Hi and thanks for looking.

Before anything else - sadly - because of the nature of things, this:
You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.

May 2024: current circumstances mean that I'm not actively meeting at the moment. I'm still happy - and keen - to make contact, swap messages and images and engage with good-humoured people for mutually stimulating exchanges, though 😀

Well into the mid-50s (but feels more like early 40s and we all say that) but very much still alive and fully functional, slim, fit, clean and straight (not even mildly curious, not even a tiny, weeny little bit, so please don't ask. Any messages suggesting MM encounters will be deleted), looking for dependable and straight-forward couples and single women with a twinkle in their eye and a wry smile on their attractive faces, who enjoy relaxed, good-natured adult encounters. 

Good sexual fun with straight-forward, reliable people is what I'm looking for, simple as that. I'm experienced but wouldn't call myself a hardened swinger - I just enjoy select sexual rendezvous with genuine, appealing people - quality over quantity. And it's not just about stimulating the nerves at the end of my dangling man-brain; it's about the touch, the texture, skin on skin, the sound of female arousal and satisfaction - sensory and sensual indulgence.

I'm always happy to go at your pace to help things to happen. I don't take myself too seriously ( but I don't trivialise things, either) and am easy-going, non-pushy and reliable. Repeat or regular meets with the right people are always good, but the thrill of one-offs can be great fun, too. I am told I'm very good with quiet, shy or uncertain women: I'm certainly very happy to go at your pace and engage in lengthy sensual play to help you relax and, if you explicitly choose to go no further, then I'm happy to accept that.

Being able to hold a conversation is essential and a sense of humour always helps, leading to genuine hot, horny, naughty fun with lots of teasing and build up.

I'm also very good with roleplay so if a girls' carpet needs laying, plumbing requires skilled attention, an in-depth medical opinion is called for or performance at work needs a suitable, suited critical, in-depth hands-on critique, do get in touch! Who knows, you may even discover the kind of desk-job you can really enjoy!

I don't really do technology so my web-cam use is sporadic-to-incompetent but I'm happy to E-mail, exchange pics and talk. A first meeting somewhere public and of your choosing that's completely "social, with options but no strings" if you need to ease or lubricate any doubts is fine by me. I'm particularly good and patient with the shy yet sexually frustrated and needful: time taken really can be effort mutually rewarded.

Safe sex and, please, open, fun-seeking people with a sense of humour only. Thanks!

All messages will be replied to, even if they're just "Hi. Really like your profile, why don't you drop by and have a look at mine, and let me know what you think?" or "Why don't you edit your profile? I lost the will to live half way through!" The exception is those from bi-guys who haven't read the profile and are suggesting MM encounters: not my thing, those messages will be binned.

Have fun, stay safe!

Barry.x

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