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alex111
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 60
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Quote by naughtynymphos1
Personally i think many cpls see single guys as people they can just make the rules with and the guys just have to go alone with it, maybe cause theres so many single men they feel they can treat them how they like and just drop them for another if they 'dare' to disagreelike pete said i wouldn’t even bother to send an apology if someone decided to send me a dress code so why should you? don't feel bad you just met a cpl that wanted something diffarent out of swinging than you, imagin what they would be like if u actually met if they laying rule out like that b4 you have even said hello face to face!! just move on i'm sure there will be many couples u get on with out there its just finding them, u know the saying.....u have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince
I have noticed this also. On a couple ofoccasions I have decided not to reply or decline the offer when being presented with repeated demands which I feel unwilling to comply with.
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I also think you are being harsh on yourself, why not try and focus on the fun element of things and try and relax about things.
Dont take it all so serious its not a test of your character or moral fiber.
Probably as most things in life it is not a black or white issue.
I have just back from a lecture in London where there guy there claimed that project mangement comprises of....
40 % Art.....People skills, commumications and social stuff.
40% .....Science, statistics, performance, charts, procedures and technical crap
20% Leadership.....think its self explanitory
Thinking of it like that I guess its a blend, what this guy was saying was that most mangers get the science and some of the leadership bits ok, but are crap at the art bit.
Ok so he is talking about a project manger but I think that probably still holds true for any mangement job, if you suceed at it you are probablly already doing those 3 things.
What you think?
I agree, a middle manager which it sounds like this guy is, should have a good idea what his team members are thinking and try to ensure that they are content in their work
Now you are confusing 'managing' with leadership skills - or theory X theory Y.
I have just back from a lecture in London where there guy there claimed that project mangement comprises of....
40 % Art.....People skills, commumications and social stuff.
40% .....Science, statistics, performance, charts, procedures and technical crap
20% Leadership.....think its self explanitory
Thinking of it like that I guess its a blend, what this guy was saying was that most mangers get the science and some of the leadership bits ok, but are crap at the art bit.
Ok so he is talking about a project manger but I think that probably still holds true for any mangement job, if you suceed at it you are probablly already doing those 3 things.
What you think?
Quote by PoloLady
Hmm not sure on that last comment....... If you are manging you need a team behind you to man the boat. How can you be manging well if people are thinking of jumping out of the boat.
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Cheeky in my earlier stuff, I forgot to mention if he is getting on your case / bullying / intimidating then you need to record it and try to state in a mater of fact maner that it is not acceptable or conjucive to good team working.
Hope it gets better for you anyway.
I agree, a middle manager which it sounds like this guy is, should have a good idea what his team members are thinking and try to ensure that they are content in their work
Now you are confusing 'managing' with leadership skills - or theory X theory Y.
Quote by Italeo
ok! all u disbelivers! try this!
black hole
warp drive
enershaldampeners?
transporters
lazers
just a few of the things on Star Treck that r now real an can be done?
Can't deny that m8, but I think most of them were "discovered" before GR -
Steven Hawking was working on black holes therories back in the 50's / early 60's
warp drive goes back to Einstein, it's just called a different name (speed of ight)
Now transporters - I'm with Shariff - can't wait.....
Correct me if Im wrong but I though Star Treck used Phasers that are always set to stun on order of captain Kirk........ where does the laser come in?
I used to help a local charity for over 2 years and I was gobsmacked at their attitude to money management and cost cutting.
Because they just ask for a grant or a donnation and either get it or dont, they had no concept of the value for money, if they had the money they would just blow the lot and and think , if we need any more will just ask someone else.
Because they just ask for a grant or a donnation and either get it or dont, they had no concept of the value for money, if they had the money they would just blow the lot and and think , if we need any more will just ask someone else.
Hmm not sure on that last comment....... If you are manging you need a team behind you to man the boat. How can you be manging well if people are thinking of jumping out of the boat.
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Cheeky in my earlier stuff, I forgot to mention if he is getting on your case / bullying / intimidating then you need to record it and try to state in a mater of fact maner that it is not acceptable or conjucive to good team working.
Hope it gets better for you anyway.
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Cheeky in my earlier stuff, I forgot to mention if he is getting on your case / bullying / intimidating then you need to record it and try to state in a mater of fact maner that it is not acceptable or conjucive to good team working.
Hope it gets better for you anyway.
A Syracuse University research team has discovered something quite remarkable, if not immediately useful in everyday life*: bats belonging to species where the females are promiscuous have bigger testicles than those in species where the girls are more family-oriented.
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There is, however, a price to pay: the bigger your 'nads, the smaller your brains, according to team leading biologist Scott Pitnick, who quipped: "It turns out size does matter."
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David Hoskens of Exeter Uni explained.
Pitnick's team examined 334 bat species, finding that in those with monogamous females, males had testes ranging from per cent of their body weight to 1.4 per cent. In contrast, in species with promiscuous females, the testicles ranged from 0.6 per cent to 8.5 per cent of the males' mass. Rafinesque's big-eared bat was apparently the species with the league-topping testes.
"Bats invest an enormous amount in testis, and the investment has to come from somewhere. There are no free lunches," Hoskens illuminated. The reason your bat might be obliged to invest so much in the trouser department is simple. "If female bats mate with more than one male, a sperm competition begins. The male who ejaculates the greatest number of sperm wins the game, and hence many bats have evolved outrageously big testes."
Naturally, if you've put all your energy into record-breaking nuts because the girls on your block are putting it about, you might have an "adaptive advantage", but there simply is not enough energy left to invest in a bigger brain.
Bat chaps are not the only males who walk bow-legged with a vacant expression on their faces - chimpanzees too are promiscuous and their cojones are much bigger than those of gorillas, where one bloke controls several females without fear of competition.
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There is, however, a price to pay: the bigger your 'nads, the smaller your brains, according to team leading biologist Scott Pitnick, who quipped: "It turns out size does matter."
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David Hoskens of Exeter Uni explained.
Pitnick's team examined 334 bat species, finding that in those with monogamous females, males had testes ranging from per cent of their body weight to 1.4 per cent. In contrast, in species with promiscuous females, the testicles ranged from 0.6 per cent to 8.5 per cent of the males' mass. Rafinesque's big-eared bat was apparently the species with the league-topping testes.
"Bats invest an enormous amount in testis, and the investment has to come from somewhere. There are no free lunches," Hoskens illuminated. The reason your bat might be obliged to invest so much in the trouser department is simple. "If female bats mate with more than one male, a sperm competition begins. The male who ejaculates the greatest number of sperm wins the game, and hence many bats have evolved outrageously big testes."
Naturally, if you've put all your energy into record-breaking nuts because the girls on your block are putting it about, you might have an "adaptive advantage", but there simply is not enough energy left to invest in a bigger brain.
Bat chaps are not the only males who walk bow-legged with a vacant expression on their faces - chimpanzees too are promiscuous and their cojones are much bigger than those of gorillas, where one bloke controls several females without fear of competition.
Hi guys this is my first posting, I have know about SH for couple of years but tended to flick through once every six months or so. Usually creating new user name each time.
Its taken a while but I have finally decided to join in with things as you look a friendly enough bunch.
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I cant remember for sure but if SH was running around Feb 2000 then that would have been when I first was introduced to this site (not voluntarily), if not then I may be getting confused with another site.
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Anyway nice reading you comments and stuff and I appolgise in advance for my own ramblings.
Alex
