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adventurer
1 week ago
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0 miles · Newcastle upon Tyne
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Well what an interesting thread !
Seems to me there are several different bones of contention going on here.
Firstly I agree that by advertising dogging sites, we run the risk of "inviting" undesirables to attend and cause disruption and trouble. However, I can also understand the frustration "newbies" must have at not knowing where to go. If nobody tells them, how can they get to be known as genuine ?
I have to disagree with jomu in one respect. There is no doubt that some long term members of this site do come across as elitist, I personaly have been a member for nearly 2 years and have come across certain attitudes myself. "we dont know you so we don't want to get to know you" that sort of thing.
I live in Northumberland and the local Police are no trouble at all. Speaking as an "ex" Boy in Blue I can say that the Police in my area are not interested in spoiling peoples fun What they are concerned about is that every on is safe, there is no crime or fear of crime being committed and that the boy racers behave themselves. I can certainly say that no "numbers" are taken and plain clothes officers do not approach peoples cars. So if any North East doggers fancy a meet just let me know, there are still a few quiet unspoilt spots up here.
Seems to me there are several different bones of contention going on here.
Firstly I agree that by advertising dogging sites, we run the risk of "inviting" undesirables to attend and cause disruption and trouble. However, I can also understand the frustration "newbies" must have at not knowing where to go. If nobody tells them, how can they get to be known as genuine ?
I have to disagree with jomu in one respect. There is no doubt that some long term members of this site do come across as elitist, I personaly have been a member for nearly 2 years and have come across certain attitudes myself. "we dont know you so we don't want to get to know you" that sort of thing.
I live in Northumberland and the local Police are no trouble at all. Speaking as an "ex" Boy in Blue I can say that the Police in my area are not interested in spoiling peoples fun What they are concerned about is that every on is safe, there is no crime or fear of crime being committed and that the boy racers behave themselves. I can certainly say that no "numbers" are taken and plain clothes officers do not approach peoples cars. So if any North East doggers fancy a meet just let me know, there are still a few quiet unspoilt spots up here.
See ! that's exactly what I mean about people being rude. I don't mind anybody telling me that i'm wrong, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but why are some people so rude. Why call me a tosser when you dont even know me. There is absolutely NO need to be rude to anyone, and I'm, afraid that being a moderator does sometimes mean that you get asked the same questions again. And my origional question has still not been answered
But ----- never one to cause an argument why not just call this post to a halt we are never all going to agree who is right or wrong, but just dont be rude when you post thats all I ask.
But ----- never one to cause an argument why not just call this post to a halt we are never all going to agree who is right or wrong, but just dont be rude when you post thats all I ask.
Well, if thats the attitude of a moderator telling people to "shut up" then I'm not surprised that there has been a lot of unrest on this site for the last few months. I thought the whole idea of a forum was to get people to discuss topics.
My question was a fair one, it was not rudely put, nor did I offennd anyone. Just for the record, I have read the rules, I do understand why they are in place I only asked a simple question which you the moderator have failed totally to answer and in doing so have been very rude. I suspect that if a member had told a moderator to "shut up" they would have been banned.
I do not suppose you will like my reply, you may lock the subject and probably ban me as well. All I can say is that if that is your attitude then I am well out of it.
My question was a fair one, it was not rudely put, nor did I offennd anyone. Just for the record, I have read the rules, I do understand why they are in place I only asked a simple question which you the moderator have failed totally to answer and in doing so have been very rude. I suspect that if a member had told a moderator to "shut up" they would have been banned.
I do not suppose you will like my reply, you may lock the subject and probably ban me as well. All I can say is that if that is your attitude then I am well out of it.
Can anyone explain to me the difference bertween having a dogging site/location listed on the dogging sites section of swinging heaven and someone mentioning a site on a post ?
I am refering in particular to a well known site in the W-----y B-y area. In the Dogging Sites section clear details are given as to location, car parks etc. But when someone mentioned another, nearby dogging area, not giving precise locations, but naming a nearby pub, one of the moderators nearly had a fit !
I just wondered why we have a Dogging Site section if doggers cant actually mention locations themselves.
Having said that, I agree it would be very foolish to give out a time date etc.
Anyone else have views on this ?
I am refering in particular to a well known site in the W-----y B-y area. In the Dogging Sites section clear details are given as to location, car parks etc. But when someone mentioned another, nearby dogging area, not giving precise locations, but naming a nearby pub, one of the moderators nearly had a fit !
I just wondered why we have a Dogging Site section if doggers cant actually mention locations themselves.
Having said that, I agree it would be very foolish to give out a time date etc.
Anyone else have views on this ?
Me and the missus have been to Kavos twice. On both occasions we had a great time. The accomodation is VERY basic and it is a very noisy resort. I too am a diabetic but have had no problems on any of the many Greek islands I have been to.
Kavos itself is full of bars and clubs. The clubs arent cheap but most of the bars arent too bad. If you are worried about having things done to you the I would avoid the wilder parties, or leave when it looks to be getting out of hand. Of course Kavos was were the "infamous" reps gave public blow jobs during a party !
Just go, enjoy yourslef but dont expect to get much sleep.
Kavos itself is full of bars and clubs. The clubs arent cheap but most of the bars arent too bad. If you are worried about having things done to you the I would avoid the wilder parties, or leave when it looks to be getting out of hand. Of course Kavos was were the "infamous" reps gave public blow jobs during a party !
Just go, enjoy yourslef but dont expect to get much sleep.
Well I was out at all the usual spots at the coast last night and only saw one couple. As soon as they realised they were being watched they drove off. Being a gentleman I didnt follow them. Dont know what car you were in - this looked like a small citroen, but if you want fun you have to let guys know. The usual way is to flick interior lights on and off or indicate for the guy(s) to come over to you.
Let me know when you are out next and I will def show up.
Let me know when you are out next and I will def show up.
Northeast_cple
I have to be honest and say that I think that you are two of the most ignorant, rude people that I have never had the pleasure of meeting. You are quick to judge others, don't give logical replies to peoples questions, I have NEVER seen you in the chat room and quite frankly I have no wish to have the mispleasure of your company. I have met many people, singles and couples, who use this site and have never encountered anyone as ignorant and stupid as you.
Don't bother replying as I sha'nt bother reading any more posts regarding this subject
I have to be honest and say that I think that you are two of the most ignorant, rude people that I have never had the pleasure of meeting. You are quick to judge others, don't give logical replies to peoples questions, I have NEVER seen you in the chat room and quite frankly I have no wish to have the mispleasure of your company. I have met many people, singles and couples, who use this site and have never encountered anyone as ignorant and stupid as you.
Don't bother replying as I sha'nt bother reading any more posts regarding this subject
Mmmmm bit of a hornets nest this one.
Firstly, Northeastcple, yes you do have an msn site, I tried to join it but was rejected ! No reason given.
Secondly, most of the couples who advertise either do not want single guys or they want the impossible ie 8'' +. If you dont belive me just check the ads.
I have spoken to about 5 couples in the chat room on a regular basis and without exception they all wanted single fems or couples. Thats no problem that is their choice
Thirdly to the guy who is diabetic - so am I mate and it doesnt stop me. There are certain "things/drugs" you can get from the Dr to help you. I know because I have to use them all the time.
Fourthly, why do I have a different chat name to my posting name. Its because I joined using the name adventurer but when I came to use it in the chat room it wouldnt let me. If any moderator reads this please tell me who to change either of the names.
The only way people can tell if you are genuine is to meet them, you can chat all you like in the room but untill you meet up there is no way to tell. I would have gone to the last munchie but I was on holiday in the Canaries and I am working when the Teeside one is on.
Firstly, Northeastcple, yes you do have an msn site, I tried to join it but was rejected ! No reason given.
Secondly, most of the couples who advertise either do not want single guys or they want the impossible ie 8'' +. If you dont belive me just check the ads.
I have spoken to about 5 couples in the chat room on a regular basis and without exception they all wanted single fems or couples. Thats no problem that is their choice
Thirdly to the guy who is diabetic - so am I mate and it doesnt stop me. There are certain "things/drugs" you can get from the Dr to help you. I know because I have to use them all the time.
Fourthly, why do I have a different chat name to my posting name. Its because I joined using the name adventurer but when I came to use it in the chat room it wouldnt let me. If any moderator reads this please tell me who to change either of the names.
The only way people can tell if you are genuine is to meet them, you can chat all you like in the room but untill you meet up there is no way to tell. I would have gone to the last munchie but I was on holiday in the Canaries and I am working when the Teeside one is on.
Who's tarring who with the same brush ? and why be so aggressive ? We are all entitled to our own opinions. I'm very pleased for those of you who have had some success. Did I say that I had'nt ? Coz I certainly have. I have been a member of this site for about 18 months I think. I have no intention of giving a score out but who's counting anyway.
All I meant was that compaired to other parts of the country I think the N/E is very quite in comparison.
All I meant was that compaired to other parts of the country I think the N/E is very quite in comparison.
I agree, I think the North East is as dead as a dodo as far as swinging goes. I am a member of a couple of sites that have chat rooms and there hardly ever seems to be anyone from the N/E in. Now before some clever clog sayus "well I've never seen adventurer in the chat rooms" thats because my chat room name is neandy. I am in most days and there is hardly anyone from the N/E either in or willing to talk to a single guy.
Look in the Forums. When was the last time you saw any dogging activity except from a single guy. Or any offers to meet up, except from a single two clubs that I know of in Newcastle have had very mixed reviews and are so pricey for a new single guy that it puts you off. For example £90 for a first visit !
Compared to the activity that seems to be going on in the Midlands for example I'm afraid that the N/E must be the doldrums of the swinging world
Go on someone prove me wrong !
Look in the Forums. When was the last time you saw any dogging activity except from a single guy. Or any offers to meet up, except from a single two clubs that I know of in Newcastle have had very mixed reviews and are so pricey for a new single guy that it puts you off. For example £90 for a first visit !
Compared to the activity that seems to be going on in the Midlands for example I'm afraid that the N/E must be the doldrums of the swinging world
Go on someone prove me wrong !
Well this debate does not look like ending !
For what it's worth, I think it is a great shame that what was once a friendly, easygoing site, has now degenerated into a "them" and "us" situation. I used to be in the chat room all the time under my chat name of neandy. i stopped because it was becoming more and more obvious that there was a large element who did not want single guys in there. It had become very clique and It was almost impossible to get anyone, other than bi guys (not that there is any thing wrong in being bi) who were willing to talk to you.
Hopefully this can be resolved (by dropping the silly idea) and we can get back to just having a bit of fun.
At the end of the day, who really cares who has shagged who !
For what it's worth, I think it is a great shame that what was once a friendly, easygoing site, has now degenerated into a "them" and "us" situation. I used to be in the chat room all the time under my chat name of neandy. i stopped because it was becoming more and more obvious that there was a large element who did not want single guys in there. It had become very clique and It was almost impossible to get anyone, other than bi guys (not that there is any thing wrong in being bi) who were willing to talk to you.
Hopefully this can be resolved (by dropping the silly idea) and we can get back to just having a bit of fun.
At the end of the day, who really cares who has shagged who !
