blonde wrote:
For my sins I prefer Cuddly !!!!!
Dawn_Mids wrote:
Me too
I like it even more if they have a little fluffy belly
All I can say is Thank You Ladies :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:
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cuddlyk
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:welcome: Hello and welcome to the site :welcome:
I'm not a bi female I am afraid, but if it is any consolation I am a lesbian in a man's body inasmuch as I only ever make love to ladies
A fellow Sussex nutcase. We will have to organise a Sussex get together soon.
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I'm not a bi female I am afraid, but if it is any consolation I am a lesbian in a man's body inasmuch as I only ever make love to ladies
A fellow Sussex nutcase. We will have to organise a Sussex get together soon.
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Littlemee wrote
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Reading about all you lovely 20 & 30-something year old women being happily involved with 40 & 50-something year old men is warming the cockles of this old gits heart.
cuddlyk wrote
You are not alone in that my frfiend
Roll on Saturday and Rio's
Mia, does that mean you accept I am an old git:( :( :( :( :( :(
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Littlemee wrote
You are not alone in that my frfiend :lol:
Rollon Saturday and Rio's
:D
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Reading about all you lovely 20 & 30-something year old women being happily involved with 40 & 50-something year old men is warming the cockles of this old gits heart.
You are not alone in that my frfiend
:lol: Rollon Saturday and Rio's
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As one of the more senior (in age ) members I was pleased to read so many ladies saying age is not the number one thing for them, and they prefer older men :smug:
In the last couple of years I have had two experiences with 19 year old ladies. :lol: That makes an age difference of nearly 40 years
The first was quite happy for me to 'chat her up' in a club, but when we went to bed she just lay there and let me do everything. She said because I was older I should know what I was doing and she wanted to learn from that. :shock: All well and good, but shagging takes two to make it worthwhile.
The second lady I met at work and she made a play for me within a couple of weeks. That was a much happier :happy: experience as she was up for it as much as I was. Please don't call me a dirty old man for I defy any red-blooded male to turn down a very pretty 19 year old with all the right bits in the right place, and plenty of them
For myself I tend to usually find myself in the company of 30 to 50 year olds, and as long as the ladies are happy with that then I am not going to argue. As others have said, it is the person that matters, not their age :lol:
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) members I was pleased to read so many ladies saying age is not the number one thing for them, and they prefer older men :smug: In the last couple of years I have had two experiences with 19 year old ladies. :lol: That makes an age difference of nearly 40 years
The first was quite happy for me to 'chat her up' in a club, but when we went to bed she just lay there and let me do everything. She said because I was older I should know what I was doing and she wanted to learn from that. :shock: All well and good, but shagging takes two to make it worthwhile.
The second lady I met at work and she made a play for me within a couple of weeks. That was a much happier :happy: experience as she was up for it as much as I was. Please don't call me a dirty old man for I defy any red-blooded male to turn down a very pretty 19 year old with all the right bits in the right place, and plenty of them
For myself I tend to usually find myself in the company of 30 to 50 year olds, and as long as the ladies are happy with that then I am not going to argue. As others have said, it is the person that matters, not their age :lol:
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Good thread :happy:
Came on this morning for a bit of a laugh and left, after reading all the niggling posts, quite depressed
So I wholeheartedly agree with what has been said before here. Let's have fun and enjoy each others company and leave the whinging to other sites
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Came on this morning for a bit of a laugh and left, after reading all the niggling posts, quite depressed
So I wholeheartedly agree with what has been said before here. Let's have fun and enjoy each others company and leave the whinging to other sites
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My Dearest No. 1 Fan :inlove:
I was sad to receive your letter :cry: If you are such a fan how were you able to write anything at all Let me try and suggest ways you might find helpful to overcome your worries
Remove any ex boyfriend's/girlfriend's number from your telephone speed dial. I can fully understand the need to converse with someone at 2 am and would suggest the following. Open you phone book and at the overseas codes page and randomly choose a country
Dial the code and any series of numbers until you hear a ringing tone. When the phone is answered you can chirrup away to your hearts content. 
This has 3 distinct advantages over phoning an ex. Firstly you may have called someone in a country where it is a more civilised hour, thus not disturbing their sleep. Secondly they may not speak English so will have no idea of what you are talking about. Lastly, and very important, they will not have a clue who you are and will not be coming round in the morning to knock your block off :evil:
I can see nothing wrong with your eating habits. Sounds to me to be a very neutritianal and well balanced diet :lol:
You are not clumsy. Indeed you do not have to move at all. If you stand, or if tired lay down, you will find everything moves around you with no effort at all to yourself.
By now, being a no. 1 fan, hangovers should be a thing of the past. However I do sympathise and can only sugest you increase the dosages of your precautions. Also try drinking a pint of milk before joining me :shock:
As for finding words difficult, or impossible to say when we have spent a happy evening together, why try and speak at all. Enjoy the moment :lol: If you cannot remember in the morning what the moment was, do not fear. In the cold light of day (I am not at my best then) you may look at who is laying beside you and think "What have I done
ops: " Do not do this. Cherish the thought that it seemed like a good idea at the time and that at you at least had a shag :taz:
I hope this helps and I look forward to our next meeting very soon.
Yours forever,
Al :inlove:
I was sad to receive your letter :cry: If you are such a fan how were you able to write anything at all
Let me try and suggest ways you might find helpful to overcome your worries Remove any ex boyfriend's/girlfriend's number from your telephone speed dial. I can fully understand the need to converse with someone at 2 am and would suggest the following. Open you phone book and at the overseas codes page and randomly choose a country
Dial the code and any series of numbers until you hear a ringing tone. When the phone is answered you can chirrup away to your hearts content. This has 3 distinct advantages over phoning an ex. Firstly you may have called someone in a country where it is a more civilised hour, thus not disturbing their sleep. Secondly they may not speak English so will have no idea of what you are talking about. Lastly, and very important, they will not have a clue who you are and will not be coming round in the morning to knock your block off :evil: I can see nothing wrong with your eating habits. Sounds to me to be a very neutritianal and well balanced diet :lol:
You are not clumsy. Indeed you do not have to move at all. If you stand, or if tired lay down, you will find everything moves around you with no effort at all to yourself.
By now, being a no. 1 fan, hangovers should be a thing of the past. However I do sympathise and can only sugest you increase the dosages of your precautions. Also try drinking a pint of milk before joining me :shock:
As for finding words difficult, or impossible to say when we have spent a happy evening together, why try and speak at all. Enjoy the moment :lol: If you cannot remember in the morning what the moment was, do not fear. In the cold light of day (I am not at my best then) you may look at who is laying beside you and think "What have I done
ops: " Do not do this. Cherish the thought that it seemed like a good idea at the time and that at you at least had a shag :taz: I hope this helps and I look forward to our next meeting very soon.
Yours forever,
Al :inlove:
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Judy, that was a very interesting piece. I have not studied the culture of the katoe in any depth, though am well aware of the accepted 3rd sex in Thailand. From personal observation I doubt very much the modern katoe is as deeply into the Buddhist part of her life as her predecessors. Of course they may well be at home, and knowing the farang's ignorance about such things. and the western hang-ups, these delightful, charming ladies do not discuss such things with us, doubting if we would fully understand. :lol:
Because the economic structure of Thailand is such that the majority of people are poor it is a fact of life many ladyboys turn to prostitution to raise money, both for day to day living and to save up for their operation. Sadly those that chose this route are not as beautiful and charming as their sisters who take the entertainment route. In many parts of Thailand, or at least in many parts of the tourist trail, many post op stay in prostitution because they have become used to the life and know no other way. As every bargirl in Thailand dreams of a farang to come along and take her out of the bar scene into, what for her, is the life of someone fairly wealthy so the prostitute katoes hope for the same thing to happen to them.
Being both Thai and Buddhist neither gender consider themselves as prostitutes. They will always tell you they are going with their boyfriend. In this way they somehow do not lose face, something very important to the Thai people. The Thai girls, boys and katoes who are regarded as prostitutes are not those who frequent the farang bars of Bangkok, Pattaya etc. but the bretheren who service Thai men. These are people who have generally been sold to loan sharks by their parents to pay off debts and are forced into selling their bodies whether they want to or not. As this area starts getting very close to child prostitution I will take it no further.
I will look out for the book you suggest. I certainly do not try to put myself up as an expert, merely one who passes on his own experiences. Having said that, I am always looking to learn and, from what you say this book would be very helpful indeed. :lol:
I have not studied the culture of the katoe in any depth, though am well aware of the accepted 3rd sex in Thailand. From personal observation I doubt very much the modern katoe is as deeply into the Buddhist part of her life as her predecessors. Of course they may well be at home, and knowing the farang's ignorance about such things. and the western hang-ups, these delightful, charming ladies do not discuss such things with us, doubting if we would fully understand. :lol: Because the economic structure of Thailand is such that the majority of people are poor it is a fact of life many ladyboys turn to prostitution to raise money, both for day to day living and to save up for their operation. Sadly those that chose this route are not as beautiful and charming as their sisters who take the entertainment route. In many parts of Thailand, or at least in many parts of the tourist trail, many post op stay in prostitution because they have become used to the life and know no other way. As every bargirl in Thailand dreams of a farang to come along and take her out of the bar scene into, what for her, is the life of someone fairly wealthy so the prostitute katoes hope for the same thing to happen to them.
Being both Thai and Buddhist neither gender consider themselves as prostitutes. They will always tell you they are going with their boyfriend. In this way they somehow do not lose face, something very important to the Thai people. The Thai girls, boys and katoes who are regarded as prostitutes are not those who frequent the farang bars of Bangkok, Pattaya etc. but the bretheren who service Thai men. These are people who have generally been sold to loan sharks by their parents to pay off debts and are forced into selling their bodies whether they want to or not. As this area starts getting very close to child prostitution I will take it no further.
I will look out for the book you suggest. I certainly do not try to put myself up as an expert, merely one who passes on his own experiences. Having said that, I am always looking to learn and, from what you say this book would be very helpful indeed. :lol:
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I notice on another posting, where somebody had their words well and truly mixed up, some folk used the mix up to mention ladyboys so I thought I would give my experiences of those I have met.
Firstly they are split into 2 different groups. Firstly are the young men who know their femine side is the dominant one but who have not been able to do anything about it, mainly through lack of money. :cry: Most are from upcountry but all, eventually, find their way down to Bangkok. There they soon learn there are only 3 ways they can get out of their predicament and raise enough money to have the operation which would turn them into what they aspire to be, ladies. Basically this is prostitution, crime or showbiz. So much depends on who they become friends with in Bangkok.
To earn big money fairly quickly then prostitution is a huge temptation. (I must add here we are talking of young men, not children. Ladyboys abhore child prostitution as much as anybody.) If they are really unlucky they will get with one the teams of ladyboys who harass tourists and locals alike to pick pocket, snatch handbags or steal anything to raise money. By the time the gang split the proceeds each one does not 'earn' much. It is almost certain that, sooner or later, they will end up in the 'monkey house' (jail) :cry: Occasionally the local government decide it is time for a crackdown and the police will make indiscriminent swoops. If you do not have enough 'tea money' (bribes) then you will be carted off. So then they end up selling their bodies for cigarettes and food.
If you have any kind of talent, be it singing, acting, playing an instrument or whatever then you have a good chance of teaming up with a ladymen group as a performer. Here they will be taken under the wings of older ladyboys, known as katoes, who will take good care of them, help them to better their performing skills and be able to advise them on such things as good doctors, clinics etc. If in a concert group the ladyboys are encouraged to save (not a natural thing for Thais who very much live for the day) so they can get their operations as quickly as possible.
As a generalisation, for each person is different, I can say the ladyboys I have met are generally polite but with a sense of sadnes hanging over them. By contrast the katoes, with their theatrical training, are extremely witty and great company. Having become what they aspired to for so long the ladies learn very quickly how to dress, use makeup to its best affect and very often are far more beautiful than the Thai ladies. When you consider how beautiful the ladies of Thailand are perseved by the rest of the worl that is a compliment indeed.
I well remember one of my first meetings with a bunch of katoes. It was in Chang Mai, a northern city, and I could not help but notice many beautiful women going into a disco opposite. I asked the girl at the bar what was happening and she told me it was a beauty pageant. I went over to the disco to have a look and it was not until the announcer crowned the winner and told us we had the new Miss Katoe Thailand I realised all these beauties were, by birth, men. After the show they all mixed easily with the patrons of the event and it was here I first came upon their delightful, gentle humour and open friendliness.
Thailand is meant to be a 'third world' country, but the population treats ladyboys and katoes as they would anyone else. Many people in the west, including U.K., would do well to accept those who are thought to be 'different' in the same open way. :lol
Firstly they are split into 2 different groups. Firstly are the young men who know their femine side is the dominant one but who have not been able to do anything about it, mainly through lack of money. :cry: Most are from upcountry but all, eventually, find their way down to Bangkok. There they soon learn there are only 3 ways they can get out of their predicament and raise enough money to have the operation which would turn them into what they aspire to be, ladies. Basically this is prostitution, crime or showbiz. So much depends on who they become friends with in Bangkok.
To earn big money fairly quickly then prostitution is a huge temptation. (I must add here we are talking of young men, not children. Ladyboys abhore child prostitution as much as anybody.) If they are really unlucky they will get with one the teams of ladyboys who harass tourists and locals alike to pick pocket, snatch handbags or steal anything to raise money. By the time the gang split the proceeds each one does not 'earn' much. It is almost certain that, sooner or later, they will end up in the 'monkey house' (jail) :cry: Occasionally the local government decide it is time for a crackdown and the police will make indiscriminent swoops. If you do not have enough 'tea money' (bribes) then you will be carted off. So then they end up selling their bodies for cigarettes and food.
If you have any kind of talent, be it singing, acting, playing an instrument or whatever then you have a good chance of teaming up with a ladymen group as a performer. Here they will be taken under the wings of older ladyboys, known as katoes, who will take good care of them, help them to better their performing skills and be able to advise them on such things as good doctors, clinics etc. If in a concert group the ladyboys are encouraged to save (not a natural thing for Thais who very much live for the day) so they can get their operations as quickly as possible.
As a generalisation, for each person is different, I can say the ladyboys I have met are generally polite but with a sense of sadnes hanging over them. By contrast the katoes, with their theatrical training, are extremely witty and great company. Having become what they aspired to for so long the ladies learn very quickly how to dress, use makeup to its best affect and very often are far more beautiful than the Thai ladies. When you consider how beautiful the ladies of Thailand are perseved by the rest of the worl that is a compliment indeed.
I well remember one of my first meetings with a bunch of katoes. It was in Chang Mai, a northern city, and I could not help but notice many beautiful women going into a disco opposite. I asked the girl at the bar what was happening and she told me it was a beauty pageant. I went over to the disco to have a look and it was not until the announcer crowned the winner and told us we had the new Miss Katoe Thailand I realised all these beauties were, by birth, men. After the show they all mixed easily with the patrons of the event and it was here I first came upon their delightful, gentle humour and open friendliness.
Thailand is meant to be a 'third world' country, but the population treats ladyboys and katoes as they would anyone else. Many people in the west, including U.K., would do well to accept those who are thought to be 'different' in the same open way. :lol
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I am a mature, cuddly guy looking to renew an active part in the bedtime olympics
I have been told I have a magic tongue, and my fingers can still do the walking However I need someone to help me reach other parts that think they have been forgotten so if you think you are the lady to renew my previous desires, and make the flesh as willing as the spirit, then please get in touch :lol:
I have been told I have a magic tongue,
and my fingers can still do the walking However I need someone to help me reach other parts that think they have been forgotten so if you think you are the lady to renew my previous desires, and make the flesh as willing as the spirit, then please get in touch :lol: Warming the Bed
Maia wrote:
There are so many girl/girl videos out there where they pleasure each other with all sorts of things. Anything that in any way resembles a cock seems to be accepted. :shock: So we mere male mortals, thinking that if ladies do it to each other then they must like it, are simply following suit with the intentions of enhancing the lady's pleasure.
Like everything else involving interaction between 2 human beings not everybody likes everything. If the lady is more than happy with tongue, fingers and cock that is great. If she wants to be adventurous and try something new, or repeat something she has done before and enjopyed, then that is fine as well
And by the way, what's with the obsession with sticking inanimate food objects in a woman's fanny??? Really guys, cocks are more than adequate....
There are so many girl/girl videos out there where they pleasure each other with all sorts of things. Anything that in any way resembles a cock seems to be accepted. :shock: So we mere male mortals, thinking that if ladies do it to each other then they must like it, are simply following suit with the intentions of enhancing the lady's pleasure.
Like everything else involving interaction between 2 human beings not everybody likes everything. If the lady is more than happy with tongue, fingers and cock that is great. If she wants to be adventurous and try something new, or repeat something she has done before and enjopyed, then that is fine as well
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hayleyw2 wrote:
I had a girlfriend who gave me a wank when I was driving. Quite an experience trying to concentrate on the road and her hand. :shock: See ladies, men can do 2 things at once
While on the subject are have been 2 things I would like an answer on. Why is 'wanker' used in such a derogatory way when we all do it
Does it count as a wank when a partner does it for you
Does anyone else wank whilst driving
I had a girlfriend who gave me a wank when I was driving. Quite an experience trying to concentrate on the road and her hand. :shock: See ladies, men can do 2 things at once
While on the subject are have been 2 things I would like an answer on. Why is 'wanker' used in such a derogatory way when we all do it
Does it count as a wank when a partner does it for you
