excellent personal hygiene is a must and smelling nice.

Good manners, personality a sense of adventure, spontaneous able to hold a conversation, and a dam good giggle. You must know how to treat a lady, and not just in the bedroom. I am a person, NOT a piece of meat. I may be blonde but I am certainly not dumb, and do not suffer fools lightly..

I have a brain and know how to use it and you have to stimulate this brain before you get to the body. (Never on 1st Social meet and ALWAYS SAFE) I am not a Dom, so Sub guys, please pass me by...

I love sensual and ertoic meets with a guy. Lots of kissing, touching and foreplay is a must. I enjoy meals in or out, movies or even just a cuddle on the sofa watching a movie. I like a man to be a man, in the bedroom and OUT of it. I am "Old School" and those of my age prefference should understand that.

I am not intrested in meets with lots of single guys, but meets with just the ONE single guy on a regular basis. This would be on a Social level as well as Play meets. For me getting to know someone on a Social level, is most important. It gives each the chance to get to know one another, which in turn can only enhance any play meets.

WARNING: If this sounds like a b/f-g/f / Relationship..... It is NOT to me.

Its companionship only. Someone I can share laughs/fun social times with. I meet when I want to, not when expected to. I have a busy life away from swinging, (especially in the Summer months) and sometimes my companion may be included in that as well. That could be meeting other friends I have (Vanillas as well)

YOU MUST BE LOCAL TO ME for this to be possible, so not more than 10 miles away please.

When I meet, those who have sent a face pic will be the first I check and consider. I have found in the past, pictures are not always recent as in taken only months ago, instead of 10 years or more ago. If this seems to be the case when I meet you socially, then I am afraid you have wasted your time and mine.

I will also give pref to those who smoke, the reason is simple, I do smoke and as I love to kiss, I do not want to be thinking to myself, "I cant kiss this guy as he is a non smoker.

I know some of my pics are a 4 years old, but nothing has changed except my hair being longer, oh and a few extra laugh lines lol. If we meet and you feel that im not what you expect by my pics, I will have no problems if you leave, but I would not leave my pics here if they were still not very much like me.

Being a single fem, my saftey is 1st and foremost. Social meets are ALWAYS held somewhere VERY public. A social meet could be a coffee/drink/meal.

This may happen more than once, as I have said, "Getting to know someone is just part of finding the attraction between both"

So that is little ole me, and this is about me after all. I know what I want and will settle for nothing less. I have decided on the above from experience, and what I have found to work for me. I am being totally honest to save your time and mine. I am an honest and open person and expect the same in return. So if you got this far, Well done lol, and thank you for taking the time to read.

Ohh!! ONE LAST THING, If you choose to tell lies, I will wish you well, and not hesitate to walk away.

Now for YOU:......

Single

Straight

40 or over

Smell nice

Spontanious

Hold a conversation.

Laugh and have a giggle

Localish, or not more than 10 miles

Know how to treat a lady, in/out of bedroom

Enjoy the Social side as well as the fun side

Clean shaven and at least neatly trimmed below

Understand the difference between b/f-g/f and Companionship

Bo -x-